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人生,不但要懂得赢,也要懂得输!(Life, not only to know how to win, but also to know how to lose!)

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人生,不但要懂得赢,也要懂得输!(Life, not only to know how to win, but also to know how to lose!)人生,不但要懂得赢,也要懂得输!(Life, not only to know how to win, but also to know how to lose!) 人生,不但要懂得赢,也要懂得输!(Life, not only to know how to win, but also to know how to lose!) A Christian woman said, although she believed, but she hated her elder sister, don't see ey...

人生,不但要懂得赢,也要懂得输!(Life, not only to know how to win, but also to know how to lose!)
人生,不但要懂得赢,也要懂得输!(Life, not only to know how to win, but also to know how to lose!) 人生,不但要懂得赢,也要懂得输!(Life, not only to know how to win, but also to know how to lose!) A Christian woman said, although she believed, but she hated her elder sister, don't see eye to eye. Since childhood, they beat, often catch each other each other's hair Xiehen; usually eat put chopsticks, only to give each other a chopsticks. Once, her turn put chopsticks, she thought to revenge, only to Pamilla chopsticks; no material seen by father, the father had put her finger and she also played swelling, pain, tears could not eat! And so on things, so she and Pamilla emerge in an endless stream, the "cold satire hot war, hate each other" kind heart. The girl said, although she often go to church, but also in alone, hiding behind the warehouse, tearful prayer: "Lord, I want to love my sister, but I can not do!" Later, she heard a voice and said, "if you like, one day you can."!" A month later, the girl said, Pamilla and mocking words constantly mocked her, when she wanted to go back to lambaste, her mouth, timely brake "Lord, please give me patience, please give me patience!" Her heart pray without ceasing. Finally the mouth finally put down, and do "was reviled not, was not being" A copper coin won't ring! Because of her patience, Pamilla by curiosity, in the course of time, Pamilla also no provocation. One day, my sister suddenly holding a stamp, said to her like collecting stamps. The girl asked: "elder sister surprised how suddenly you so good to me?" My sister said to her: "is your first change!" Sometimes we thought we'd won, but in fact we lost! Because we won the "face", but lost the lining"! On the contrary, perhaps we are reviled not, not being "seems to be" lost ", in fact, but we win, and win the rich! The murder case has create a great sensation, in order to compete for the doctoral boyfriend Hongxing girls, actually killed his female classmate, and chemical mutilation. Originally, Hongxing girls think that "she won", did not expect the students died, she was put in prison, her boyfriend also suffered a blow; the results of three promising young people into "no win" but completely lost three"! Of course, we all hope that interpersonal relationships can "win-win", but, maybe one day, we didn't do anything wrong, but also hold back the tears, to apologize to people, let us pray to God: "God, please give me the courage, please give me patience......" Because, perhaps, the "temporary loss" will be the future "winning opportunity" ah! Communication Proverbs Sometimes, people's beauty, people often make themselves become very spoiled, self, and the "invisible person", all the others in my, listen to me, holding me, spoil me! And I'm great and right. I've always been a winner! However, in interpersonal relationships, "know how to win, but also know how to lose", "know how to competition, but also to know how to tolerate."". Because we can't always win, not lose"! We must know how to "tolerant, yield and thank" in due course, because in interpersonal communication, "tolerance and concession" is not necessarily "I lose", but may be "win-win" ah! Language has temperature. Mocking words, arrogant, harsh taunt, cold, cold...... Will make people miserable, resent years. Warm and sincere, with compliments, acceptance, respect, warm embrace, smile encouragement...... Is so inspiring, such as the winter sun bath. So, in words - a modest loss, a modest concession, and a "win of the other", the enemy becomes a friend! Without virtue, there is no morality The worst voices are sarcasm and ridicule; the sweetest voices are praise and applause! In the past, there was a girl in my class, I have an overseas boyfriend. One day, her boyfriend with a locomotive and sent her home, with another male students on the road, went to the night market to eat snacks. When her boyfriend returned home, the girl called and said, "where have you been?" I call you everywhere, playing ten through can not find, I thought you were killed in a car accident!" "What are you doing?" I didn't go, just on the road, Xiao Guo, go to eat a snack!" Boyfriend wronged said. "You are a pig!"! Eat supper? Then you won't call to talk to me? I was in a sweat, home phone rang, he thought you died in a car accident, the police asked me to identify the body!" The girl growled angrily. This is a real example. People in frustrated or angry, self-control is poor, often "outspoken". Moreover, when people are out of control, they like to use "negative" adjectives to add to each other, such as: "you pig, stupid, stupid, you die!"......" Sometimes, we feel that "he provoked me", "he made me angry", "I am good for him", so I have the right to be angry and entitled to "Curse" to vent". However, if we vent our feelings, it will hurt others and make people unable to bear it! A person is deeply hurt by the language, the scars will remain forever, and often "dull pain" ah! We've all been to a lot of parties. Think about it. Is the last meal all desserts? It seems like most of the banquets, the last ones are sweet and delicious". Why is that? Because, when the host wishes the guest to leave, his mouth kept "sweet and delicious" impression! Interpersonal relationship although not party time, you need to leave; but if we had "in Germany", "outspoken" and hurt others, it is difficult to swallow food, it is likely to become the last course of bilateral relations "". When our guests leave, the mouth is not "sweet and delicious" taste, but "bitter, hot, vomiting" hate ah! So, the girl broke up with her boyfriend, and her boyfriend said, "I'm not sad, I'm just glad."!" Communication Proverbs Experience is the beginning of understanding!" When we are insulted, discrimination, despise, we know, how he is not willing to "insulted, discrimination, cheap"; however, this is we learn lessons - later, we must not be like those "without virtue" people like to hurt others. Emerson said: "use the knife to dissect the key words, it will bleed."!" Really, our hearts bleed when we hear someone stab us, without a word, or a mean word". Therefore, "let other people's heart bleed", never say from our mouth; because, without the "moral" people, there is no "morality" ah! The Jews said, "the best thing in the world is the tongue, and the worst is the tongue."." Some words, without even thinking of others it blurted out, lethal, than a knife and cut each other pain, hardly wished to live. So the worst voices are sarcasm and ridicule; the sweetest voices are praise and applause! Good and good communication is of great magic! It can melt the thick ice wall of people and bring happiness and warmth to people!
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