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首页 怎样做一个合格的爸爸(How to be a qualified Dad)

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怎样做一个合格的爸爸(How to be a qualifie…

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简介:本文档为《怎样做一个合格的爸爸(How to be a qualified Dad)doc》,可适用于社会民生领域

怎样做一个合格的爸爸(HowtobeaqualifiedDad)怎样做一个合格的爸爸(HowtobeaqualifiedDad)HowtobeaqualifieddadEducationthisisanimperceptibleprocessUsually,intheeyesoftheparents,theyalsoseemtobeinloveeducation,astheysay,theyputalloftheireffortsarespentonchildren:givehimclothes,shoes,fedandboughthimavarietyoftoys,lovehim,ofcourse,willpunishhiminchildrenguiltyofnegligencegiventheearnestteachingsTrueeducationistoeducatorsandconsistencyinspiritbasedontheirown,onlytoattractchildren,feelgoodaboutyourinstructionsandexamplecaseineducation,inordertohavetherealeducationWhatifthereisnoinherentspiritualconsistencybetweenchildrenandtheirparentsItcanbesaidthatthereisnorealeducationatallSomeareatbestanillusionofeducationDearparents,especiallydads!IfIsaythatanalcoholicdadandasmokingdadcan'tbeaworthyeducator,itmightsurpriseyou,butshoulditsurpriseyouIfinadditiontotobaccoandalcoholaddiction,youhavealovelychilddotesonhisgoodheart,oftenwithhimeverywherearound,givehimadelicious,funthings,andyourchildrenrecognizeyoutodoisagoodexample,heusedtohowmucheffort,canmakeyougoodwithyoursmokinganddrinkinghabitslearnedtheidlealtogetherTeachyourchildrenlikethis:themainthingisnottopreach,toteachandtobestow,buttoteachthembytheexampleswhichareworthyoftheirchildren'semulationIknowthatinmanyfamilies,childrenareincreasinglyfeelingalackofpaternalaffectionandlackofspiritualinteractionwiththeirfathersFatherisbusywithhisworkandgoeshomeverylateThechildwaslookingforwardtohisreturnhome,"Dadwillbebacksoon"!"Waitandwait,hefellasleep,sohedidn'twaituntildadIftheannualweekly,monthly,sointhepast,therewillbeakindofabnormalphenomenon:Althoughthefamilylivedinthesameapartment,livingtogether,butfatherandchildrendon'tknoweachother,thefatherevenchildrengrowarenotawareofIsthisagoodsituationNo,it'sawful!Soit'sbad,becausethetimeforreal,sincerefriendshipbetweenfatherandson(daughter)hasbeenmissedThatistosay,thetimewhenfatherscanentertheirchildren'slivesasintimate,oldfriendsandmentorsisgoneforeverItisnotenoughtomakehimselfaclosemanofhischildren,butthatheistheirownfatherTheyfathers,mothers,andchildrenlivetogetherasfriendsTimeandtide,withoutthefoundationofthiscommonlife,thefather'sinfluenceontheeducationofhischildrenhasbecomeweakerAschildrengrowolder,therelationshipbetweenfathersandthembecomestense,orbecomesmerelypoliteonthesurfaceWeoftencomplainaboutthefactthattherearetoofewmaleteachersandcollectiveteachersinschools,andrealizethatithasanegativeimpactontheformationofyoungpeople'scharacterInmanyfamilies,thisisalsotrue,becausetheeducationofchildrenhasbecomeonlymother,grandmother,auntcare,andifthereisgrandfathercare,thatevengoodenoughIntheenvironmentsurroundedbywomen'scare,thereisadangerofeducationforchildren,althoughitisdifficulttosaywhatkindofdangeritis,butitdoesexistInthefeminineeducationenvironment,theriskcannotbeeliminated,becauseonlyinthefatherandthemotheroftheirchildrentoestablishtherequirementsofoneofthetwooverallsituation,inordertoformafullyqualifiednatural,andmeettherequirementsofsociety,goodfamilyeducationenvironmentIntegrityhasbeendestroyed,andthegoodenvironmentforfamilyeducationhasceasedtoexistDadinthehomeisnotlikethebirdsinthegardentoscarethescarecrow,heisnotthatkindofpowercanbeusedtofrightenchildrenFathershouldbetheprideofthefamilyandenjoyhighprestigeofthepeoplewithhisownlabortoselflessdedicationtofamilylife,healsohastherightandobligationtoasktheirchildren:howtheyusetheirgoodmoralcharacter,politeanddiligentlearningtoaddtohislaborforce,theyhowtomaintaingoodthetraditionalfamily"WouldyoulikemetotellDadaboutit""Motherislikelytoasksuchatoneofguiltyofnegligenceoftheson,andthesonmaysay:"Mom,don'ttellDadinthefuture,Idarenot!"Theparentsofoneofthetwointheeducationofchildrenontheissue,inthespiritoftheconsistencybetweenparentsandchildren,itisreflectedinthefollowingsentencemeaningistomaintainastrictfatherchildrentofear,ortocarefortheirchildrenastoberesponsibleforallthemoralobligationsofthepeopleChildrenneeddadsThisiswhatIsayinthemostextensivesenseChildrenneedsuchafather:hefullycareforthelivesoftheirchildren,teachthemtobeabrave,honest,honest,cheerful,loveoflaborandtothepeopleheisnottheoneatanytimeandwillplaythegangsterdepressedpeopleconfused,norisoftenonapunchbeatinghiswifeandchildren,alcoholic,violentHan,butonewithhiskindnessandbroadmindedandenjoysareputationintherelativesandneighborsinpersonheoftenseemstoforgetoneselfisanadult,sooftenlikeanaughtychildandtheirchildrenplaytogetherAschildrengrewup,hegrewintoateenagerandneededhisfatherandfatherThat'swhatImeaninthemostextensivesenseChildrenneedsuchafather:heisasocialconcerntheinterestsofthepeople,afullofpassiontocreatetheskilledlabor,astruggletorealizethegreatidealofcommunismfighterheisawiseandcompassionatementor,anunderstandingoftheirsonordaughteronapersonastrictwithoneselfandstrictrequirementsofothers,heisalsoacongruent,targetfirmandtruetothecorepersonhecanincreasetheconfidenceinthefutureoffamilyandpeaceofmindforthewholefamily,establishedbetweenfamilymemberscaringandsympatheticattitudeheisachildhecantomakeanhonestconversationwhoisamantobetrustedAsayoungmangrowsupandgrowsintoayoungman,healsoneedsafather,afather,andafatherThisisfromthefollowingpointofview:fathershouldalwaysbeatalltimeswiththeirownpracticalactionsandthequalityofnationalworkersreflectthenoblequalitiesForyoungmenandwomen,itisveryimportantthatafathershouldbeamanwhoisuniversallypraised,universallyrespectedandrespectedHetreatedhiswifewithawarmandcaringattitudetowardshisownparentsHeunderstandsmodernyouth,believesinyouth,andtrustshisownsonanddaughterHeencouragedandencouragechildrenconcernedaboutnationalaffairs,withnobleandheroicpassion,carryforwardthespiritofgoodisevil,toafriendwithsincereandselflessfriendship,establishnoblelove,arousetheirloyaltytothemotherland,todothemastersofthecountryandmaintainthenationalfeelingsoffriendshipandunityofthesenseofobligationChildren,teenagers,andteenagersneedafather,buteachone'sfatherisverydifferentThefather:theyoftenputtheiroldersontotheirpostsandputtheirskillstoteachhim,andaskedhimnottodestroyhisownfatherinthisfactoryenjoysthereputationofButtherearealsofatherswhooftensendtheirteenagechildrentoshopforcigarettesorvodka,andlatereventeachthemtosmokeanddrinkwiththemselves"Yougotit!"!What'sthefussaboutthisShouldIbearealman!"TheywillalsousethiskindofwordstoexpressthemselvesTherearesuchfathers:theyleavetheirchildrenwithaninexhaustibleandinexhaustiblespirituallegacyhonesty,respect,helpfulness,prideinwork,andtheglorioustraditionofthefamilyButtherearealsosuchafather:theytriedtooffertheirchildrenavarietyofmaterialwealth,sothattheycanhavelifelifesoastomakelightofheartfromcare,helostlabor,struggleandthejoyofachievementIhaveheardmanytimesthatthereissuchafather:once,regardlessofthesafetyofhislife,jumpedintoaturbulentRiver,rescueddrowningchildrenItisnotdifficulttoimaginehowproudthefather'schildrenwillfeel,andhowwelltheywillbegiventotheminthespiritofselfsacrificeandhelpfulnessIalsoheardthatthereisafatherthathelettheadolescentsonplayingwithaweaponisstillinhisown,buthissondidnotknowhowtouseweapons,theresultsoccurredirreparableaccidentsPridethatcomesfromone'sparentsthemoralfoundationforachild'spersonalitysublimationAsenseofshamethatisduetoone'sparentsaheavymentalburdenthatpreventschildrenfrommakingfullprogress

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