爱情 - 散文 - 红袖添香

人们都说爱情的美好的。爱情是杯神奇的酒，谈了恋爱的人被形容容光焕发、神采奕奕，时时刻刻都说面带微笑的，这就是爱情的魅力;爱情也是毒药，一旦染上他，有的人会变得憔悴不堪，愁眉苦脸，原本朝气蓬勃，也变得郁郁寡欢，仿佛一夜之间长大了很多很多。 爱情常常被人形容是甜蜜的，而非全部都是甜蜜的。爱情他也有苦涩的。苦涩的爱情是会让人卑微。一个原本自信满满的人，一旦陷入爱情，他会变得自卑，尤其到了他喜欢的人的面前，平日里夸夸奇谈，口若悬河，甚至幽默的一个人，一旦面对自己喜欢的人，顿时无话可说，甚至说话结结巴巴，你可知道它才不结巴呢。是爱情让他变得如此，变得笨手笨脚。 爱情的强弱也是不同的。当两人两情相悦时，两个人是出于一种公平的位置上，一旦两个人处于一厢情愿的状态下，假若男的喜欢女的，女的不喜欢男的，那么还好一点，一旦这个男的追不上这个女的，他不会伤心难过太久，过不了多久他就会又有新的追求对象了;而一旦是女的喜欢男的，而男的不喜欢女的，这就很糟糕了。因为一个女子喜欢上一个男的，说明这个女的已经注意他很久了，而且是很深了，她不会像男孩那样勇敢的说出来，她只是默默的关注这个她为之倾心的男孩，情绪会因为她的变化而变化，甚至直到两个人再也见不到面或者这个男孩结了婚她才可能罢休。这就是暗恋，很苦很涩很卑微。 爱情是让人神往的，所以无论我们处于什么位置，希望爱情都是纯洁的，不要被玷污，永远保留着爱情的美丽。 背倚寒窗，不知怎么就舍不得关上窗户。虽是南国，夜风也有些寒凉。这样的夜里，情弦轻易的就被拨动。不想阻止，就静静的依在夜色里轻轻的... 只是遥望，却也会无法呼吸。只能逃离，不想逃离，时光的浅唱中，让自己不停的忙碌。把那心思一点点挤压在拥挤的时间里，不留一点刻意的痕迹，只是故意看不到。 终于来了夜，拂去红尘的纤杂杂念，在红尘的一隅，静静的，不再胆怯，不再矜持，不再刻意的回避。只是一丝清冷的风吹拂着，溢满温柔的悸动，似乎是你轻抚过我的脸颊。 只是微微伸手，握一缕，犹如听到你的呢喃，清凉得那么温柔，那么温暖。 二 红尘滚滚，偏与你遇。我相信，哪怕再来，还是你。 当你的身影，从那还未完全散开的薄雾中飘渺而来，滑进我的眼眸;当你的微笑，从那还未退去的潮水里悄然绽放，漫过我的心灵。可知，你浅浅的眼神，淡淡的思绪，隐隐的微笑，薄薄的嗔怒，或是若有所思，或是如心有所念，或是因有所乐，或是不胜娇羞，总会牵动我的心。 我们在文字里畅扬，在音乐里舞蹈;我们在夜空下低语，在阳光下微笑;我们在落叶里飞扬，在雪花中轻唱。思念，在四季轮回中，无声无息，又变幻着姿势。 是你的温润细语，风干了我千年的落寞，固守的情怀，在心动的那一刻，为你倾情绽放。 是你的真心呵护与疼爱，拂去了我眼里的忧伤，情弦就在那一刻，为你轻轻奏响。 从秋天的落叶，到冬日的飞雪，从春天的百花，到夏日的碧荷，一路辛酸泪，两颗真爱心。 想你，喜欢在夜里。夜色隐藏了世间的喧哗，相思便没有了阻碍，忽略掉了尘世的烦忧与牵绊，任想你的心，在夜空下一泻千里，直达你的身旁。 三 月解重圆星解聚，玉人情深调琴瑟，海阔山遥归无期，千里婵娟共今夕。 望太久，盼相依，终是梦，哪怕是一个永远无法实现的梦，我也想这梦，开出的花儿有着久远的芬芳，伴我一路的清香。 每一个想你的夜，有浅浅的清愁，有低低的叹息。可今夜，在这个特别的日子，我眼里upgrade and expansion, whole system construction of guideline followed following principles: Advanced: full reference both at home and abroad advanced, and mature of technology, and method and means, Project design, technical product leader, mature products as possible on the main equipment selection, technical lead and aligned with national standards of general-purpose, standard equipment. Systematization: strictly follow the view of system engineering and construction, has always been to practice engineering integrity, hierarchy, and adaptability to the external environment for constructive purposes. Maximize the business integration, functional integration and avoid different products, different standards and specifications of piecing together and combination of the system. Openness and standardization: hardware device selects the domestic and foreign well-known products, system architecture and protocol standards are in accordance with the ITU-t international industry standards and ISO standards of design, core systems and devices, following international standards, harmonization of standards, ensure system scalability and continuity of the system. Practicality: ensure high availability of the system performance with high reliability and flexibility both; first to ensure stable and reliable operation of the system, and using redundancy design of key components of the key position then to simple, technologically advanced, economical and practical. Extensible and maintainable: within the expected life cycle of systems or equipment, can be upgraded and modified to meet the needs of the user actions and application requirements change. And ensures after-sales service 流淌着快乐，我轻敲键盘的声响，都成了祝福你的话语。 我这儿正是寒冷的冬天，相思，只能透过冰凉的指尖，敲成一行行的心语，寄予远在身处夏日的南国的你。 还记得那一个亲吻，瞬间的羞涩里，有我满满的幸福，这一吻，包含了多少的疼多少的爱, 还记得你说:我爱你。当这三个字从你的心里蹦出的时候，我的心开出了一世芬芳，低眉笑眼里，心跳声，奏响了春天的旋律。 爱就一个字，今生的我还没有勇气向谁说出。因为爱不是承诺，不是一个孤单的字，而是给予爱人实实在在的行动。爱是责任，爱是义务，爱是植入琐碎生活的点点滴滴。我不想轻易的把这个字说出，不是怕承担不起，只是怕辜负了真心的付出，如果守住了坚持，到那时再说也不迟。 有一种情感，是永久的驻留，不是在嘴上的承诺，不是世俗的张扬，它就铭记在心灵的某个地方，深深的痕迹如呼吸般顺畅自然。 四 你的生日，在又一个冬雪纷飞的季节来到了。今晚，这儿的夜空没有星星，没有月亮。唯有我想你的眸子在夜下晶亮，唯我想你的心，在夜下跳动。 今夜，在这个不一样的日子，就让我静静的想你。你听，你耳边的风声，是我对你的轻语。你看，你窗台上摇落的烛影，是我对你的牵挂。你听，远处飘荡的音乐，是我缠绵的情丝。你看，你书桌前，那些跳动的文字，都是我对你的思念。 想你，总会在不经意间占据我的心房。这种思念如清清的溪水，绵长而清新，自然而纯美。喜欢这种感觉，淡淡的思念，浓浓的情意，深深的牵挂，天涯的你总会让我在淡品生活的日子里快乐着幸福着。我知道，相爱却不能相守，两心相许只能在远处默默的守望，这未必不是一种幸福，这样的思念未必不是一种甜蜜。爱更应该给人带来喜悦与欢乐，而不是痛苦与悲伤。 想像着你的成长，一路上有苦有甜，有泪有笑，每一个经历都是你人生路上不可多得的财富。 感谢你的父母把你养育成如此优秀的男儿，也感谢上天，把你带到我的身旁，如此深深的爱着我。 波瑶池梦幻真，今夕携手舞红尘。红尘有你，幸福相随。人生苦短，不管未来的我们将何去何从，此生遇见，真美。此时相依，幸福。 五 今夜，我什么也不去做，什么也不要想，心里只装着你，牵着你的手，温暖我的梦，相依浅笑。 天涯遥远，情无距。相信，此刻的你，正情意深深的望着我，想着我，眼里心里满满的都是我。我也要你的心上只有我。 今夜的你，一个人在远方。但今夜的你不会孤单。因为，我的心与你一起跳动着。你的心牵着我的情，我的心依着你的爱。两颗心一齐跳动，这就是世间最美的生日晚宴。 今夜，就让我为你点上生日的烛火，深深的凝望你的眼，轻轻的对你说一声:生日快乐～此生，不管风雨多艰，不管路多遥，有你陪伴，什么都已不重要。你的幸福快乐就是我最大的心愿。 今夜，就让我静静的想你，把此刻的情轻轻的印上你的脸，烙下一生不灭的美丽印迹。 今夜，我在静静的想着你，这种感觉很美。远在天涯的你，有收到我的礼物，有感觉到upgrade and expansion, whole system construction of guideline followed following principles: Advanced: full reference both at home and abroad advanced, and mature of technology, and method and means, Project design, technical product leader, mature products as possible on the main equipment selection, technical lead and aligned with national standards of general-purpose, standard equipment. Systematization: strictly follow the view of system engineering and construction, has always been to practice engineering integrity, hierarchy, and adaptability to the external environment for constructive purposes. Maximize the business integration, functional integration and avoid different products, different standards and specifications of piecing together and combination of the system. Openness and standardization: hardware device selects the domestic and foreign well-known products, system architecture and protocol standards are in accordance with the ITU-t international industry standards and ISO standards of design, core systems and devices, following international standards, harmonization of standards, ensure system scalability and continuity of the system. Practicality: ensure high availability of the system performance with high reliability and flexibility both; first to ensure stable and reliable operation of the system, and using redundancy design of key components of the key position then to simple, technologically advanced, economical and practical. Extensible and maintainable: within the expected life cycle of systems or equipment, can be upgraded and modified to meet the needs of the user actions and application requirements change. And ensures after-sales service 我的思念，有听到我的祝福吗, 静静的想你 风轻轻裹着流云 夜悄悄撒下轻柔的网 我站在寂静的河边 看暗涌的河水漫过水草 我就这么静静的站着 静静的想你 夏虫似乎明了我的心事 在草丛里低低的吟唱 那里的夜也好宁静吧 你是不是在橘色灯光下 诵念我深情的诗文 心房有微微的颤动吧 你打开窗户 看到星星在对你眨眨眼吗 那就是我遥望你的眼睛 闪动着依恋你的柔光 多想和你倚坐小河边 看星星与月亮用幽光深情倾诉 看风与云的缠缠绵绵 多想相依呢喃一腔的柔情 夜色更浓了 河水似在心里涌动着 何不把细语折成小船 驶向你的心岸 听风的温柔于宁静的夜，随雨滴跌入一帘幽梦，在窗棂上开出清新的水花，妆点幸福的声音轻盈而舞，为你吟出昨夜待续的诗句，兰亭飘过的寂寞赴往事于小桥流水，那些痴迷于花下的诺言，在天边流转，渐渐消失在夜色的尽头，谁在水的一方，遗下清辉的眸子闪过的光茫，流涟在柳枝上摇曳逝去的忧伤,却不再与我有关，不再与今夜的幸福有关。 乱云飞过的影子，携岁月的手，穿行于前世今生的轮回，故事依然上演，熟悉的情节，从大漠边关，千山万里，一路豪放而来，你一定就是这样，风尘仆仆，打马扬鞭惊醒沉睡的清露，落在我等候的顾盼长睫之上，幽幽袅绕一池秋水，如莲的心思，便于红尘中，静望流云无心喧嚣。从容踏过婉约的曼妙，却不再孤单在冷冷的河畔。 月沉荷塘的美清晰可见，生命涌动的快乐穿行风荷举起的脉络，荡漾在碧波之上，盈盈纤影便以红尘纷乱中最淡的微笑，如轻尘落定，静静守候水岸携手呢喃的欣喜，心魂以怎样的姿态缠绕在朗星疏眉中，轻徊在水草摇曳的思绪里，暧昧又悠然,那花下的影子拎起思念，打成心结，系在发稍，随风飞扬，即便思老了梅妆，思瘦了衣裳，也无悔今生。 upgrade and expansion, whole system construction of guideline followed following principles: Advanced: full reference both at home and abroad advanced, and mature of technology, and method and means, Project design, technical product leader, mature products as possible on the main equipment selection, technical lead and aligned with national standards of general-purpose, standard equipment. Systematization: strictly follow the view of system engineering and construction, has always been to practice engineering integrity, hierarchy, and adaptability to the external environment for constructive purposes. Maximize the business integration, functional integration and avoid different products, different standards and specifications of piecing together and combination of the system. Openness and standardization: hardware device selects the domestic and foreign well-known products, system architecture and protocol standards are in accordance with the ITU-t international industry standards and ISO standards of design, core systems and devices, following international standards, harmonization of standards, ensure system scalability and continuity of the system. Practicality: ensure high availability of the system performance with high reliability and flexibility both; first to ensure stable and reliable operation of the system, and using redundancy design of key components of the key position then to simple, technologically advanced, economical and practical. Extensible and maintainable: within the expected life cycle of systems or equipment, can be upgraded and modified to meet the needs of the user actions and application requirements change. And ensures after-sales service 倚窗凝思，今朝的此昔,百般地妩媚，所有的诗意只为那碎成千朵的风情而玉软，暖了这曾经寂寞的心扉，一个人静静的聆听，温暖流动的旋律，平平仄仄起伏在岁月里流转，坐看云卷云舒，花开花落，是无限的惬意。旧梦已了，怎堪情未了，我绝决的踏碎心灵的忧伤，不再演译彼岸最牵肠于心念一动的凄美。即便千种的风情，万般地光艳，都一一远散了。回到粗茶淡饭，也怡然于心底。 倘若此生，曾眷恋于灵魂深处最真的感动，不再因暧昧的温暖于某个清风郎月的夜晚，姗姗而来，一定是我将情思粘在了湘江清澈的绿叶之上，任沧桑涤净铅华，从回最初的质朴，于悠悠东篱之下，吟风弄月，让清幽的月光洗尽我的爱人满面的尘霜。任门扉淡了色彩，生锈的永恒伴随我的爱，飘过被岁月遗忘的尘，被我轻轻拾起，相携，直到生命的尽头。、 很欣喜找到了各类书籍的网络连接，就象在我这个安静的空间安置了落地书架，读起来方便顺手， 毕竟是冬天了，白天的阳光虽然残留着温度，入夜风却瑟瑟的冷。闭了窗，屋里更加安静了。沏一杯热茶捧着，只亮一盏小灯，世界变的袖珍起来，抿一口茶海子把我带到《远方》 《远方》 远方除了遥远一无所有 遥远的青稞地 除了青稞一无所有 更远的地方更加孤独 远方啊除了遥远一无所有 这时石头 飞到我身边 石头长出血 石头长出七姐妹 站在一片荒芜的草原上 那时我在远方 那时我自由而贫穷 这些不能触摸的姐妹 这些不能触摸的血 这些不能触摸的远方的幸福 远方的幸福是多少痛苦 这是海子的诗。 海子像是一个民间故事，发生在很久很久以前。诗人可以到处流浪，可以用黑色的眼睛寻找黑色的光明。 他怀揣着诗歌走遍大半个中国，却没找到一个知音。我想，我们的海子，肯定是一个人在地上走，一直走，忽然有一天，他感到身心疲倦得非常彻底。他望了一会远方，觉得那儿挺好，于是就放弃了这个他觉得老是给他添麻烦的世界。 海子不属于我们这个世纪。上苍错误地把他降生在我们中间，他的死是对上苍的报复。现在这个错误已经修正了。有人说，九十年代孤寂的诗坛需要一个诗歌烈士，于是，海子出现了。 写完这些，打开窗户，看向远方，远方除了遥远一无所有，远在远方的风比远方更远 upgrade and expansion, whole system construction of guideline followed following principles: Advanced: full reference both at home and abroad advanced, and mature of technology, and method and means, Project design, technical product leader, mature products as possible on the main equipment selection, technical lead and aligned with national standards of general-purpose, standard equipment. Systematization: strictly follow the view of system engineering and construction, has always been to practice engineering integrity, hierarchy, and adaptability to the external environment for constructive purposes. Maximize the business integration, functional integration and avoid different products, different standards and specifications of piecing together and combination of the system. Openness and standardization: hardware device selects the domestic and foreign well-known products, system architecture and protocol standards are in accordance with the ITU-t international industry standards and ISO standards of design, core systems and devices, following international standards, harmonization of standards, ensure system scalability and continuity of the system. Practicality: ensure high availability of the system performance with high reliability and flexibility both; first to ensure stable and reliable operation of the system, and using redundancy design of key components of the key position then to simple, technologically advanced, economical and practical. Extensible and maintainable: within the expected life cycle of systems or equipment, can be upgraded and modified to meet the needs of the user actions and application requirements change. And ensures after-sales service 所以对远方的记忆要适可而止，放开远去的事物其实是对生活的谅解，对自己的宽容，际遇已然错过，时间已然流逝，依然久久沉浸在过去，无益于任何事情，，甚至连现在的所有都会失去。 一棵树能在森林里屹立多久呢,没有人知道就像一个人能坚持对爱情的美好憧憬多久呢,我一直在思索，在寻找。后来，看见这棵树的时候，我明白了。一棵不被风雨雷霆摧残，不被天火焚烧的树是不可能证明这一种与天地同在的存活。就像我见证了自己的爱情，因为，我等过。 花命名的农历各月份的诗意别称:正月——柳月，银柳插瓶头，又称柳月;二月——杏月，杏花闹枝头，又称杏月;三月——桃月，桃花粉面羞，又称桃月;四月——槐月，槐花挂满枝，又称槐月;五月——榴月，石榴红似火，又称榴月;六月——荷月，荷花满池放，又称荷月;七月——巧月，凤仙节节开，又称巧月;八月——桂月，桂花遍地香，又称桂月;九月——菊月，菊花傲霜雪，又称菊月;十月——阳月，芙蓉显小阳，又称阳月;十一月——葭月，葭草吐绿头，又称葭月;腊月——梅月，梅花吐幽香，又称梅月。此外，农历月份还有其它许许多多的别称。 upgrade and expansion, whole system construction of guideline followed following principles: Advanced: full reference both at home and abroad advanced, and mature of technology, and method and means, Project design, technical product leader, mature products as possible on the main equipment selection, technical lead and aligned with national standards of general-purpose, standard equipment. Systematization: strictly follow the view of system engineering and construction, has always been to practice engineering integrity, hierarchy, and adaptability to the external environment for constructive purposes. Maximize the business integration, functional integration and avoid different products, different standards and specifications of piecing together and combination of the system. Openness and standardization: hardware device selects the domestic and foreign well-known products, system architecture and protocol standards are in accordance with the ITU-t international industry standards and ISO standards of design, core systems and devices, following international standards, harmonization of standards, ensure system scalability and continuity of the system. Practicality: ensure high availability of the system performance with high reliability and flexibility both; first to ensure stable and reliable operation of the system, and using redundancy design of key components of the key position then to simple, technologically advanced, economical and practical. Extensible and maintainable: within the expected life cycle of systems or equipment, can be upgraded and modified to meet the needs of the user actions and application requirements change. And ensures after-sales service