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A woman who teaches women to conquer different personalities!(教女人降服不同性格的婆婆!).doc

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Awomanwhoteacheswomentoconquerdifferentpersonalities!(教女人降服不同性格的婆婆!)Awomanwhoteacheswomentoconquerdifferentpersonalities!(教女人降服不同性格的婆婆!)Nowtherearefivekindsofpersonalityinfrontofyoumotherinlaw:nursetype,type,type,curiouschildrenofcadres,love,howwillyoudealwiththerelationshipbetweenmotheranddaughterAreyouchoosetoescapeortoactivelyimprovetherelationshipbetweenmotherinlawanddaughterinlawFromwomen'shealthnetworkNursetypemotherinlawPortrait:thefamilyhasnothingtodowithforeignaffairs,allarranged,andyousleeplateonSunday,shewouldliketobringbreakfasttothebedRegardthesondaughterinlawasthechildinthekindergartenorseriousillnessnumber,feelthathavenooneself,theskyhasfallendownCase:ChongqingoldladyyearsoldMymotherinlawwasaverycapablepersonAtfirst,IfeltthatmymotherinlawwasveryhappyForalongtime,IthoughtshewasalittletoofarIamamiddleclassmanagerinaforeignenterpriseIamtakencareofasababyathome,andmyheartisalsouncomfortableForexample,IalwaystellhertowashmyunderwearandsocksmyselfButassoonasItakeitoff,shewashesitinthetwinklingofaneyeTotellyouthetruth,thesethingsmakemymotherfeelembarrassedwhenIwashthemOnce,Itakeashoweronthebalconytocombthehair,hermothercarryingmythong,whilethesunsidewhispered:"suchasmallclothcover,arenotcovered,carefulgynecologicaldisease"Oh,IalmostdiedofshameOnSunday,Iverymuchhopethatunderthekitchen,buthermotherinlawsaidIdisapproveof,thishandisknockingonthecomputer,howcanyougettheshovelOncemanagedtopersuadeher,letmecook,sheonceaminuteandrantosee,"cincin,becarefulnottocutthehand""QinQin,Chinesecabbagetoopen,wash,ornotclean""ShewassoupsetwithmethatshecutherhandatlastSincethen,Ihavebrokentheideaofcookingathome,oftenruntothecompany'shourlystafftohelpAnalysis:nursetypemotherinlawnotonlycapable,hardworking,butalsohasadedicationheart,suchamotherinlawisreallyyourblessingAnythingyoudon'tworryTherearebothadvantagesanddisadvantages,exaggerated,carefulcommunication,manytroublescanbesolvedWeapon:hardskillsDon'tblameyourmotherinlawfordoingsomuchShe'snotsureaboutwhatyoudoYoumaywishtopracticeafewchoressecretlyhandtrick,aSunday,withherhusbandtogoouttoplay,youtidyuphomesafe,foodcoloraromaandtasteSuchaconvincingmovewillmakeyourmotherinlawembarrassedtotakecareofyoutoomuchFullycommunicateyourthoughts:ifyousimplyrefuseyourmotherinlaw'scare,shewillbeunabletothinkofitandbesorryYoumayaswellcommunicatewithyourmotherinlawinadvance,andtellherthatyouwanttolearnfromhertheskillsofahousewife,andthatshewillbeasgoodassheisatherageInthisway,yourmotherinlawwillbeverywillingtoteachyoutodohouseworkLetthehusbandcomeforwardmoreconvincing:surethattheydonotwanttobetakencareof,youcanletherhusbandcomeforwardtodotheworkIfhetellshismotherthathedoesn'twanthiswifetodonothing,shedoesn'twanthertoalwaysbelikeakindergartenchild,andhermotherinlawwillbewillingtorelaxandtakecareofyouforalongtimeAndmotherinlawDivision:ifyoufearthemotherinlawineverything,mayaswellwithherdivisionoflabor,andinadvancetosaythatwhenyoudothingswithoutinterference,tobefinished,andthenstriveformoreautonomy"Two,thecadretypemotherinlawPortrait:Grandpa,liketheindoordrama"Ilovemyfamily",isalsolikeTangSengin"WestwardJourney"Heisresponsibleforhisideologicalandpoliticalwork,andhecanenjoyitTheirgreatestskillistomakeallthingsinlifetorisetotheleveloftheory,andDanielmove,nottoconvinceyou,unlessyoufaintedinfrontofherCase:MrsGuoisyearsoldinBeijingHermotherisaretiredcadres,ideologicalandpoliticalworkisherforteNowretired,gohometoplay"wasteheat"Ispeakcasually,oftenbelongtotheobjectoftransformation,buttheinterestingthingis,mymotherinlawdoesnotchangeme,butmyhusband,butIfeelmorepressureOnenight,MyhusbandandIsatonthesofachat,thehusbandsaidtheoppositeofthesonoftherecentPassatintoBMW,itisestimatedthatsomeoneelsesentIsaidyouworkedhardforthecompanyforayear,butnotasgoodasaredenvelope,soyoualsoabandonbusinesspoliticsAjoke,wasupstairstohearhermotherinlawSheusedtocallthepasthusbandAfterhalfanhour,thehusbandcoveredhismouthandwentbacktoourroomHelaughedandsaid,"mymotherhastakenatleasttencasesofthecorruptofficial'sdismountthisyeartoeducateme""Now,evenafiveyearoldsonknowsthathecan'ttalkathome,orelsehe'llfindaclassWhenhermotherinlawisaway,weareallverycasualandsometimesdeliberatelyspread"reactionaryremarks""Butaslongashermotherinlawisthere,weareallverycarefulThecadreoftenmotherinlawstrongandautocratic,thecharacterofsomestubborn,superstitionoverpeople'sexperience,butontheotherhand,thereissuchawoman,yourchanceof"mistakes"dolessAndshehadgoodintentions,isoftengoodforyouTakeaction:Youmustfirstadmitintheideologicaleducationlawhasitspositiveside,andpraisedhermatchupTheoldman'srebelliousmentalityisveryheavyThemoreyoulistentoher,themoreshewilleducateyouWhenshefeelsthatyouareveryclosetohermind,youwon'tbepreachingallthetimeGiveherthepodium:sometimes,herpreachingisoutofanarrowcircleoflifebecauseofinertiaoroccupationafterretirement,youshouldencouragehertoexpandthecircle,whenhereloquencehadabroaderstage,don'tstareatyouCommunicateselectivelywithyourmotherinlaw:it'snormalforsomeofyourideasthatyourmotherinlawdoesn'tunderstandYoudon'thavetochangeyourself,andyoushouldn'tforceyourmotherinlawtoacceptitHidethesethingsthatshecannotacceptandcommunicatewithherinthelightofwhatshecanacceptWhenyoucommunicatemoreandmoreandshetrustsyoumoreandmore,shewon'tbeabletogiveyoualessonThree,achild'smotherinlawPortrait:inthecareofherhusbandgrewupunderthetenderwoman,evenifshewasamotherinlaw,willbelikeachildHeadstrong,playsmalltemper,aminoronefamilytoturnaroundherdaughterinlaw,andmakesmallcontradictions,canplayXunsimihuotearsCase:MrsWangisyearsoldinGuangzhouGrandfatherLoon,goodtemperandnot,motherinhiscareoveralifetime,nowyearsold,stilllikeachildTheyearbeforelast,myfatherinlawdied,andmymotherandIlivedtogetherandbecamemorechildrenTodaywanttoeatbeefoffalradish,tomorrowtoeattingziYu,alsopointedtotheoldGuangzhouorBaiyunMountainNoway,wehadtoworktohelpherbuyadetourIntheevening,watchingTV,shewasoftenabadstorymovedtotears,butalsoforcedustowatchwithherJustcrying,andlaterwatchingcartoons,laughinghappilyHermoodschangesorapidlythatwecan'tkeepupwithhermoodsSomethingsohardShedidn'tsayanythingatall,andwhenherhusbandcameback,shebrokeintotearsMyhusbandthoughtIbulliedher,andIhadabigfight,andsherantobeatherson,saidhissonwrongedme,Ijustthinkoftheold,andevensoybeanscannoteat,verysadIalwayssay,Ihavetwochildren,oneisadaughter,theotherisamotherinlawAnalysis:awomanwhoisdotedonbyherhusbandandwholiveshappily,iseasytobecomeachild'smotherinlawTheyarekindhearted,innocent,poorselfcareability,oftengivethedaughterinlawtroubleWeapon:obeyherandeducateheratthesametimeAchild'smotherinlawoftenmakeschildishdemands,andifyoudonotobeyher,shewillbesad,orevendesperateItisbettertoobeyherfirst,andtotellherwhensheasksformorepeaceofmindWhenitcomestoreason,itisbettertousesomeoneelseasanexample,likeafabletoachild,tomakeupamotherinlawsimilartoher,Forexample,"how'sthemotherinlawofMissWangfromcolleaguestoday""LetthechildrenforcehertogrowupForamotherwhorefusestogrowup,letyourchildmakehergrowupAskthechildtoaskgrandmaforhelpworkwithhimorcompletethetasksassignedbytheschoolgivegoodadviceonyourstudyandyourlifeThegrandson'srequestwasdifficulttorefuseAtthistime,shemustdealwithproblemslikearealelder,andeffectivelycurbhertendencytowardschildrenLethercooldownwhenshe'sinatemperWhensheplaysachild'stemper,sheisoftenjustdepressedandneedsventingYourbestbetistocoldtreatment,dotheirownthing,don'ttakethat,letherventenough,naturallycalmIfyourhusbandisnotathome,callhimintimetoreflectthesituationandaskforhisadviceonyourhandlingLearntorefusethepropertreatmentofachild'smotherinlawIfyouindulgeher,youtendtoindulgeherweaknessinhercharacterInthepropertimetolearntorefuse,willletherunderstandthatsomethingscannotbeexcited,butthewaymustbeclever,otherwiseitwillproducenewcontradictionsFour、curiousmotherinlawPicture:withcuriosityanddesiretosee,loveallthedetailsonhissonanddaughterinlawtolife,fromthewifetousecosmetics,themaleandfemalefriends,totheyoungcoupleonthebed,thebed,thesubconscioushopeforhisson'slifeatCase:MrsLeeisyearsoldinShanghaiHermotherinlawisaverynosypersonEverytimeIgoout,sheasks,"whereareyougoing"IfIsaytoafriend,sheasksagain,"whichone"ifIsayaname,sheasks,"howoldismanandwomanWheredoyouwork"Inthepast,ourcondomswerealwaysunderthepillow,andourmothermadeourbedseverydayOncethecondomwasbrokenandwechangedanotheroneAsaresult,onthesecondday,whenshemadethebed,sheseemedtocasuallysaytous,"don'tfeelyoung,healthy,orabstemious"IfrozeforalongtimebeforeIknewhowmanycondomsmymotherinlawwouldcounteverytimeshemadethebedFromthenon,IlockedmypersonalbelongingsinthedrawerandfeltsonervousinmyownhomeOfcourseIwasn'thappySometimesItellmyhusband,"yourmotheristoowide"Thehusbandsaid,"bearit,shecaresaboutus"Iadmitthatsheisconcernedaboutus,butthisconcernisalsoterribleMyhusbandandIoccasionallyonce,overseveraldays,shealsoaskedthatquestion,toclearalltheantecedentsandconsequencesInfact,husbandandwifequarrelaretrivialthings,whoremembersomuchahAnalysis:curiousmother'ssonanddaughterinlawastheirprivatepropertyThereisnoprivacyinhermind,justasshedoesnotexcludewhatyouknowaboutherWeapon:selectivelyexposedtoherForinquisitivemothers,themoreyoucoveryourself,themoreshewantstoseethemYoumaywishtochooseafewyouthinkofnogreatimportanceof"privacy",openlydetailingthereasonsforher,satisfyhercuriosityWithoutshowingfeelingstoprotecttheirprivacydonotwanttoletherknowwhatmustbeatracemask,onceshefoundyouonthecovershows,willbepursuedIfyoucallafriend,shehadtoturnaround,youcanopenlysaid:"Mom,doyouwanttotalktomygoodfriend"shewillprobablyquitButaskheraboutitIfyoualwaysaskherquestions,shewillfeelthatitisrighttoaskyouanythingSowhatevershedoes,don'taskforcuriosityForalongtime,shewillcare,alsofeelshyknowingthatyoudon'twanttosaytoaskFive,lovetypemotherinlawAlthoughthereisnoportrait:thosewholovehatesondaughterinlawmotherinlawextremeQiongYao,butthestartingpointalmosttooloveson,daughterinlawalwaysfeelsomeunpleasant,notonlytheirownlovepickdaughterinlaw,AndlikestopickuponeortwobeforeorafterhissonintentionallyorunintentionallyCase:MrsNingisyearsoldinBeijingShehasfourchildren,husbandnotonlyistheyoungestandonlyson,sheregardedhimasapearlinthepalmWhenIwasinlove,myhusbanddotedonmeHewenttohishouseinthefirstspringfestivalHemadeasuddenwhimandgavemetheseedstoeatHermotherwassaid:"weseeJimmy,thedaughterinlawismuchbetterthanthemother"GrandpasmiledandshebecamejealousIlaughedanddidn'tcareAfterIgotmarried,IfoundmymotherwasreallyjealousAlthoughwedonotlivewithhermotherinlaw,buteverySundayshewillvisitthedoor,andsometimesthehusbandcalledtothehousetotalkaloneAwomanfoundascaronthearmofherhusband,myface,shengsejuliaskedwhoheisplayingHusbandredfacesaid:"Mom,I'msuchabigman,whocanbehit,heaccidentallyhit""Buthermotherinlawsaid:"overtonesinconversationwhodarestobullyyou,Icannot"Themotherinlawisreally,shelovesherson,Ialsolovemyhusband,howtothinkofmeasaclassenemyAnalysis:manymothersarecomplex,ordinarypeoplecanbeovercome,butthereareafew,theperformancewillbemoreextreme,intheirminds,daughterinlawtookhisson,sotheywillalwayscaptiousdaughterinlawWeapon:defeatweakness,letherrecognizeyouareyoungerIfyouarewithhertowork,motherwillputyouinthepositionoftheenemy,he'sreallynotlettingthisgo"Mom,Idon'tunderstandYouteachme"""Mom,heignoredmefortwodaysYougivemeaweapon""BemodestandneedherjuniorstoshowyouareweakFormotherlylove,yourmotherinlawwilltakepityonyouandtreatyoulikeachild,andyourhostilitytoyouwillgraduallydecreaseInfrontofherhusbandcomplimenthermotherinlaw:"yousee,mom,muchmorecapablethanme"""YoureallyfellintothehoneypotWhatawonderfulmotheryouhave!""Infrontofthehusband,fullyaffirmedtheroleofmotherinlaw,putyouwillneverfightforherson'sgesture,themotherinlawwillthankyoufromtheheart,theheartofcautionnaturallydiminishedDon'tplayormakehusbandinfrontofhermotherandhusband:whetheryoulovehownomatterhowmuchhelistenstoyou,don'tmaketoomuchinfrontofhermotherinlawhusband,thisisthemotherofrespectYouputyourselftothinkabout,ifyouseeyourowntreasurewastakenbyothersortodisposeof,willxinrudaogeSonisthetreasureofeverywomanYoushouldtrytounderstandherDon'tmakeaunitedfrontwithyourhusbandTheweatherisunpredictable,andifonedayyoubumpintoyourmotherinlawinsomething,don'timmediatelyscoldyourmotherinlawinfrontofyourhusbandSincethecontradictionhasoccurred,firstofall,wemusthaveasincereattitudetoresolvethecontradictionGenerallyspeaking,lovetypemotherinlawisextremelysensitive,ifyouandyourmotherwithcontradictionsinhusband,letthehusbandaslobbyists,notonlyputhiminadilemma,butalsoletthemotherinlawthinkyouaresensitivetoblackmailherhersonInthisway,shewillbemoresad,andmoreagainstyouDosomethingtoconvinceherLovetypeofmotherinlaw,especiallylovetheirson,worriedaboutthesontoyou,didnotgetverygoodcareYoumaywishtoshowherwhatyouaregoodathouseworkwhenshesawsomething,youhavetoconsideratehusband,naturallymydog

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