you can konw a lot about a person through the types of friends this person has - 副本

youcanknowa lotaboutapersonthroughthetypesoffriendsthispersonhasThereisanoldsayinggoeslikethis"peoplearedivedintogroupsbytheirhobbies".(peopleofonemindfallintothesamegroupandbirdsofafeatherflocktogether)Variousthoughcharacteristicshumanbeingsexhibitare,itissurelytruethatatsomepointwecouldjudgepersonfromthefriendsaroundthembecauseonlydotheysharesomesimilaritiescantheybecomefriends.AsfarasIamconcerned,atleastlifehabits,quality(qualities)andpreferences(hobbies)couldbelearned.Thefoundationofanyrelationshipistolerance(anyrelationshipisbuiltuponthefoundationoftolerance),whichmeansthat(onlysharingbasiclifehabitscanleadtoaharmoniouslifetogether)theycouldlivetogetherandmustsharebasiclifehabits.Iftherearesomehabitsthatseverly(seriously)affecttheotherone,theycouldn'tbefriends.Forexample,oneofmyclassmatessmokesthetimehefellsupsetdownorhasnothingtodo.ThemomenthewalktowardsmemyheartfeltdetestarisebecauseIdon'twanthiscigarettetoharmmyhealth.Duetothis,weareunlikelytosittogetherandcommunicatewitheach,nottosaywecouldbefriends.However,stillmanyfriendsplayaroundhim,talkingabouttheirfavoritetopicsandofcourseenjoyingtheircigarettes.IfIdon'tknowhimbutlearnthathisfriendsallhavecigarettes,thenIalsocanmaketheassumptionthathehave(has)thehabitsaswell.Obviously,allmyfriendsdon'thavecigarettes.Furthermore,thequalitycouldalsobeinferredfromthefriendsthepersongetalongwith.Itisancommonsensethatkind-heartedpersonswillnotmakefriendswithevilones.Similarly,apersonwithambious(ambitious)aimswillnotsatisfywiththeonewhoholdthebeliefthatleadinganordinarylifeisenough,what'smore,ahardworkingstudentarereluctanttostudywithalazyone.Soitisacommonphenomenonthatpeoplesaregoodfriendswhosharesamevaluesthatonlysettingupacompanyandmakinghugeamountsofprofitsisthesymbolofsuccess.Finally,thepreferencesofthepersoncouldalsobereckonedfromhisfriends.Becausegoodfriendsalwayssharethesamehobbies.Thismakesmethinkofthebuildupers(founders)ofthemostfamouscompanyMicrosoft,BillGatesandHelon(PaulAllen),bothofthemhaveafavortowardscomputertechnology.Beforethesettingupofthecompany,theyhadalwaysstudycomputertechniques.WhenBillGateshadanidea,theymakethecooperationtookoff.BillGatesisfamousallaroundtheworld,whileHelonmaybealittlesilent.However,IcoulddefinitelysaythatHelonalsohasatalentoncomputerskill.Fromwhathasbeendiscussedabove,Icouldsafelydrawtheconclusionthatwecouldcertainlyknowalotaboutapersonfromthefriendsaroundthepeople.Thereisanoldsayinggoeslikethis,peopleofonemindfallintothesamegroupandbirdsofafeatherflocktogether.Variousthoughcharacteristicshumanbeingsexhibitare,itissurelytruethatatsomepointwecouldjudgepersonfromthefriendsaroundthembecauseonlydotheysharesomesimilaritiescantheybecomefriends.AsfarasIamconcerned,atleastlifehabits,qualities,andpreferencescouldbelearned.Anyrelationshipisbuiltuponthefoundationoftolerance,whichmeansthatonlysharingbasiclifehabitscanleadtoaharmoniouslifetogether.Conflictsbetweentheirlifehabitsweighheavilyagainstthedevelopment,orevenbuildup,oftheirfriendship.Forexample,oneofmyclassmatessmokesaslongasthetimehehasnothingtodoorfellsupsetdown.ThemomenthewalkstowardsmemyheartfeltdetestarisesbecauseIdon'twanthiscigarettetoharmmyhealth.Duetothis,weareunlikelytosittogetherandcommunicatewitheachother,nottosaywecouldbefriends.However,stillmanyfriendsplayaroundhim,talkingabouttheirfavoritetopicsandofcourseenjoyingtheircigarettes.IalsocanmaketheassumptionthathesmokeseventhoughIdon'tknowhimbutlearnthathisfriendsallhavethehabit,Then,inthesameway,allmyfriendsdon't.Furthermore,thequalitycouldalsobeinferredfromthefriendsthatthepersongetalongwith.Haveyoueverseenthatakind-heartedpersonmakesfriendwithanevilone.?Isn’titpreposterousthatapersonwithambitiousgoalstalkshappilywithamanholdingthebeliefthatleadinganordinarylifeisenough?what'smore,didyouexperiencethatinyourclassahardworkingstudentalwaysstudieswithalazyone?ThereisnodoubtthatalltheanswersareNo!Qualityistheinnerappearanceofaperson,andaremarkedpropertyofqualityisexclusiveness.Insofaraswecansaythatfromidentifyingaperson¡¯sfriendswecanjudgehimaccuratelyfromnineoutoftenFinally,thepreferencesofthepersoncouldalsobereckoned.Becausegoodfriendsalwayssharethesamehobbies.Itiswellknownthatsamehobbiesdeepenfriendship.ThismakesmethinkofthefoundersofthemostfamouscompanyMicrosoft,BillGatesandPaulAllen,bothofthemhaveafavortowardscomputertechnology.Beforethesetupofthecompany,theyhadalwaysstudycomputertechniquestogether.WhenBillGateshadanidea,theymakethecooperationtookoff.BillGatesisfamousallaroundtheworld,whileAllenmaybealittlesilent.Comparatively,GatesismorewellknownthanAllen,andIamfamiliarwiththebackgroundofGatesbutknowlittleaboutAllen.However,IcoulddefinitelysaythatAllenalsohasatalentoncomputerskill,becausetheylasttheirfriendshipfordecadesevenbeforethefoundofthecompany.Fromwhathasbeendiscussedabove,Icouldsafelydrawtheconclusionthatwecouldcertainlyknowalotaboutapersonfromthefriendsaroundthepeople.