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首页 13步暗示法引领孩子进步(The 13 step hint method leads the c…

13步暗示法引领孩子进步(The 13 step hint method leads the child to progress).doc

13步暗示法引领孩子进步(The 13 step hint m…

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简介:本文档为《13步暗示法引领孩子进步(The 13 step hint method leads the child to progress)doc》,可适用于社会民生领域

步暗示法引领孩子进步(Thestephintmethodleadsthechildtoprogress)步暗示法引领孩子进步(Thestephintmethodleadsthechildtoprogress)ThestepmethodsuggeststhatleadchildrenprogressTxtknowhowtoletgoofpeoplefindeasytoforget,peoplefindfreedom,caringpeoplefindhappiness!ThewisewomanisabletoappreciatethewisemanLifeislight,workisoil,tolight,willrefuel!Love,flytotheskyallfeelatease,becauseyoucaredaboutafterbreakingup,sitathomefeelweightless,becausethereisnodirectionThestepmethodthatleadchildrenprogressWiththeconstantlyupdatingtheconceptofeducation,indailylife,parentswillimperceptiblygivechildrensomehintsThesesuggestionsoncultivatingchildren'spersonality,learningandlivinghabits,thequalityhasplayedarolecannotbeunderestimatedAmongthem,thechildofthe"hint"canbedividedinto"positivehint"and"negativesuggestion"Positivesuggestion:topromotethehealthygrowthofchildren,tocultivategoodcharacterandmentalityNegativehint:iscorrosiveinthemindsofchildren,letthechildrenhavelowselfesteemanddepression,psychologicalselfWefoundthatmanyparentsintheeducationprocessindifferentdegreesof"negativesuggestion"errorSo,wesummedupthe"hint"toguidethechildren'sprogressskills"Hint"method:makethechilddoinghomeworkpositiveThemotherwasconvincedthatthechild'shomeworkwillbeverygood,thefirststepistocultivatechildren'sprogresstreatthechildasifitwerethetopstudents,childrenwillgraduallybecometopstudentsletthechildrendotheirhomeworkspecificimaginationwillgetbenefitsletchildrendonotdohomework,butalsoacorrectiontodomyhomeworkinthesuggestivetherapychildrencomplaindonotwanttodohomework,deliberatelysaid:"anyway,youaresuchachild!"occasionallysaid:"yougo!"butwillmakechildrenfeeluneasywhenthechildrendonotwanttodohomework,lethimfinishhomeworktothetable,inordertocultivateemotionwhenthechildrendotheirhomeworkwhentheenginehasnotyetstarted,letthechildrentoworkschedulebecauseofnotgoodsubjectsintolow,letthechildrentemporarilyonlydogoodsubjectsforchildrencannotconcentrateonhomework,lethimchoosewhichonedofirstdrawparentscriticizedtheschoolortheteacherwillmakechildrenhateteachersandschools,butalsohatedoinghomework"Hint"methodtwo:childrenlistentoexhortbythirdtoconveythemother'sfeartothem,inordertoeliminatethechild'sdesireanddissatisfactionandthechildrenofconfrontation,canuselettersordiariestoconveyyourthoughtsandfeelingslettheemotionalchildrenaccept,willbelowerthanusualvoiceThefirstsaidthefailureofparentsexperiencebeforeenteringthetheme,childrencanaccepttheirparentsadviceofthechildrentemptationshowindifferentattitude,childrenwillnaturallyforgetTodiscussthetoneproposalsorcomments,thechildwillfeelthedecisionswanttogivethechildalotofattention,firstlimitedtoaproblemofchildrenthatyoucandoit,thechildwillhavetoliveuptoyourexpectationsofpsychologicalcorrectthechild,don'tsaydon'tdowhatyousay,whatshouldbedoneDon'tblamethefailure,aslongaschildren,askinghimtodoitagain,naturecanreducefailureofthechildrenofsmallfault,onthespottoadvice,largerproblemsoveraperiodoftimetonowisalsogood,butalsobetter",thechildwillbemorewillingtoaccept"youaretoosloppy"accusedofwords,iseasytoletthechildrenhaveanegativeimplication"Hint"method:threechildrenwillguideinordertoletthechildrentohatethechallengesubject,Youcanleaveyourfavoritesubjectattheendletthechildrendonotlovethings,youmaysaythat"thenextlittlefriendsdogivechildrentoogoodenvironment,willlosethewishesofthechildimperceptiblyinthechildren'sroomwithhisloveofthestarsorlandscapephotos,canenhanceitsattentiontoforthechildrentouseimproperlybelittleoneself,oftenencouragethestatementifyousayitinfrontofyourchildWithoutwords,childrendon'tworkhardsometimesyouhavetoconsidertheideamotherbeggingsuchstimulationisalsoveryeffectivewhenchildrenreflect,parentscantakethewaybysurprisereturnthebait,thereturntothespecificimage,toguidethechildrenwillimprovesometimes,maywishtouseaholiday,onefamilygohikingorseeexpandingmarineliaoningforchildrentoimprovethewillingnesstodothings,togiveevaluationpraisethechild,mustsincerelyshowashepleaseddeliberatelyoverconfidentchildrenscold,stimulatehisselfesteem,inordertopromoteitswillingnesstoimprove"Hint"method:fourchildrenautomaticeliminationofdiscontentbytheparentsselectedconditionsforchildren,thechild'sparticipationconsciousnesssometimespretendedacceptchildrenofallrequirementstolistentochildren'sdissatisfaction,letthechildrentoventdissatisfactionmoodoftheminorgrievancesordissatisfaction,exaggeratedattentiontoevenifthechild'srequestistooboring,mothertolistentoanearnestexpressionchildrenforimproperrequirements,maybeincidentalmentionthanherequireshigherconditionsletthechildrenthinknotreason,thensaidcoldly:"nomeansno!"tostopthechild,nottomentionthegoodandevil,butonlytostimulatethechild'sfeelingsoflossfortheaggrievedchild,notallnegative,shouldbepartofacertainofthechildrenoffriendshavethetheory,tohavenocorrespondingarrangetoventanotherplaceofemotions,thechildrenwillbeabletoliftthediscontent"Hint"methodfive:removethechildtiredpsychologyonlydothirtyminutesofhomework!Giveseveralsmallgoalsdon'tletthechildrendoinghomeworkwhentheresttimeinadaze,andlethimdosomechoresLetthechildrenhavesimplethingseverydaytododohomeworkamongdessertorsnack,havetodoitanymoresuggestiveeffectWhilethechildrenstillinterested,usingeffectinterrupt,announcednexttime!"whenthechildrendotheirhomeworkbecausefeelbored,canusethedogtodomoderateexerciseifchildrendohomeworkreallyhard,don'tagreewithhim,saythatisnotpainful!"childrenbegantolazy,justanultimatum:"don'tdoitnowtoolate!"ifthechildcanbestirredupfailure,thechildwillforgettired,andwanttorechallengedifferentcombinationsofthenatureofthesubject,allowingthechildtoregulatemoodeffectwhenthechildbegantofeelbored,canchangethehomeworktableandplace"Hint"methodsix:removethechildnervousandupsetduetothemistakeandstronglydisturbedchildren,tocomforthim,peoplemakemistakesJustatest!Mother'swordscanmakechildrenrelaxofthechildrensaid:"theexamwegotoeatice!tochangethechild'smoodchildreninexcitement,Deliberatelycorrespondingtoaslowattitudebecauseofthetimeandtheanxiouschild,saidanhourissixtyminutes,canreducethepsychologicalburdenchildrenareafraidoffailureandfeelingupset,trytopraisefearofthedownturninchildren,givingthesimpleproblemofrelievingthepsychologicalinferiorityanervouschild,lethimgraffitionthepaper,inordertoeliminatethetensionchildrenshowedanxietyandtremblingwhenheexhaledslowlytoteachrelaxationchildreninordertotestandtense,themothercantrytodeliberatelysaythewrongthingforanervouschild,usuallytobringhimamascotchildrentoonervous,letthechildrensaytheirtensesituationlittledesireforchildrenandtensioncompletelyunrelatedtomeet,canreleasethetension"Hint"method:makechildrenconcentrateSevenchildrenwithnonintegertime,quasicustomizedhomeworkschedulealarmclockasthebedtime,todecidetoendthetimetodohomeworkchildrenthespiritoframbling,lethimlistentotheclocktickingdothehomeworktoconcentrate,trytoreadoutthecontentsofthemouthnotkeenlessonscanbescheduledtochangetableonlyoncetolimit,childrenwillproduceaspontaneoussituationusualtrainingletthechildrenhelpwiththehouseworkandtherequiredworkhabitstopreparefortheexamtochildren,maywishtoactivelypersuadehimtoguessFixedtheceremonybeforedoinghomework,immediatelyconcentrateToomuchtimetoworryabout,maywishtodothethingthatworriesforchildrenunabletoconcentrate,notintimetomakeplansforthenumberof"Hint"methodeight:makechildrenoutofconfusionchooseaorBandconfused,thechildwillchoosethelatterpsychologicaltoaskinordertofurthereducationoremploymentandconfusion,shouldbeinducedtoask:togopublicorprivate"ofthechildrensaid:"gotothewallAndifa,BandC!inordertogetapublicorprivateschoolandconfused,flatlysaid:youtestforprivate!"Hetoldthechildrenhere:atthistimeitcanplaytwoorthreetimesthestrength!"forchildrenwithhigherdesiretoblockadetosay:"nothigh!"deliberatelypretendednottosee,toeliminatechildconfusionwhenthechildconfused,letthechildrenopenthewindowlookoutsidethemorningisfulloflifeletthechildrenwatchcartoonsorjokes,inordertoovercomethesituation"Hint"methodnine:makethechild'sattitudefromnegativetopositiveletthechildrenannounceatargetinfrontoftheirparents,canencouragechildrentochallengegoalletthemovementlearningJudo,notonlycanexercisethechild'sbody,butalsocanheartenspiritseethechildrenbediscouraged,tospeedupthepaceoflife,tocreateapositiveattitudeusuallyletthechildrendevelopthehabitoftalkingloudlyforovercautiouschildren,occasionallylethimtogotoschoolearlyfortheovercautiouschild,lethimtrytoassociatewithpositivechildrenUsedtoletchildrentowritethewordsandstretchtrainingforthefeeblechild,donotusenegativedonotthatfeeblerestaurants,letthechildrenchooseadventurehehasnevereatenfoodtotaketheleadtodothingsnotgoodatchildren,trytomakehimdohouseworkwanttomakechildrenspeaklively,Oftenaskedifhecouldonlyanswer"yes"or"no"questionseveniffinallydecidedbytheparents,havedeliberatelyaskedtheviewsofchildrenchildrenwerepraisingtheirunexpectedplaces,willexpandandbecomeactiveself"Suggestion"Ten:makechildrenmoreconfidentoccasionallytrytodowellthetopic,letthechildrenexperiencesuccessThechildisdifficultchallenges,deliberatelyignorethemistake,onlypraisegoodpartdon'tpraiseandpraise,thechildwillhaveconfidencewillsucceedtodoinordertoavoidaccusationsbecomenegativeimplications,sothefirstaccusedtheformerinpraisemoreblamethanpraisetheadvantagesdisadvantages,tocultivatechildren'sselfconfidencetoldthechildonlytoletyougethimfirstclassschool,secondaryschooltochallengeconfidenceofparentssaymilksopaword,canmakethechildreallyuselessseethingsclosetothembyslander,childrenwillfeelisevilinthirdbeforecriticizingthechild,morechildrenthandirectlyscoldthechildinjurytomastersomeluckystorytotellthechildrenlucky,thechildwillincreaseconfidencechildrenquicklyloseconfidenceforthefuture,toremindhimofpreviousresultsobtained"Hint"method:removethechildasenseofinferioritysayabsolutestatement,thesenseofinferioritywillmakechildrengraduallyfadetoonlygetfiftypointsanddepressedchildrensaid:"Fifty!"shouldberejected,shouldbeputforwardascollateralSonolimitSomechildrenonlypayattentiontoavoidtodo,andpayattentiontothepartshortcomingsasadvantages,willreducethechildren'ssenseofinferiorityforthechildrenofinferiority,lethimreadthebiographiesofgreatmenaccusedofdeliberatelygoodchildren,letthechildrenloseselfconfidenceandrelieveinferioritynomatterhowsmallthingsareindifferent,letthechildrenfeelhehasaspecialskillchildrenfailorwrong,thatluckisakindofmethod"Hint"methodtwelve:correctingchildren'sshortcomingsinfrontofthechildrenpointedouttheshortcomingsofthechild,alsocanreceivethecontroleffectforthedisadvantagesofmanychildren,tellhimhewillbeverypromising,toencouragehimarrangementsforchildrentoconveyothershortcomingsofthechild,thechildwilltaketheinitiativetocorrecthisshortcomingschildrentoworryaboutdisadvantages,thedisadvantagestoadvantagesdonotdirectlycorrectshortcomings,andeliminatehiddenintheshortcomingsbehindthedesireanddissatisfactionifthechildoftenfails,indicatingthatsaid:"thefailuredoesnotmatterpunishmentordrinkWeisuggestedthatifthecoalhasoccasionallyusedwillbeweakeneddonotdirectlypointouttheshortcomingsofthechild,andtheuseofautomaticspeakingwellwayforthechildrenofparentstoresist,don'tpresstheauthorityto"Hint"methodthirteen:Realpraiseandthechild'sfatherandgrandparentsfoughttopraisewordsbecomearealitybythirdwords,dilutethechild'ssuspicionThefirstreferstothethirdmethods,praisewordswillbemorerealisticchildrenwillconcentrateadvantageintoapointtopraise,feelallpraisechildrenpraise,praiseatleastthreeadvantagesofthemethodisveryeffectiveotherspraisetheirchildren,tocalmlyacceptchildrendogood,topraisechildrenpraisechildreninfrontofothers,Childrenwillbedoublydelightedwithpraisechildrenpraise,praiseeachwordthatyouwanttochangeThus,thatplaysasignificantinfluenceonchildren,imperceptiblyfromthesideimpacttothechildren,soastoavoidtheencouragementandpraiseiseasytoletthechildrenhavenorealjudgmentontheirown,teachchildrentobecautious

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