2015情爱美文：用一个人的好迎接两个人的爱情

2015情爱美文:用一个人的好迎接两个人的爱情每个人都有属于自己的动心恋情,也许甜蜜、也许带些苦涩,但都曾经那样的令人愉快。在受伤后,你可能不再相信爱情,可能觉得一辈子要自己过了,但亲爱的,生命并非单一选择题,我们可以选择一个人,但要懂得爱自己,然后好好生活,在心中累积爱的能量,再拿出勇气,面对每一次的心动。 一个男人的告白:“每个人生来本就都是孤独的,所以才需要找个人相伴,让旅途变得有趣一点。但这并不 表 关于同志近三年现实表现材料材料类招标技术评分表图表与交易pdf视力表打印pdf用图表说话 pdf 示,要把快乐建筑在别人身上。” “一个人很好啊!”你害怕一直这样说着,最后,就成真了。 就在某一天,你突然意识到这件事情,然后惊觉,从此你就噤声、绝口不提这样的话。就像是某种迷信似的,例如情侣不可以一起去拜拜、不可以送另一半鞋子一样,因为害怕成真,所以便尽量去回避,以防招致厄运;努力去谨记这些爱的禁忌,希望可以多带来一点爱的好运。但也就是因为这样,才更证明了自己的相信。也就因为这样,你才确定了,原来,自己的心里还是想要有个人陪伴。你从来都没放弃再恋爱的想望。藉由逞强,你听到了自己一直以来回避的真心话。 其实,你从来都没有放弃过可以再跟一个谁牵手的希望,只是可能因为亲友频繁的关心,一句“最近有没有认识谁?”就让你手足无措,无论在心里排练过多少次台词、模拟过多少回情境,但每每遇到都还是让你惊惶失措,只能逃离。于是,到了最后,你开始用“一个人也很好”当作挡箭牌,你用一个人的好来抵挡两个人的好,当作是交换。只是你没想到,原本只是拿来当作缓兵之计的说词,后来变成了你万年不变的状态。心想事成,心愿法则竟用了另一个你没料想到的方式达成了你的愿望。 当时你也才懂了,爱情的难处是:即便是摇旗呐喊说想要有个人来爱,也并不一定就会招来桃花;但如果去否定它,只会更雪上加霜。 当然,人不是一定非要爱情不可,因为无论有没有爱情,每个人都必须拥有把自己照顾好的能力才行。 因为唯有把自己照顾得好,才有余力去照顾两个人的爱情,相爱的前提,是先去爱自己。 而“一个人也可以很好”,则是一种必需,不该是单一的选择。也就像是一个人可以过得好,不该与两个人可以过得好相互冲突一样。爱情跟自己从来都不是单选题,只能挑选其中一个,其余都不能要。 你也猜想,或许是因为一个人生活久了,有很长一段时间你都自己照顾自己,生病自己挂号、按时吃药,不需要谁的提醒;甚至,你也学会了自己换灯管,能够分辨坏的是变电器还是灯管。这不是一种自愿,而是一种不得不,你心底清楚,你从来都没有选择一个人生活,只是因为没有人一起生活,所以你才要自己照顾自己。然后,一直走到了今天。也因此,你开始 习惯自己跟自己生活,得过且过,不再觉得会有谁来跟自己生活。 跟着你才惊觉,日常的生活磨去的不只是你的棱角,跟着也磨去了你对美好事物的想像。其中,包括了爱情。 再后来,你发现害怕的成分变多了,因为疏于练习,所以害怕失败;更因为,你现在跟自己相安无事,害怕一旦加入了另一个人,从此不得安宁。你害怕好不容易才安适的心、你花了那么多时间才学好的独处,都要再还回去。但你也忘了,每一场恋爱其实都是一个新的练习,因为对象不一样了、心境不一样了,所以爱情的样子也会不一样,因此都需要再去学习。爱情跟年纪、性别无关,没有谁是真的专家,只有爱了,才能够去体会;只有去爱,才可以有机会去学习。爱情,是一辈子的课题。 一个人可以选择不要恋爱,但不要因为害怕才不敢去爱,在心里还有爱的时候,就不要轻言放弃去爱。不要放弃可以有个人来爱的可能。没有爱的时候,先让自己好,这样爱情来的时候,两个人才会好。 Everyone has his own interest, perhaps love, www.czwmt.com sweet perhaps with some bitterness, but have been so pleasant. After the injury, you may not believe in love, you may feel life to their own, but dear, life is not a single choice questions, we can choose a person, but to know how to love themselves, and then live a good life, in the hearts of the energy accumulated love, and then take courage, face to every heart. A man's confession: "every life to this is all alone, so you need to find someone to accompany, so that the journey has become interesting. But this does not mean that the construction of a happy life on others." "A man is very good," you were afraid to say so, and in the end, it came true. Just one day, you suddenly realize that this thing, www.51lyd.com then shocked, then you will know, did not mention it. Like some kind of superstition like, such as couples can't go bye bye, we can't send the other half of the shoes as, because fear come true, so they try to avoid, to prevent spell doom to keep in mind that these love taboo, hope can bring the good luck of love. 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