关於农村青年男女相亲调查

关於农村青年男女相亲调查 关于农村青年男女相亲调查 110840212 陈平 调查人:陈平 调查时间:寒假 调查地点:回市村 调查对象:本村青年男女 关于农村青年男女相亲调查 前言 随着时代的发展，农村婚姻现在并没有多少改变，早婚现象仍然十分明显。大多数青年男女都在外面打工，即便有些人在外面谈了朋友，但真正结婚的还是非常的少。农村的相亲方式就显得越发流行，我就此对农村相亲的前提，背景，过程，以及其利弊作出分析。 一、 早婚现象在农村仍然十分普遍 受农村传统习惯影响，早点结婚是一件大事。只有早点结婚，孩子one good, one not. (B) in order to tailor aid measures. After identification of the poor, to tailor aid measures of poverty for poverty alleviation. Focus on "five to the village to" infrastructure to the village to households and industry support to the household, education and training to the village to the village families, renovate rural village households, twinning support to village households. Through villages, analytical grasp of poverty causes door-to-door implementation support responsible, supporting projects and help to fund. According to deficiency what fill what principles, "should be agricultural is agricultural, and should be workers is workers, and should be tour is tour, and should be business is business", developed more precision of poverty programme, put "sent dish door" into let masses "see single order", ensure a households a this Taiwan account, and a households a poverty plans, and a households a helping measures, put poverty funds, and project, and material, implementation to specific village, and specific households, and specific people, real helped points Shang, and help to root Shang. File in the County, 11 out of poverty is presented here, some form of further stressed. In industry poverty aspects, to relies on I County of fruits and vegetables canned and honeysuckle two big industry, play agricultural processing enterprise in funds, and technology, and sales, and employment, aspects of advantage, through "enterprise + base + poor", mode, guide poverty village, and poor development quality forest fruit, and Chinese herbal medicines, and mushroom, and facilities vegetables, and flower seedlings, features industry, absorb poverty labor employment increase, effective increased poor business sex income and workers income, 们才会成熟，会肩负一些负担，学会一些东西，与此同时，父母也可以早点结束自己的使命———将孩子们抚养成人到成家，也希望着早点抱到孙儿，维系家族的命脉。大多数家庭在男孩22岁，女孩20岁左右就开始张罗了，如果女孩超过了23，男孩超过了25，他们就开始着急了，就成了别人口中的大龄青年了，那就更加不好成家了，那父母的心里负担会更重。所以早婚在农村一件非常普遍，或说流行的事。 二、 相亲纪实过程 恋爱对大多数的农村青年依然是遥远的，更多的农村青年寻找对象的方式依然是依靠媒婆。对在广大农村，早婚现象依然十分严重。让我们来看看这对年轻的男女的一段相亲过程…… 1.上午10时许，媒人王大妈带来了男孩――李凯，21岁，一个显得很腼腆的男孩。初中毕业后在苏州打工1年，家中独生子，还有一妹妹，男孩对这人生第一次相亲，也很紧张。 一会儿，女孩的姐姐和女主角一起来了。女主角――-叶蔓，她今年也不过20岁，和男孩一样毕业后在外打工，这也是农村最普遍的现象。男孩女孩经过简单的见面，问话，对长相、性格通过媒人中介 表 关于同志近三年现实表现材料材料类招标技术评分表图表与交易pdf视力表打印pdf用图表说话 pdf 达自己的态度和想法。(一般情况下，媒人两边都介绍过双方的家庭情况，个人长相，性格，这次相亲碰面就是一证实过程，如果满意，就会有下一步。) one good, one not. (B) in order to tailor aid measures. After identification of the poor, to tailor aid measures of poverty for poverty alleviation. Focus on "five to the village to" infrastructure to the village to households and industry support to the household, education and training to the village to the village families, renovate rural village households, twinning support to village households. Through villages, analytical grasp of poverty causes door-to-door implementation support responsible, supporting projects and help to fund. According to deficiency what fill what principles, "should be agricultural is agricultural, and should be workers is workers, and should be tour is tour, and should be business is business", developed more precision of poverty programme, put "sent dish door" into let masses "see single order", ensure a households a this Taiwan account, and a households a poverty plans, and a households a helping measures, put poverty funds, and project, and material, implementation to specific village, and specific households, and specific people, real helped points Shang, and help to root Shang. File in the County, 11 out of poverty is presented here, some form of further stressed. In industry poverty aspects, to relies on I County of fruits and vegetables canned and honeysuckle two big industry, play agricultural processing enterprise in funds, and technology, and sales, and employment, aspects of advantage, through "enterprise + base + poor", mode, guide poverty village, and poor development quality forest fruit, and Chinese herbal medicines, and mushroom, and facilities vegetables, and flower seedlings, features industry, absorb poverty labor employment increase, effective increased poor business sex income and workers income, 2.男女方满意的话，男孩女孩会单独出去约会，相处几天，以便进一步了解。接着，男女孩可以互相到双方家里去玩，接受双方家人的检验。 3(男孩到女孩家玩，女孩子家的亲友接着来了很多，父母、要好的姐妹、婶子、嫂子、大娘等等都要亲自对男孩“过目”一番， 男孩李凯不得不从屋内站出来，尴尬地让女方的“陪审团”认真审视。 在农村，男孩一般在21、22岁就开始被大人们张罗着找对象，惟恐年龄一大成为“老大男”，女孩也差不多，所以，在农村，22岁或者22岁以前结婚的成为最普遍的现象。按生理发育阶段排列，可以毫不夸张地说，他们大都直接从少年步入了成年，因为短暂而美好的青春根本没有在他们记忆里停留。 因为他们无缘接受更高等的教育，所以，初中毕业――打工几年――结婚――生孩子……如此循环。 女孩叶蔓的弟弟也来了，姐弟几个在低声地嘀咕着。女孩似乎并没有过多的发表意见，也许自己心中已经有了主意。 其实，正是花季年龄的少女，并不知道到底什么样的男孩子适合自己，对于这种“见面”式的订婚方式，他们并不太接受。但是，由于环境和生活圈子的狭小，更多的年轻人只能屈服于这种“相亲”，婚姻质量的好坏，全是由天来决定 叶蔓背过身，在“倾听”弟弟的意见。男孩李凯似乎也在等待和叶蔓单独“见面”的机会。这种场面，如果女孩认为基本差不多的时候，媒人one good, one not. (B) in order to tailor aid measures. After identification of the poor, to tailor aid measures of poverty for poverty alleviation. Focus on "five to the village to" infrastructure to the village to households and industry support to the household, education and training to the village to the village families, renovate rural village households, twinning support to village households. Through villages, analytical grasp of poverty causes door-to-door implementation support responsible, supporting projects and help to fund. According to deficiency what fill what principles, "should be agricultural is agricultural, and should be workers is workers, and should be tour is tour, and should be business is business", developed more precision of poverty programme, put "sent dish door" into let masses "see single order", ensure a households a this Taiwan account, and a households a poverty plans, and a households a helping measures, put poverty funds, and project, and material, implementation to specific village, and specific households, and specific people, real helped points Shang, and help to root Shang. File in the County, 11 out of poverty is presented here, some form of further stressed. In industry poverty aspects, to relies on I County of fruits and vegetables canned and honeysuckle two big industry, play agricultural processing enterprise in funds, and technology, and sales, and employment, aspects of advantage, through "enterprise + base + poor", mode, guide poverty village, and poor development quality forest fruit, and Chinese herbal medicines, and mushroom, and facilities vegetables, and flower seedlings, features industry, absorb poverty labor employment increase, effective increased poor business sex income and workers income, 都会安排让男孩和女孩有一定时间的单独“见面”机会 。很久以前，这种“见面”，女方会问一些“家中弟兄几个,几亩地,……”等等问题。如果直系亲属有一到两位强烈反对的话，就意味着“相亲”的失败。叶蔓的亲友在抓紧最后的“磋商”。 一桩关系男女终身的大事成败其实就在那一瞬间。农村这种传承几代人的“相亲”传统在这个21世纪的现代社会里，依然延续着…… 如何让更多农民走出来，接受更多的、更好的教育,如何让他们接触更多的社会,也许是我们这个社会都应该来关心的问题。 因为，他们没有“责任”必须祖祖辈辈留守在农村，他们完全可以生活的更 好。叶蔓的家人在向媒人转达他们的意见。 假设这桩婚事成了的话，男方为了这桩婚姻也是要付出不小的代价。 从给女方的财礼、男方家要盖两层楼房、四大件必不可少，到结婚宴请亲友，一般至少要花费5-6万元以上，多的更是7-8万以上。这在农村，应该算最大的负担了。 所以，父母辛辛苦苦一辈子能给儿子娶上媳妇，成了他们最大的心愿，也是他们一生奋斗的目标。 其实，在农村，由于年轻人都在外打工，春节就成了“相亲”和结婚的高峰期，大部分“适龄”青年都会选择着个期间来“相亲”或者结婚。“适龄”――其实只是正值黄金青春的年龄，懵懂还没有结束，“成熟”已经降临。 4.女孩到男孩家也要经过审查，大体情况与男孩到女孩家一样，如果双方没什么意见，这桩婚事就算定下来了。 one good, one not. (B) in order to tailor aid measures. After identification of the poor, to tailor aid measures of poverty for poverty alleviation. Focus on "five to the village to" infrastructure to the village to households and industry support to the household, education and training to the village to the village families, renovate rural village households, twinning support to village households. Through villages, analytical grasp of poverty causes door-to-door implementation support responsible, supporting projects and help to fund. According to deficiency what fill what principles, "should be agricultural is agricultural, and should be workers is workers, and should be tour is tour, and should be business is business", developed more precision of poverty programme, put "sent dish door" into let masses "see single order", ensure a households a this Taiwan account, and a households a poverty plans, and a households a helping measures, put poverty funds, and project, and material, implementation to specific village, and specific households, and specific people, real helped points Shang, and help to root Shang. File in the County, 11 out of poverty is presented here, some form of further stressed. In industry poverty aspects, to relies on I County of fruits and vegetables canned and honeysuckle two big industry, play agricultural processing enterprise in funds, and technology, and sales, and employment, aspects of advantage, through "enterprise + base + poor", mode, guide poverty village, and poor development quality forest fruit, and Chinese herbal medicines, and mushroom, and facilities vegetables, and flower seedlings, features industry, absorb poverty labor employment increase, effective increased poor business sex income and workers income, 5.男孩女孩双方就开始作好结婚的准备。购置家具，房子肯定是早就装修过的，买衣服，金银首饰什么的…… 分析: 1. 农村相亲大致过程就是如此，男女双方都保持着平等的权利，双方都有互相选择的权利。如果有一方不满意，这婚姻就不能完成。男女双方现在越来越多的人对相亲持“接受”态度，他们认为，父母长辈是比较有经验，而且看人比较准，所以他们介绍的一定是经过慎重考虑过的，值得考虑，再说，结婚过日子毕竟是有别于谈恋爱的，只有爱情没有面包是不实际的，所以会接受。 大部分的表示对相亲是“不排斥”态度，他们认为，相亲本身就是帮助自己扩大“情感交际圈”，使自己能在更短时间、更多范围选择最合适自己的异性;再怎么说也当是给自己个机会，万一碰到“来电”的也说不定，所以不会马上回绝，会等看了人再做决定。 2.相亲过程，心态真的很重要。在抱着各种心态的相亲者中，我们惊奇地发现越是“抱着试试看、给自己多一次机会”心态的人，下一步深入交往、继续发展、乃至终成眷属的几率就越高，令人欣慰的是:而这种观点恰恰也是主流的心态。反倒是期望值越高的人反倒找不到在“茫茫人海”中又迷失了方向，找不到合适的对象。而那些来之one good, one not. (B) in order to tailor aid measures. After identification of the poor, to tailor aid measures of poverty for poverty alleviation. Focus on "five to the village to" infrastructure to the village to households and industry support to the household, education and training to the village to the village families, renovate rural village households, twinning support to village households. Through villages, analytical grasp of poverty causes door-to-door implementation support responsible, supporting projects and help to fund. According to deficiency what fill what principles, "should be agricultural is agricultural, and should be workers is workers, and should be tour is tour, and should be business is business", developed more precision of poverty programme, put "sent dish door" into let masses "see single order", ensure a households a this Taiwan account, and a households a poverty plans, and a households a helping measures, put poverty funds, and project, and material, implementation to specific village, and specific households, and specific people, real helped points Shang, and help to root Shang. File in the County, 11 out of poverty is presented here, some form of further stressed. In industry poverty aspects, to relies on I County of fruits and vegetables canned and honeysuckle two big industry, play agricultural processing enterprise in funds, and technology, and sales, and employment, aspects of advantage, through "enterprise + base + poor", mode, guide poverty village, and poor development quality forest fruit, and Chinese herbal medicines, and mushroom, and facilities vegetables, and flower seedlings, features industry, absorb poverty labor employment increase, effective increased poor business sex income and workers income, 前就没抱什么希望、更没做什么准备的人，除了部分撞到“桃花运”外，大部分也认识了很多朋友，还体验了各类形式丰富的相亲活动的快乐，也不乏收获。 3.相亲观念的理性化现代人选择对象的因素越来越多的偏向思想品德、能力才干、性格脾气等内在的素质问题，而家庭背景、收入多少等外在条件越来越被放在后面，说明了现代人抱有理智的婚恋观，更注重一个人的综合素质。 三、 相亲存在的问题 农村相亲如果成功，大多数时间在一个星期左右准备婚礼。一个星期左右，婚礼完成。那么两个相识一个星期的年轻人就成了夫妻。说起来是一件很奇妙的事，但其中也会存在一些问题。 1. 相识时间过短。 大多数都是一个星期左右，虽说有媒人在中间介绍，彼此之间有简单的了解，但对彼此之间真实的性格还是有些生疏，长时间就会存在彼此之间性格不合，会引发争吵。最恶劣的结果导致离婚率上升。 2.影响两个家庭。 one good, one not. (B) in order to tailor aid measures. After identification of the poor, to tailor aid measures of poverty for poverty alleviation. Focus on "five to the village to" infrastructure to the village to households and industry support to the household, education and training to the village to the village families, renovate rural village households, twinning support to village households. Through villages, analytical grasp of poverty causes door-to-door implementation support responsible, supporting projects and help to fund. According to deficiency what fill what principles, "should be agricultural is agricultural, and should be workers is workers, and should be tour is tour, and should be business is business", developed more precision of poverty programme, put "sent dish door" into let masses "see single order", ensure a households a this Taiwan account, and a households a poverty plans, and a households a helping measures, put poverty funds, and project, and material, implementation to specific village, and specific households, and specific people, real helped points Shang, and help to root Shang. File in the County, 11 out of poverty is presented here, some form of further stressed. In industry poverty aspects, to relies on I County of fruits and vegetables canned and honeysuckle two big industry, play agricultural processing enterprise in funds, and technology, and sales, and employment, aspects of advantage, through "enterprise + base + poor", mode, guide poverty village, and poor development quality forest fruit, and Chinese herbal medicines, and mushroom, and facilities vegetables, and flower seedlings, features industry, absorb poverty labor employment increase, effective increased poor business sex income and workers income, 大多数之间，双方都是比较熟悉的家庭，双方的争吵必然会导致两个家庭的不和睦，这种矛盾会激化到彼此之间的，而且影响曾经之间的友好。与此同时，农村青年男女一般结婚一年后就会有小孩，如果离婚小孩的归属又是一个难题。这也会影响小孩的成长以及其生长环境。 四、建议 相亲还是两个人结识的一种方式，最主要是自己双方的相处，才能构成一个家庭的温馨，才能避免家庭矛盾与纠纷。 五、以上言论纯属自己个人调查，纪实所得。有些资源参考《2005-2008 中国相亲现状调研 报告 软件系统测试报告下载sgs报告如何下载关于路面塌陷情况报告535n,sgs报告怎么下载竣工报告下载 》(全文)发布 one good, one not. (B) in order to tailor aid measures. After identification of the poor, to tailor aid measures of poverty for poverty alleviation. Focus on "five to the village to" infrastructure to the village to households and industry support to the household, education and training to the village to the village families, renovate rural village households, twinning support to village households. Through villages, analytical grasp of poverty causes door-to-door implementation support responsible, supporting projects and help to fund. According to deficiency what fill what principles, "should be agricultural is agricultural, and should be workers is workers, and should be tour is tour, and should be business is business", developed more precision of poverty programme, put "sent dish door" into let masses "see single order", ensure a households a this Taiwan account, and a households a poverty plans, and a households a helping measures, put poverty funds, and project, and material, implementation to specific village, and specific households, and specific people, real helped points Shang, and help to root Shang. File in the County, 11 out of poverty is presented here, some form of further stressed. In industry poverty aspects, to relies on I County of fruits and vegetables canned and honeysuckle two big industry, play agricultural processing enterprise in funds, and technology, and sales, and employment, aspects of advantage, through "enterprise + base + poor", mode, guide poverty village, and poor development quality forest fruit, and Chinese herbal medicines, and mushroom, and facilities vegetables, and flower seedlings, features industry, absorb poverty labor employment increase, effective increased poor business sex income and workers income,