2013北京西城一模英语试题及答案

2013北京西城一模英语试题及答案 中国权威高考信息资源门户 www.gaokao.com 北京市西城区2013届高三一模考试 英 语 试 题 本试卷共150分。考试时长120分钟。考试结束后，将本试卷和答题卡一并交回。 注意事项: 1(考生务必将答案答在答题卡上，在试卷上作答无效。 2(答题前考生务必将答题卡上的姓名、准考证号用黑色字迹的签字笔填写。 3(答题卡上选择题必须用2B铅笔作答，将选中项涂满涂黑，黑度以盖住框内字母为 准，修改时用橡皮擦除干净。非选择题必须用黑色字迹的签字笔按照题号顺序在各 题目的答题区域内作答，未在对应的答题区域内作答或超出答题区域作答的均不得 分。 第一部分:听力理解(共三节，30分) 第一节(共5小题;每小题1(5分，满分7(5分) 听下面5段对话。每段对话后有一道小题，从每题所给的A、B、C三个选项中选出最 佳选项。听完每段对话后，你将有10秒钟的时间来回答有关小题和阅读下一小题。每 段对话你将听一遍。 例:What is the man going to read? A(A newspaper( B(A magazine( C(A book( 答案是A。 1(What are the two speakers most likely to buy? A(Apples( B(Oranges( C(Strawberries( 2(How will the woman probably go to the station? A(By bus( B(By subway( C(By train( 3(Where does this conversation probably take place? A(At a store( B(At a hotel( C(At a laundry( 4(When did the woman hurt her leg? A(Yesterday( B(Three days ago( C(A week ago( 5(What is the man doing? A(Asking for advice( B(Giving a suggestion( C(Making a complaint( 第二节(共10小题;每小题1(5分，共15分) 听下面4段对话或独白。每段对话或独白后有几道小题，从每题所给的A、B、C三个 选项中选出最佳选项。听每段对话或独白前，你将有5秒钟的时间阅读每小题。听完后， 每小题将给出5秒钟的作答时间。每段对话或独白你将听两遍。 听第6段材料，回答第6至7题。 6(What does the man think of Italian food? A(It is hot( B(It is delicious( C(It tastes terrible( 7(Where are the two speakers going to have dinner? A(At an Italian restaurant( B(At a Chinese restaurant( C(At a Japanese restaurant( 听第7段材料，回答第8至9题。 8(What is the passage mainly about? A(The only way of learning Spanish( B(The best way of finding home stays( 中国权威高考信息资源门户 www.gaokao.com C(The benefits of living with a host family( 9(What should you do if you are a vegetarian (索食者)? A(Ask for help in advance( B(Tell the host family later( Follow the custom of your host family( C( 听第8段材料，回答第10至12题。 10(Why hasn't the man decided when to hold the party? A(He hasn't decided who to invite yet( B(One of his friends is touring in Spain( C(The fixed time is not proper for everybody( 11(What does the woman suggest? A(Canceling the party( B(Putting the party off( C(Advancing the party( 12(Who is not coming to the party? A(David( B(Lily( C(Bruce( 听第9段材料，回答第13至15题。 13(What is the man most worried about? A(Nobody can understand him( B(There is still empty space in the newspaper( C(He doesn't know anybody in the poetry club( 14(Why does the woman recommend Carl? A(Because he is one of her best friends( B(Because he is very popular among the students( C(Because he is the only talented writer in the club( 15(What does the woman suggest be put in the newspaper finally? A(Poems( B(Vacation tips ( C(Job advertisements( 第三节(共5小题;每小题1(5分，共7(5分) 听下面一段对话，完成第16题至20题，每小题仅填写一个词。听对话前，你将有20 秒钟的时间阅读试题，听完后你将有60秒钟的作答时间。这段对话你将听两遍。请将 答案写在答题纸上( Package Mail Form Name Patrick Goldstein Destination Country 16 Item Description A silk shirt, two pairs of trousers, some CDs and 17 Way of Delivery By 18 airlifted Weight One kilo and 19 grams Price 410 yuan, plus a fee of 32 yuan Special Request 20 insurance for 2, 000 yuan 第二部分:知识运用(共两节, 45分) 第一节 单项填空(共15小题:每小题1分，共15分) 从每题所给的A、B、C、D四个选项中，选出可以填人空白处的最佳选项，并在答题卡 上将该项涂黑。 中国权威高考信息资源门户 www.gaokao.com 例:It's so nice to hear from her again( ，we last met more than thirty years ago( A( What's more B(That's to say C(In other words D(Believe it or not 答案是D( 21(John is as good as his word( he makes a promise, he will keep it( A( Before B( While C(Although D(Once offers a variety of Broadway plays( 22(Theater fans love New York, _ A(which B(where C(that D(who 23(From our window we have a good view of the open fields, into the distance( A(to reach B(having reached C(reaching D(reached 24(Sorry about the mess(The house at the moment( A(has painted B(had painted C(is being painted D(will be painted 25(Egg prices usually in the spring when they are most plentiful( A(are dropping B(drop C(have dropped D(will drop 26(I walked past your house last night(There was an awful lot of noise(What you ? A(did; do B(would; do C(had; done D(were; doing 27(—George, good luck with your English exam ! —Gosh, I wish I for it last night! A(have studied B(studied C(had studied D(would study 28(— Did you like Mr(Green's lecture? —Yes， any description(I will come again with my classmates( A(over B(in C(beyond D(for 29(All the books by the students are reported to have been sent to the children in the countryside the other day( A(having offered B(to be offered C(offering D( offered 30(—I for more than 30 years ! I'm going to retire soon( —Really? You don’t look a day over 40( A(worked B(have been working C(had worked D(am working 31(—Bill, be careful! —Don't worry( I _ break it( A(can't B(won't C(shouldn't D(needn't 32(I am sure that if it came to that point, he would do is expected of him( A(what B(when C(which D(as 33(I'm working on my fitness and I will be ready in a couple of weeks, not sooner( A(if B(unless C(as D(until 34(Look! How active the guys are ! Never before my students so enthusiastic( A(I see B(I have seen C(do I see D(have I seen 35(A discovery is said to be accident meeting prepared mind( A(the; a B(an; a C(the; the D(an; the 第二节 完形填空(共20小题;每小题1(5分，共30分) 阅读下面短文，掌握其大意，从每题所给的 A、B、C、D四个选项中，选出最佳选项， 并在答题卡上将该项涂黑。 I was at the post office early that morning, hoping to be in and out in a short while(Yet, I 36 myself standing in a queue that went all the way into the hallway(I had never seen so 中国权威高考信息资源门户 www.gaokao.com many people there on a weekday(It seemed someone might have made an announcement, welcoming customers to carry as many 37 as they could and bring them in when I needed to have my own package 38 (The queue moved very slowly(My patience ran out and I got 39 (The longer it took, the angrier I became(When I got to the counter finally, I finished my 40 quickly and briefly, and then walked past the queue that was now extending past the front door( "Excuse me," I said, trying not to be too pushy(Several people had to move 41 to make room for me to get to the 42 ( I stepped out, complaining about the 43 conditions(Thinking I was going to be late for my dentist appointment, I headed into the parking lot( A woman was coming across the lot in my 44 (She was walking with determination, and each step sounded very heavy(I 45 that she looked as if she could breathe fire(It stopped me in my tracks(I 46 _ myself and it wasn't pretty(Had I looked like that? Her body language said that she was having a _47 day(My anger melted away(I wished I could wrap her in a hug but I was a 48 (So I did what I could in a minute 49 she hurried past me,I smiled(In a second everything changed(She was astonished, then somewhat 50 (Then her face softened and her shoulders 51 (I saw her take a deep breath(Her pace slowed and she smiled back at me as we passed each other( I continued to smile all the way to my _52 (Wow, it's amazing what a simple smile can do( From then on, I became aware of people's 53 and my own, the way we show our feelings(Now I use that _54 every day to let it 55 me that when facing the world, I can try a smile( 36(A(found B(helped C(troubled D(enjoyed 37(A(things B(packages C(chances D(dollars 38(A(lifted B(cashed C(weighed D(carried 39(A(pleased B(disappointed C(delighted D(annoyed 40(A(business B(choice C(situation D(attitude 41(A(away B(about C(along D(aside 42(A(counter B(cashier C(exit D(entrance 43(A(weather B(service C(work D(shopping 44(A(satisfaction B(decision C(direction D(imagination 45(A(announced B(discovered C(proved D(noticed 46(A(trusted B(recognized C(hid D(persuaded 47(A(rough B(bright C(big D(nice 48(A(gentleman B(stranger C(customer D(passenger 49(A(until B(though C(before D(since 50(A(attracted B(frightened C(cheered D(confused 51(A(trembled B(raised C(relaxed D(tightened 52(A(car B(office C(home D(doctor 53(A(appearances B(reactions C(behaviors D(expressions 54(A(treatment B(awareness C(conclusion D(achievement 55(A(remind B(show C(give D(tell 第三部分:阅读理解(共两节，40分) 第一节:(共15小题;每小题2分，共30分) 中国权威高考信息资源门户 www.gaokao.com 阅读下列短文，从每题所给的A、B、C、D四个选项中，选出最佳选项，并在答题卡上 将该项涂黑。 A The Doll and the White Rose I was walking around in a mall, when I saw a cashier hand this little boy some money back(The cashier said, "I'm sorry, but you don't have enough money to buy this doll(”The little boy seemed very disappointed( I walked toward him and asked him who he wished to give this doll to("It's the doll that my sister wanted so much for Christmas(She was sure that Santa Claus would bring it to her: But Santa Claus can't bring it to her where she is now(I have to give the doll to my mommy so that she can give it to my sister when she goes there("His eyes were so sad("My sister has gone to be with God(Daddy says that Mommy is going to see God very soon too, so I thought that she could take the doll with her to give it to my sister(” My heart nearly stopped(The little boy looked up at me and continued, "I told Daddy to tell Mommy not to go yet(I need her to wait until I come back from the mall(" I quickly reached for my wallet and said," Suppose we check again, just in case you do have enough money for the doll(" "OK, I hope I do have enough," he said(I put some of my money with his without him seeing and we started to count it(There was enough for the doll and even some spare money( Surprisingly, the little boy cried, "Thank you God for giving me enough money!" Then he looked at me and added, "I asked last night before I went to sleep for God to make sure I had enough money to buy this doll, so that Mommy could give it to my sister( He heard me! I also wanted to have enough money to buy a white rose for my mommy, but I didn't dare to ask God for too much(But he gave me enough to buy the doll and a white rose ! " Then I remembered two days before a local newspaper reported an accident in which a woman and a little girl were badly injured(The little girl died right away, and the mother was left in a critical state(Was this the family of the little boy? Two days after I met the little boy, I read in the newspaper that the woman had passed away(I couldn't stop myself from going to the funeral(Teary-eyed, I felt that my life had been changed forever( 56(The boy wanted to buy the doll because ( A(he had always been eager for such a doll B(Santa Claus didn't give him any Christmas gift C(he would give it to his mother as a birthday surprise D(he wanted to turn his sister's Christmas wish into reality 57(We can learn from the story that ( A(the boy's sister died after staying in hospital for two weeks B(the boy's family were all seriously injured in a car accident C(the author gave the boy some extra money without his notice D(the boy's mother always wished to receive a white rose on Christmas 58(The story most probably conveys the message that ( A(a kind act can bring joy and hope to others B(a gift is a perfect way to express love for others C(losing a family member is a heavy blow to children 中国权威高考信息资源门户 www.gaokao.com D(a religious belief can help one solve problems in his life B "Panopticon" is a place in which everything is in full view of others( A recent New York Times " House and Home" article featured the story of a man who lives in a glass house(Every wall in his home is transparent; he has no walls to hide behind, not even in the bathroom(Of course, he lives in a remote area where he doesn't exactly have neighbors looking in and watching his every move(But he has chosen to live without any physical privacy in a home that allows every action to be seen(He has created his own panopticon of sorts( The term panopticon was coined by Jeremy Bentham in the late eighteenth century when he was describing an idea for how prisons should be designed(The prisoners' cells would be placed in a circle with a guard tower in the middle(All walls facing the center of the circle would be glass(In that way, every prisoner's cell would be in full view of the guards(The prisoners could do nothing unobserved, but the prisoners would not be able to see the guard tower(They would know they were being watched - or rather, they would know that they could be being watched,but because they could not see the observer, they would never know when the guard was actually monitoring their actions( Similarly, it is common that people behave differently when they know they are being watched(We act differently when we know someone is looking; we act differently when we think someone else might be looking(In these situations, we are less likely to be ourselves; instead, we will act the way we think we should act when we are being observed by others( In our wired society, many talk of the panopticon as a metaphor (隐喻) for the future(But in many ways, the panopticon is already here(Monitoring cameras are everywhere, and we often don't even know our actions are being recorded(In addition, we leave a record of everything we do online(And most of us have no idea just how much information about us has been recorded and how much data is available to various sources(We can do little to stop the information gathering and exchange and can only hope to be able to control the damage if something goes wrong( 59(According to the passage, a panopticon is ( A(a prison cell B(a house that is transparent C(a tower that provides a broad view D(a place where everything can be seen by others 60(From Paragraph 3, we learn that panopticon ( A(is not applicable outside the prison B(is used everywhere in public places C(is an effective tool to control prisoners D(is an effective tool to share information( 61(Why does the author say that panopticon is already here? A(Because our privacy is completely transparent( B(Because we are all prisoners m our own homes( C(Because our actions are observed and recorded in many cases( D(Because we are always afraid that someone might be watching us 62(A key difference between prison panopticon and panopticon in our daily life is that ( A(prisoners can see their observers, but we can't 中国权威高考信息资源门户 www.gaokao.com B(prisoners know that they may be being watched, but we often don't C(prisoners are more protected in their panopticon than we are in ours D(prisoners are less observed about privacy issues than technology users C I want to talk about the economy(Not "the economy" we hear about endlessly in the news each day and in politicians' speeches(I want to talk about the real economy, the one we live in day by day( Most people aren't particularly interested in "the economy"("Share prices are flying high; interest rates are soaring; the Dow Jones Index closed sixty-three points down on 8472(35(" We hear this and subconsciously switch off( Notice that "the economy" is not the same as the economy, "The economy" is what men in suits play with to make vast personal wealth(The economy is where the rest of us live on a daily basis, earning our living, paying our taxes, and purchasing the necessities of life( We are supposed to be benefiting from all the advantages of a well-off society(So why do we feel tired and stressed? We have no time for anything other than work, which is ridiculous given the number of labor-saving devices in our lives(Our towns become more and more crowded(We poison our air and seas, and our food is full of chemicals(There's something wrong here(If times were truly good, then you may think we'd all feel optimistic about the future(Yet the majority of us are deeply worried(More than 90 percent of us think we are too concerned about ourselves and not concerned enough about future generations( The term "economic expansion" suggests something desirable, but expansion simply means spending more money(More spending doesn't mean that life is getting better(We all know it often means the opposite - greed, crime, poverty, pollution(More spending merely feeds our whole economic system, which is based on production and consumption(Unless money keeps circulating, the economy breaks down(If we don't keep consuming, the whole system goes into stalemate(僵局)( How do we break the cycle and make some changes? We need to become far more aware of the results of our actions(We buy clothes that are made in sweat shops by virtual slaves in poor parts of the world(We create mountains of waste(We demand cheap food, mindless of the fact that it totally lacks taste and is produced using chemicals that poison the land( The consumption culture makes us unaware of the effect of our own behavior(Our main problem is not that we don't know what to do about it(It is gathering the desire to do it( 63(According to the author, which one belongs to the real economy? A(The Dow Jones Index( B(Increases in interest rates( C(Skyrocketing share prices( D(Shopping in a supermarket( 64(It can be concluded from Paragraph 4 that ( A(people are benefiting from a well-off society B(the future generation is a big concern for most people C(the majority of people are optimistic about the future D(people still feel much pressure despite labor-saving devices 65(What is true about economic expansion? A(It guarantees a better life for us( 中国权威高考信息资源门户 www.gaokao.com B(It may lead to some social problems( C(It will stop the circulation of money( D(It has only brought desirable effects( 66(The author writes the passage mainly to ( A(call on us to change our behavior suggest a solution for over-consumption B( C(make a distinction between two economies D(inform us of the effects of economic expansion D You Are What You Eat Genetic(基因的)engineering is the scientific change of the genetic material in a living organism( It allows scientists to identify specific genes, to remove them from an organism's chromosomes (染色体), improve them, analyze them, and possibly clone them, and to then reinsert the changed gene into the original organism, or a completely different organism(Unlike traditional breeding (繁殖), where a desired quality would be bred within the same species, genetic engineering can insert desired ones into organisms of different species(Wow…Did you catch that? Genetic engineering creates many positive contributions to agriculture( For example, by genetically engineered(GE) foods, anti-cancer agents, minerals and vitamins can be increased(Improved taste, shelf life, and better transport are all possible(Also, GE plants can increase pest and bacterial resistance, therefore, making the food safe for consumers( But some argue that the possible negative effects outweigh the positives, and critics are starting to voice their concerns( Unlike Europe, in the United States labeling is not required on genetically engineered foods or on foods that contain genetically engineered products( Most Americans do not realize that they are, in fact, eating GE foods( The public is also concerned about the unknown health risks(With limited understanding of genes, scientists cannot predict possible effects(Because most genes introduced into GE plants come from sources not introduced into the human body, it is impossible to know if they will cause reactions( Moreover, due to the lack of labeling if allergies develop, it will be extremely difficult to find the origin of them( There is also a major moral question in many minds(For many, the conflict is not if it is safe or not, but it disturbs them because it is unnatural and unnecessary(We are currently producing one and a half times the amount of food needed to feed the world, yet one in seven people are starving(GE food is unnecessary, and fails to address the root of hunger( Many believe that the only people who will benefit are the corporations that produce it( Scientists cannot foresee t(he possible effects of GE foods, yet we eat them every day without even knowing it(We already have enough food, so why create more that could be potentially harmful to us, to the Earth and to all wildlife? I think that the benefits are amazing, but until we know for sure how these foods will affect us, they are not worth the risk( 67(According to the passage, traditional breeding is different from genetic engineering in that ( A(traditional breeding changes the genes in the same species B(traditional breeding changes the genes in different species 中国权威高考信息资源门户 www.gaokao.com C(traditional breeding takes place within the same species D(traditional breeding is more scientific 68("The lack of labeling" in Paragraph 4 indicates ( A(information concerning gene sources is unavailable to customers B(it is currently possible to find the origins of some allergies scientists try to hide potential dangers from customers C( D(the US government is responsible for GE food 69(According to Paragraph 5, GE food is unnecessary because ( A(it won't help solve the problem of hunger in the world B(there are potential dangers in producing GE food C(we're now producing more food than before D(customers will benefit from GE food 70(What is the author's attitude towards genetic engineering? A(Welcoming( B(Disapproving( C(Unconcerned( D(Optimistic( 第二节(共5小题;每小题2分，共10分) 根据短文内容，从短文后的选项中选出能填人空白处的最佳选项。选项中有两项为多余 选项。 Swapping Houses for Vacation When budgeting for a vacation, usually the most expensive part of the trip is the accommodations(The traditional way to take a vacation is to pack some bags, lock up the house, and travel to a new place to stay in a hotel(However, hotels are very expensive, and with rent or housing loan(贷款)due every month, it's difficult for most people to pay for yet 71 Luckily, there is a substitute called house swapping, and it's another place to stay( saving tourists a great deal of cash( 72 For example, if a couple from New York want to spend a week in Paris, they would place an ad offering to trade their New York apartment for one in Paris for a week(If a Parisian couple that want to vacation in New York read the advertisement, houses can be swapped, and both couples save hundreds, if not thousands, of dollars by avoiding big-city hotel fees(If all goes well, both couples can post positive reviews of the other's home online so that potential travelers can see that everything was fine( 73 This builds a community of people who want to help each other out( There are other advantages co house swapping as well( 74 Staying at someone's home puts you in a neighborhood that can give you a better representation of the life and culture in the place you're visiting( 75 The next time you want to spend your vacation in a new place, but don't want to pay a fortune, check what's posted online and find a house to swap( A(House swapping is most common in New York and Paris( B(Hotels are often quite difficult to book when you want to explore a new home( C(A lot of times, this extra cost prevents travelers from going very far from home( D(To swap houses, people check the Internet for others planning to travel and trade homes( E(With many house swapping sites growing, this new phenomenon is becoming easier than ever( F(Hotels are often located where 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儿子叫约翰，在他4岁那年，有一天他和姐姐在客厅玩捉迷藏。他们玩得正高兴，父亲抱起小约翰，把他放在沙发椅上面，然后伸出双手做出接的姿势，叫他往下跳。小约翰毫不犹豫地往下跳，在即将抓住父亲的瞬间，父亲缩回了双手，约翰摔到了地板上，他号啕大哭起来。小约翰向坐在沙发上的妈妈求助，妈妈若 中国权威高考信息资源门户 www.gaokao.com 无其事地坐着，并不去扶他，只是微笑着说:“呵，好坏的爸爸～”父亲站在一边，以嘲弄的眼光望着上当受骗的小约翰。 这便是犹太家庭教子的方法之一，这样做的目的是灌输给孩子一个理念:社会是复杂的，不要轻信他人，唯一可依赖的就是自己。 犹太家庭的孩子都要回答这样一个问题:“假如有一天房子被烧着了，你将带着什么东西逃跑,”如果孩子回答是钱财，母亲会进一步问:“有一种没有形状、没有颜色、没有气味的宝贝，你知道是什么吗,”如果孩子回答不出来，母亲会告诉他:“孩子，你要带走的不是钱财，而是智慧。因为智慧是任何人都抢不走的，你只要活着，智慧就永远跟着你。” 你对爸爸的爱，远远胜过那部车 一个犹太家庭的父亲，存钱存了很久，终于买了一辆自己向往已久的新车。新车开到家后，他珍爱有加，每天都要洗车打蜡。他5岁的儿子见父亲这么爱车，也常常乐此不疲地帮爸爸一起洗车。 有一天，这位父亲开车回到家后，累得一动也不想动。于是他决定破一次例，改天再洗车，尽管自己的爱车因淋了雨，而显得脏乱不堪。 这时，5岁的儿子见父亲这么累，就自告奋勇地要帮爸爸洗车，见他这么小的年纪，就知道体谅自己，心里甚感欣慰，便放手让儿子去洗。 儿子要动手洗车了，却找不到洗车用的毛巾。于是他走进厨房，立刻便想到母亲平时煮菜洗锅时，都是用钢刷使劲刷才刷干净的，所以既然没有毛巾，就用钢刷吧～他拿起钢刷用力地洗起车来，一遍又一遍，像刷锅一样地刷车。 等他洗完之后，听见“哇”的一声，他失声大哭起来，车子怎么都花了,这下可闯大祸了，他急忙跑去找父亲，边哭边说:“爸爸，对不起，爸爸，你来看～”父亲疑惑地跟着儿子走到车旁，他也“哇”的一声，“我的车，我的车～” 这位父亲怒气冲冲地走进房间，气急败坏地跪在地上祷告:“上帝呀，请你告诉我，我该怎么做,那是我新买的车，一个月不到，就变成这样，我该怎么处罚我的孩子,” 他才祷告完，耳边忽然出现一个声音“世人都是看表面，而我却是看内心～”突然间，他彻悟了。 他走出房门，儿子正害怕地流着泪，动也不敢动。 父亲走上前去，把孩子紧紧地拥在怀里，亲切地说:“谢谢你帮爸爸洗车，爸爸对你的爱，远远胜过对那部车子。” 中国权威高考信息资源门户 www.gaokao.com 凡事要透过表面去看本质，当家人或朋友无意间做错了某件事时，我们要理智对待，不要只看事情的表面，而忽略他们内心真实的想法。学会用爱心去包容爱心，家会让你感觉自己的周围，时时洋溢温暖的阳光。 小饭馆的生意很好，因为物美价廉，因为他的谦和和妻子的热情。每天早晨，三四点钟他就早早起来去采购，直到天亮才把所需要的蔬菜、鲜肉拉回家。没有雇人手，两个人忙得像陀螺。常常，因为缺乏睡眠，他的眼睛红红的。 不久，一个推着三轮车的老人来到他门前。她驼背，走路一跛一跛的，用手比划着，想为他提供蔬菜和鲜肉，绝对新鲜，价格还便宜。老人是个哑巴，脸上满是灰尘，额角和眼边的几块疤痕让她看上去面目丑陋。妻子不同意，老人的样子，看上去实在不舒服。可他却不顾妻子的反对，答应下来。不知怎的，眼前的老人让他突然想起了母亲。 老人很讲信用，每次应他要求运来的蔬菜果然都是新鲜的。于是，每天早晨六点钟，满满一三轮车的菜准时送到他的饭馆门前。他偶尔也请老人吃碗面，老人吃得很慢，很享受的样子。他心里酸酸的，对老人说，她每天都可以在这儿吃碗面。老人笑了，一跛一跛地走过来。他看着她，不知怎的，又想起了母亲，突然有一种想哭的冲动。 一晃，两年又过去了，他的饭馆成了酒楼，他也有了一笔数目可观的积蓄，买了房子。可为他送菜的，依旧是那个老人。 又过了半个月，突然有一天，他在门前等了很久，却一直等不到老人。时间已经过了一个小时，老人还没有来。他没有她的联系方式，无奈，只好让工人去买菜。两小时后，工人拉回了菜，仔细看看，他心里有了疙瘩，这车菜远远比不上老人送的莱。老人送来的菜全经过精心挑选，几乎没有干叶子，棵棵都清爽。 只是，从那天后，老人再未出现。 春节就要到了，他包着饺子，突然对妻子说想给老人送去一碗，顺便看看她发生了什么事。怎么一个星期都没有送菜,这可是从没有过的事。妻子点头。 煮了饺子，他拎着，反复打听一个跛脚的送菜老人，终于在离他酒楼两个街道的胡同里，打听到她了。 他敲了半天门，无人应答。门虚掩着，他顺手推开。昏暗狭小的屋子里，老人在床上躺着，骨瘦如柴。老人看到他，诧异地睁大眼，想坐起来，却无能为力。他把饺子放到床边，问老人是不是病了。老人张张嘴，想说什么，却没说出来。他坐下来，打量这间小屋子，突然，墙上的几张照片让他吃惊地张大嘴巴。竟然是他和妈妈的合影～他5岁时，10岁时，17岁时……墙角，一只用旧布包着的包袱，包袱皮上，绣着一朵梅花。他转过头，呆呆地看着老人，问她是谁。老人怔怔地，突然脱口而出:儿啊。 他彻底惊呆了～眼前的老人，不是哑巴,为他送了两年菜的老人，是他的母亲, 中国权威高考信息资源门户 www.gaokao.com 那沙哑的声音分明如此熟悉，不是他母亲又能是谁,他呆愣愣地，突然上前，一把抱住母亲，号啕痛哭，母子俩的眼泪沾到了一起。 不知哭了多久，他先抬起头，哽咽着说看到了母亲的坟，以为她去世了，所以才离开家。母亲擦擦眼泪，说是她让邻居这么做的。她做工的爆竹厂发生爆炸，她侥幸活下来，却毁了容，瘸了腿。看看自己的模样，想想儿子进过监狱，家里又穷，以后他一定连媳妇都娶不上。为了不拖累他，她想出了这个主意，说自己去世，让他远走他乡，在异地生根，娶妻生子。得知他离开了家乡，她回到村子。辗转打听，才知道他来到了这个城市。她以捡破烂为生，寻找他四年，终于在这家小饭馆里找到他。她欣喜若狂，看着儿子忙碌，她又感到心痛。为了每天见到儿子，帮他减轻负担，她开始替他买菜，一买就是两年。可现在，她的腿脚不利索，下不了床了，所以，再不能为他送菜。 这种信任和理解真的很重要。 这个故事对于众多家长来说有很强的的启迪和警示作用:“你到底爱的是孩子，还是孩子努力的结果,如果是后者，那说明你不会爱～”亦或是“你到底是爱自己的孩子，还是爱那个你心目中的孩子,如果是后者，那说明你不会爱～”，往往，在和孩子互动过程中，我们关注自己的感受，关注孩子是否改错，关注孩子是否优秀，而我们忽略了关注孩子本身，这些都是打着爱的旗号伤害着孩子，但我们往往认为这就是爱。请牢记，孩子本身最重要～ 让孩子去开辟自己的天空 《一个犹太人的家庭教育》讲的是一个伟大的犹太母亲把三个孩子培养成才的理念和方法。这位母亲生在上海，父亲是犹太人，在她12岁那年去世了，随后母亲也离她而去，她成了孤儿。长大后在上海铜厂做女工，结婚后生下三个孩子，但不久后丈夫又离她而去了。为了逃避痛苦，她成为中以建交后第一批回到以色列的犹太后裔。 为了生存，也为了三个孩子能早日回到以色列，她先发奋学习希伯来语，然后，在路边摆了个小摊卖春卷。以色列的官方货币是谢克尔，一谢克尔兑换人民币2块钱，更小的币值是雅戈洛，一谢克尔等于100雅戈洛。她的春卷小摊每天只能赚到十来个谢克尔…… 1993年，她接回了三个孩子，大儿子14岁，二儿子13岁，小女儿11岁。开始她一直秉承再苦不能苦孩子的 原则 组织架构调整原则组织架构设计原则组织架构设置原则财政预算编制原则问卷调查设计原则 ，依旧做着合格的中国式妈妈。把孩子送去学校读书，她卖春卷，孩子放学，她就停止营业，在小炉子上面给他们做馄饨或者面条。这一幕被邻居看到了，就来训斥大儿子:“你已经是大孩子了，你应该学会去帮助你的母亲，而不是看着你母亲忙碌，自己就像废物一样。”然后转过头训斥母亲:“不要把那种落后的中国式教育带到以色列来……” 中国权威高考信息资源门户 www.gaokao.com 大儿子和她都很难受，但他们都在慢慢地改变，大儿子不但学会了做春卷，还把春卷带到学校卖，每天，三个小孩子能赚到10个谢克尔，回家交给母亲。母亲觉得很心酸，让他们小小年纪就担起生活的担子，但犹太人不这么认为，在犹太家庭里，孩子们没有免费的食物和照顾，任何东西都是有价格的，每个孩子都必须学会赚钱，才能获得自己需要的一切。 于是妈妈不再提供免费的餐食和服务，同时也给他们赚钱的机会，以每个春卷30雅戈洛的价钱批发给他们，带到学校后，可自行加价出售，利润部分自由支配。 三个孩子卖春卷的方式竟然截然不同。小女儿最老实，按老价钱50雅戈洛一个零售;二儿子则以40雅戈洛的价钱批发给学校餐厅，每天让他送100个春卷;大儿子则举办了一个“带你走进中国”的讲座，讲座的噱头就在于可以免费品尝美味的中国春卷，但需要买入场券，每人10雅戈洛，结果收入1500雅戈洛。 随后他们琢磨出了更多更新颖的赚钱方法，他们很努力地去学习和思考，学业并没有受到任何影响。 同样作为父母，是不是应该引起我们的反思,我们每天一睁开眼睛就为了孩子忙活，做饭、洗衣服、接送、辅导作业，然后才是做自己的事情，每天忙的团团转，累得筋疲力尽。一发牢骚，孩子还会心生厌烦，根本不理解我的付出。再回头看看，每一位中国母亲不都是这样吗,这样我们就很伟大吗,我们付出了很多，却造就了一个又一个“小皇帝”、“小公主”…… 我们希望孩子成才，却又过度的保护他们，使得孩子变得无能无法自立;过分的溺爱，带来孩子的无情;过多的干涉，让孩子多了很多无奈;过多的指责，让孩子变得不知所措，找不到前进的方向…… 想要为孩子创造一个无忧无虑，快乐成长的天空，但却发现自己完完全全的占据了创造者的位置，其实，这个位置也要有一部分让孩子承担。现在的照顾，也许会暂时保护着他们，但是他们总有一天会长大，会在长大后遇到许许多多的困难，那个时候，我们是如何也帮不了他们的……也许，让孩子过早的面对金钱面对名利面对社会，会有不舍和心疼，但他们总有一天要面对，总有一天要承担。 我们为何不像那位犹太母亲那样，放开手，让孩子自己去开辟属于他们自己的天空呢,