NLP经典名言

NLPNLPNLPNLP经典名言 1111 LifeLifeLifeLife providesprovidesprovidesprovides youyouyouyou withwithwithwith timetimetimetime andandandand space.space.space.space. It'sIt'sIt'sIt's upupupup totototo youyouyouyou totototo fillfillfillfill it.it.it.it. 生命只给你时间与空间。如何填满它是你自己的事。 2222 TheTheTheThe secretsecretsecretsecret ofofofof happinesshappinesshappinesshappiness isisisis notnotnotnot havinghavinghavinghavingmore,more,more,more, butbutbutbut wantingwantingwantingwanting less.less.less.less. 快乐的秘密并不是拥有更多，而是渴求更少。（不需要任何条件就可以感觉足够快乐的 人才是真正的智者，因为他们做到了自我掌控） 3333 UnderneathUnderneathUnderneathUnderneath attitudeattitudeattitudeattitude areareareare youryouryouryour beliefsbeliefsbeliefsbeliefs valuesvaluesvaluesvalues andandandand rules.rules.rules.rules.YourYourYourYour attitudeattitudeattitudeattitude isisisis onlyonlyonlyonly theirtheirtheirtheir shell.shell.shell.shell. 态度的背后是你认为事情该怎么样（信念、价值观和规条）。态度只是你的主观的外壳。 4444 NoNoNoNo beliefbeliefbeliefbelief cancancancan bebebebe absolutelyabsolutelyabsolutelyabsolutely effectiveeffectiveeffectiveeffective inininin allallallall thethethethe situations.situations.situations.situations. 没有任何信念在所有的情况里都绝对有效。（没有真正的“万全之策”） 5555 TheTheTheThe wordswordswordswords ofofofof aaaa sentencesentencesentencesentence cannotcannotcannotcannot depictdepictdepictdepict allallallall thethethethemeaningmeaningmeaningmeaning inininin thatthatthatthat sentence.sentence.sentence.sentence. 词句永远无法说清楚想要传达的全部意思。（所谓“道可道，非常道”） 6666 "If"If"If"If IIII maymaymaymay askaskaskask wherewherewherewhere thethethethe roadroadroadroad isisisis ????……………………TheTheTheThe roadroadroadroad isisisis rightrightrightright beneathbeneathbeneathbeneath youryouryouryour feet."feet."feet."feet." “敢问路在何方？……路在自己脚下。”（你的人生路要靠自己来走，别人无法代替） 7777 NothingNothingNothingNothing otherotherotherother thanthanthanthanyouryouryouryour ownownownown feelingsfeelingsfeelingsfeelings isisisis truetruetruetrue inininin thisthisthisthisworld.world.world.world. 在这个世界上，没有什么比你的感觉更真实的了。 8888 TheTheTheThe plumplumplumplum flowerflowerflowerflower isisisis proud,proud,proud,proud, becausebecausebecausebecause itititit choosechoosechoosechoose totototo blossomblossomblossomblossom inininin thethethethe coldestcoldestcoldestcoldest moment.moment.moment.moment. 梅花傲视群芳，因为它可以选择在最冷的时间开花。 9999 Nature'sNature'sNature'sNature's law:law:law:law: anananan exceptionexceptionexceptionexception alwaysalwaysalwaysalways arisearisearisearise whenwhenwhenwhen oneoneoneone expectsexpectsexpectsexpects thingsthingsthingsthings totototo happenhappenhappenhappen aaaa certaincertaincertaincertain way.way.way.way. 大自然的法则是：每当你说事情“必须这样”时，它便会给你一个例外。 10101010 BecauseBecauseBecauseBecausewewewewe areareareare notnotnotnot perfect,perfect,perfect,perfect, sosososo wewewewe havehavehavehave nononono rightrightrightright inininin askingaskingaskingasking forforforfor aaaa perfectperfectperfectperfect world.world.world.world. 因为我们并不完美，所以我们没有资格要求世界完美。 11111111 AAAA personpersonpersonperson whowhowhowho doesdoesdoesdoes notnotnotnot saysaysaysay "I"I"I"I must"must"must"must" hashashashas nononono weakness.weakness.weakness.weakness. NobodyNobodyNobodyNobody cancancancan attackattackattackattack aaaa personpersonpersonperson whowhowhowho hashashashas nonononoweakness.weakness.weakness.weakness. 不说“必须XXXXXXXX”的人便没有弱点，没有弱点的人别人是无法攻击的。 12121212 FACTSFACTSFACTSFACTS ≠ TRUTHTRUTHTRUTHTRUTH！ 事实不等于真相。 13131313 WhenWhenWhenWhen youyouyouyou keepkeepkeepkeep youryouryouryour eyeseyeseyeseyes andandandand mindmindmindmind onononon thethethethe problem,problem,problem,problem, youyouyouyou willwillwillwill notnotnotnot seeseeseesee thethethethe manymanymanymany opportunitiesopportunitiesopportunitiesopportunities aroundaroundaroundaroundyou.you.you.you. (by(by(by(by BertBertBertBertHellingerHellingerHellingerHellinger ---- thethethethe FamilyFamilyFamilyFamily ConstellationConstellationConstellationConstellationMaster)Master)Master)Master) 当你把注意力和思想放在问题上，你将看不到身边众多的机会。注意力的焦点决定了 思考的结果。 （波特·海宁格——家庭系统排列大师） 14141414 ManyManyManyMany peoplepeoplepeoplepeople preferpreferpreferprefer livinglivinglivingliving inininin painpainpainpain thanthanthanthan totototo havehavehavehave theirtheirtheirtheir problemsproblemsproblemsproblems solved.solved.solved.solved. (by(by(by(by BertBertBertBert HellingerHellingerHellingerHellinger ---- thethethethe FamilyFamilyFamilyFamily ConstellationConstellationConstellationConstellationMaster)Master)Master)Master) 很多人宁愿生活在痛苦之中，也不愿解决自己的问题。 （波特·海宁格——家庭系 统排列大师） 15151515 TheTheTheThe onlyonlyonlyonly waywaywayway "Out""Out""Out""Out" isisisis "In"."In"."In"."In". (Robert(Robert(Robert(Robert DiltsDiltsDiltsDilts －NLPNLPNLPNLP Master)Master)Master)Master) “摆脱”的唯一办法是“深入”。 （罗伯特·迪尔茨——NLPNLPNLPNLP 大师 ） 16161616 YourYourYourYour fearfearfearfear preventspreventspreventsprevents youyouyouyou fromfromfromfromfacingfacingfacingfacing it,it,it,it, andandandand yetyetyetyet notnotnotnot facingfacingfacingfacing itititit isisisis thethethethe causecausecausecause ofofofof youryouryouryour fear.fear.fear.fear. 恐惧使你不敢面对它；而不面对它，正是你恐惧的原因。 17171717 AnythingAnythingAnythingAnything thatthatthatthat isisisis veryveryveryvery clearclearclearclear insideinsideinsideinside youryouryouryour mind,mind,mind,mind, maymaymaymay bebebebe saidsaidsaidsaid withinwithinwithinwithin 20202020 words.words.words.words. IfIfIfIf not,not,not,not, itititit isisisis onlyonlyonlyonly becausebecausebecausebecause youyouyouyou havehavehavehave notnotnotnot thoughtthoughtthoughtthought itititit throughthroughthroughthrough thoroughly.thoroughly.thoroughly.thoroughly. 任何你想你清楚的事，总可以用20202020个字说出来。若不可以，只是未曾透彻思考而已。 18181818 PressurePressurePressurePressure comescomescomescomes fromfromfromfrom feelingfeelingfeelingfeeling thatthatthatthat one'sone'sone'sone's strengthstrengthstrengthstrength isisisis lesslesslessless thatthatthatthat whatwhatwhatwhat thethethethe tasktasktasktask requires.requires.requires.requires. 压力来自感觉自己的能力比事情所需要的能力小。 19191919 DifficultyDifficultyDifficultyDifficulty comescomescomescomes fromfromfromfrom thinkingthinkingthinkingthinkingthethethethe gaingaingaingain isisisis lesslesslessless thanthanthanthanthethethethe cost.cost.cost.cost. “困难”是以为“得到的比付出的少”（或者说付出的多余所得到的）。 20202020 FearFearFearFear isisisis notnotnotnot willingwillingwillingwilling totototo patpatpatpat thethethethe presumedpresumedpresumedpresumedprice.price.price.price. “恐惧”是不愿付出“自以为需要付出的代价”。 21212121 AngerAngerAngerAnger yieldsyieldsyieldsyields powerpowerpowerpower totototo changechangechangechangeaaaa situationsituationsituationsituation thatthatthatthat isisisis notnotnotnot acceptable.acceptable.acceptable.acceptable. 愤怒给人力量去改变一个不能接受的情况。 22222222 SadnessSadnessSadnessSadness makesmakesmakesmakes usususus valuevaluevaluevaluemoremoremoremore thatthatthatthatwewewewe stillstillstillstill possess,possess,possess,possess, includingincludingincludingincluding whatwhatwhatwhat’’’’ssss inininin ourourourourmemory.memory.memory.memory. 悲哀让我们更为珍惜尚且拥有的东西，包括回忆。 23232323 TheTheTheThe feelingfeelingfeelingfeeling ofofofof weaknessweaknessweaknessweakness comescomescomescomes fromfromfromfrom focusingfocusingfocusingfocusing onononon thingsthingsthingsthings thatthatthatthatwewewewe cannotcannotcannotcannot control.control.control.control. 软弱的感觉，来自把注意力放在自己不能控制的东西上。 24242424 TheTheTheThe onlyonlyonlyonly oneoneoneone youyouyouyou cancancancan bebebebe suresuresuresure totototo gogogogo throughthroughthroughthrough youryouryouryour lifelifelifelife togethertogethertogethertogether isisisis yourself,yourself,yourself,yourself, becausebecausebecausebecause apartapartapartapart fromfromfromfrom yourself,yourself,yourself,yourself, youyouyouyou cancancancan controlcontrolcontrolcontrol nobody.nobody.nobody.nobody. 唯一肯定可以与你度过一生的是你自己，因为除了你自己外，没有任何人是你能够控 制的。 25252525 WeWeWeWe alwaysalwaysalwaysalways operateoperateoperateoperate accordingaccordingaccordingaccording totototo ourourourour mapmapmapmap ofofofof thethethethe worldworldworldworld insideinsideinsideinside ourourourour mind,mind,mind,mind, andandandand notnotnotnot fromfromfromfrom whatwhatwhatwhat thethethetheworldworldworldworld reallyreallyreallyreally is.is.is.is. 我们行事的标准，从来都只凭自己脑里认为世界应该是怎样，而不是依据真实的是怎 样。（我们所有的判断都是主观的，没有真正的客观。） 26262626 WisdomWisdomWisdomWisdom isisisis totototo accept.accept.accept.accept. WhenWhenWhenWhen youyouyouyou cancancancan acceptacceptacceptaccept everythingeverythingeverythingeverything thatthatthatthat happenshappenshappenshappens inininin thethethethe world,world,world,world, youyouyouyou willwillwillwill havehavehavehave supremesupremesupremesupremewisdom.wisdom.wisdom.wisdom. 智慧就是去接受。当你能够接受世界上的一切，你便有最大的智慧。 27272727 EveryEveryEveryEvery daydaydayday IIII learnlearnlearnlearn somethingsomethingsomethingsomething newnewnewnew thatthatthatthat makesmakesmakesmakes memememe changechangechangechange somethingsomethingsomethingsomething IIII usedusedusedused totototo believebelievebelievebelieve yesterday.yesterday.yesterday.yesterday. 每天我都学到新的东西，使我改变了一些旧有的信念。 28282828 OneOneOneOnewhowhowhowho hashashashas difficultydifficultydifficultydifficultytotototo getgetgetget intointointointoanananan emotion,emotion,emotion,emotion, wouldwouldwouldwould bebebebe difficultdifficultdifficultdifficult getgetgetget outoutoutout ofofofof oneoneoneone ales.ales.ales.ales. 一个难以进入情绪的人，亦难以从情绪中摆脱出来。 29292929 WhenWhenWhenWhen thethethethemountainmountainmountainmountain doesdoesdoesdoes notnotnotnot turn,turn,turn,turn, thethethethe waterwaterwaterwater turns.turns.turns.turns. 山不转水转。 30303030 TheTheTheThe worldworldworldworld doesn'tdoesn'tdoesn'tdoesn't change,change,change,change, butbutbutbut youryouryouryour perceptionperceptionperceptionperception ofofofof itititit can.can.can.can. 你不能改变这个世界，但你总可以改变你对这个世界的看法。 31313131 AAAA personpersonpersonperson standingstandingstandingstanding atatatat thethethethe bottombottombottombottom ofofofof aaaa valley,valley,valley,valley, nononono mattermattermattermatter whichwhichwhichwhich directiondirectiondirectiondirection hehehehe chooses,chooses,chooses,chooses, hehehehe couldcouldcouldcould onlyonlyonlyonly gogogogo higher.higher.higher.higher. 站在低谷的人，无论朝那个方向走，都只会走得更高。（否极泰来——如果真的是坏到 极致了，那么下一步就会开始变好了。） 32323232 HowHowHowHow cancancancan youyouyouyou knowknowknowknow ifififif youyouyouyou don'tdon'tdon'tdon't try.try.try.try. 你不尝试怎会知道？ 33333333 IIII cancancancan livelivelivelivewithwithwithwith losinglosinglosinglosing thethethethe fight,fight,fight,fight, butbutbutbut IIII cannotcannotcannotcannot livelivelivelivewhitwhitwhitwhit notnotnotnot fighting.fighting.fighting.fighting. (A(A(A(AFamousFamousFamousFamous Boxer)Boxer)Boxer)Boxer) 我可以接受输掉比赛，但决不能容许自己放弃战斗。 （某著名拳师） 34343434 CourageCourageCourageCourage isisisis notnotnotnot withoutwithoutwithoutwithout fear.fear.fear.fear. CourageCourageCourageCourage isisisis ,,,, inininin spitespitespitespite ofofofof fear,fear,fear,fear, oneoneoneone cancancancan stillstillstillstill movemovemovemove on.on.on.on. 勇气不是没有恐惧。勇气是纵然有恐惧，还能坚持下去。 35353535 ConfusionConfusionConfusionConfusion makesmakesmakesmakes youyouyouyou learnlearnlearnlearnmore,more,more,more, andandandand clarityclarityclarityclarity enablesenablesenablesenables youyouyouyou totototo useuseuseuse itititit better.better.better.better. 迷茫使你学得更多，而清晰使你使用得更好。 36363636 TheTheTheThe firstfirstfirstfirst stepstepstepstep ofofofof learninglearninglearninglearning isisisis alwaysalwaysalwaysalways confusion,confusion,confusion,confusion, becausebecausebecausebecause youyouyouyou havehavehavehavemovedmovedmovedmoved fromfromfromfrom thethethethe knowknowknowknow totototo thethethethe unknown.unknown.unknown.unknown. 学习的第一步总是迷茫混乱，因为你是从已知走入未知的领域。 37373737 TheTheTheThe solesolesolesole criterioncriterioncriterioncriterion totototo determinedeterminedeterminedetermine heatherheatherheatherheather oneoneoneone shouldshouldshouldshould dodododo somethingsomethingsomethingsomething orororor not:not:not:not: DoesDoesDoesDoes itititit bringbringbringbringmemememe closerclosercloserclosermymymymy goalsgoalsgoalsgoals inininin life,life,life,life, onononon thethethethewin-win-winwin-win-winwin-win-winwin-win-win basis?basis?basis?basis? 用来衡量某件事应否做的标准只有一个：那是否使我在三赢的基础上更接近我的人生 目标。 38383838 PeoplePeoplePeoplePeople havehavehavehave nononono directiondirectiondirectiondirectionbecausebecausebecausebecause theytheytheytheyhavehavehavehave nononono destination.destination.destination.destination. 没有方向的人是因为他们没有目标。 39393939 PassionPassionPassionPassion alonealonealonealone cannotcannotcannotcannot winwinwinwin thethethethe revolution;revolution;revolution;revolution; PassionPassionPassionPassion justjustjustjust makesmakesmakesmakesmartyrs.martyrs.martyrs.martyrs. 光靠满腔热血，不会使革命成功，只能制造烈士。 40404040 ThereThereThereThere isisisis nononono failurefailurefailurefailure untiluntiluntiluntil oneoneoneonedecidesdecidesdecidesdecides totototo stopstopstopstop trying.trying.trying.trying. 除非你已经决定终止尝试，否则就没有失败。 41414141 WhetherWhetherWhetherWhether youyouyouyou saysaysaysay youyouyouyou cancancancan orororor youyouyouyou cannot,cannot,cannot,cannot, youyouyouyou areareareare bothbothbothboth right,right,right,right, becausebecausebecausebecause youyouyouyou havehavehavehave thethethethe controlcontrolcontrolcontrol ofofofof yourselfyourselfyourselfyourself inininin youryouryouryour ownownownown hands.hands.hands.hands. 无论你说你能够做到抑或不能做到，你都是对的，因为控制自己的权利在你手里。 42424242 WeWeWeWe cannotcannotcannotcannot demanddemanddemanddemand aaaa perfectperfectperfectperfect world;world;world;world; butbutbutbut wewewewe cancancancan havehavehavehave ourourourour successsuccesssuccesssuccess andandandand happinesshappinesshappinesshappiness inininin thisthisthisthis imperfectimperfectimperfectimperfect world.world.world.world. 我们不能要求世界完美；但是我们可以在不完美的世界里取得自己的一份成功快乐。 43434343 TheTheTheThe pastpastpastpast isisisis history,history,history,history, tomorrowtomorrowtomorrowtomorrow aaaamystery,mystery,mystery,mystery, todaytodaytodaytoday isisisis aaaa gift,gift,gift,gift, thisthisthisthis isisisiswhywhywhywhy itititit isisisis calledcalledcalledcalled thethethethe Present.Present.Present.Present. 过去是一段历史历史，明天是一个迷团，今天是上天赐予的礼物，这也是为什么英文 里“今天”和“礼物”是同一个词。 44444444 "Hypocrisy""Hypocrisy""Hypocrisy""Hypocrisy" isisisis aaaa "for"for"for"for myself"myself"myself"myself" behaviorbehaviorbehaviorbehavior labeledlabeledlabeledlabeled asasasas "for"for"for"for thethethethe other".other".other".other". “虚伪”就是：为自己而做的事，贴上“为别人而做”的标签。 45454545 RespectingRespectingRespectingRespectingaaaa personpersonpersonperson isisisis acceptingacceptingacceptingacceptinghishishishis beliefs,valusebeliefs,valusebeliefs,valusebeliefs,valuse andandandand rules.rules.rules.rules. 尊重一个人就是接受他的信念、价值观和规条。 46464646 Don'tDon'tDon'tDon't looklooklooklook forforforforGodGodGodGod inininin youryouryouryour teacher.teacher.teacher.teacher. 不要在导师身上寻找上帝。 47474747 SimilaritiesSimilaritiesSimilaritiesSimilarities betweenbetweenbetweenbetween twotwotwotwo personspersonspersonspersons enableenableenableenable thenthenthenthen totototo getgetgetget along;along;along;along; howeverhoweverhoweverhowever ,their,their,their,their differencesdifferencesdifferencesdifferences enableenableenableenable thethethethe totototo grow.grow.grow.grow. 两个人相同之处使他们能够相处，两个人不同之处，却使他们能够成长。 48484848 TheTheTheThe onlyonlyonlyonly meaningmeaningmeaningmeaning forforforfor anyanyanyany twotwotwotwo personspersonspersonspersons stayingstayingstayingstaying togethertogethertogethertogether isisisis totototo helphelphelphelp eacheacheacheach otherotherotherother totototo grow.grow.grow.grow. WhenWhenWhenWhen thisthisthisthis meaningmeaningmeaningmeaning ceasesceasesceasesceases totototo exist,exist,exist,exist, itititit isisisis thethethethe timetimetimetime forforforfor themthemthemthem totototo part.part.part.part. 两人在一起时的唯一意义就是帮助对方成长；当这个意义中止时，也就是他们应该分 开的时候了。 49494949 InInInIn communication,communication,communication,communication, howeverhoweverhoweverhowever rightrightrightright youyouyouyou areareareare inininin whatwhatwhatwhat youyouyouyou saysaysaysay isisisis irrelevant,irrelevant,irrelevant,irrelevant, moremoremoremore importantimportantimportantimportant isisisiswhetherwhetherwhetherwhether thethethethe otherotherotherother personpersonpersonpersonunderstandsunderstandsunderstandsunderstands thethethethe messagemessagemessagemessageorororor not.not.not.not. 你说得多对没有用，对方是否听得明白更重要。 50505050 ExpressionsExpressionsExpressionsExpressions andandandand behaviorbehaviorbehaviorbehavior reviewreviewreviewreview thethethethe truth,truth,truth,truth, worldsworldsworldsworlds areareareare theretheretherethere onlyonlyonlyonly totototo confuseconfuseconfuseconfuse you.you.you.you. 从表情及行为可以清楚地知道对方内心是怎样一回事；他说的话只不过是在混淆你而 已。 51515151 GivingGivingGivingGiving otherotherotherother peoplepeoplepeoplepeople spacespacespacespace isisisis acceptingacceptingacceptingaccepting theirtheirtheirtheir differences.differences.differences.differences. WhenWhenWhenWhen wewewewe cancancancan acceptacceptacceptaccept peoplepeoplepeoplepeople whowhowhowho areareareare differentdifferentdifferentdifferent fromfromfromfrom usususus ,we,we,we,we areareareare growing.growing.growing.growing. 给别人空间，就是接受他们与你的不同之处。当我们能够接受与自己不同的人，我们 就成长了。 52525252 TheTheTheThe highesthighesthighesthighest formformformform ofofofof expressingexpressingexpressingexpressing lovelovelovelove isisisis likelikelikelikethethethethe breezebreezebreezebreeze andandandand rainrainrainrain -the-the-the-the serveserveserveservewithoutwithoutwithoutwithout saying.saying.saying.saying. “春风化雨、润物无声”——这是爱的最高境界。 53535353 Parents'Parents'Parents'Parents' caringcaringcaringcaring shouldshouldshouldshould provideprovideprovideprovide thethethethe spacespacespacespace forforforfor childrenchildrenchildrenchildren totototo growgrowgrowgrow up;up;up;up; andandandand notnotnotnot totototo preventpreventpreventprevent childrenchildrenchildrenchildren fromfromfromfromgrowing.growing.growing.growing. 父母的关爱，应该是提供空间让孩子成长，而不是妨碍孩子成长。 54545454 Don'tDon'tDon'tDon't choosechoosechoosechoose aaaa captaincaptaincaptaincaptain whowhowhowho hashashashas sailedsailedsailedsailedonlyonlyonlyonly calmcalmcalmcalm water.water.water.water. 不要选择一个只会在平静的海洋中航行的船长。 55555555 "The"The"The"The Best"Best"Best"Best" isisisis anananan end.end.end.end. AsAsAsAs longlonglonglong asasasas youyouyouyou intendintendintendintend totototo continuecontinuecontinuecontinue ,you,you,you,you couldcouldcouldcould alwaysalwaysalwaysalways pursuepursuepursuepursue "better"."better"."better"."better". “最好”是终点。只要你准备走下去，应该是不断追求“更好”。（所谓“没有最好， 只有更好”） 56565656 TheTheTheThe onlyonlyonlyonly waywaywayway totototo beatbeatbeatbeat changeschangeschangeschanges isisisis :::: totototo learninglearninglearninglearning moremoremoremore andandandand fasterfasterfasterfaster thanthanthanthan whatwhatwhatwhat thethethethe changeschangeschangeschanges bring.bring.bring.bring. 战胜转变的唯一秘诀是：“学的”比“转变带来的”更快更多。 57575757 Don'tDon'tDon'tDon't telltelltelltell memememewhywhywhywhy itititit cannotcannotcannotcannot bebebebe done;done;done;done; telltelltelltell memememe howhowhowhow itititit cancancancan bebebebe done,done,done,done, becausebecausebecausebecause thatthatthatthat isisisis whywhywhywhy youyouyouyou areareareare here.here.here.here. 不要告诉我为什么做不到；告诉我如何做得到，因为那才是你存在的原因。 以上摘自李中莹老师的《人生钻石》小册子。传播请注明出处。