陈安之如何增强行动力之一（Chen Anzhi how to strengthen one of the actions）

陈安之如何增强行动力之一（Chen Anzhi how to strengthen one of the actions） 陈安之如何增强行动力之一(Chen Anzhi how to strengthen one of the actions) Chen Anzhi: how to strengthen action In this room, you want to have better health, health, career, more success, how the results come from, act by action. Action produces results. For better results, we need better action, no action, no change. Before you act, make a decision. You need to make better decisions before you have better actions. Decisions are made by your thinking patterns, and your thinking patterns are your values and beliefs. ?? Today, we let you know values, values, beliefs, beliefs, and whether a person's fate is good or not depends on his ideas. Feel the importance of health raise your hand, feel that the family is important to raise their hands, think the cause of the important hand up. ? now, let you choose to accompany your wife or to meet your customers this evening, with your wife to visit customers, the result is important customers. Consciousness is important to wife, action is important to customer. Friends are important, friends are important or important for their success. What? If there's only one trophy today, who will you let? Champion, friend, trophy go back, that's the contradiction of values. Now find a person to demonstrate, is a very unhappy person, often depressed, often do something wrong regret. What was the most important thing to you in the life of Zeng military police?" "Feelings are not particularly important."." "If any, what are the most important ones?"," "I never thought about it."." "Do you want the future to be like this, five years or ten years, or change tonight? If you don't answer, I can't help you, and you can answer me casually, and I'll help you." "A beautiful family, a very virtuous wife."." "I see your eyes looking to the left, you're recalling something, the direction of the eye's shift determines where you're heading, and what picture you're looking back on". "A beautiful and virtuous picture."". "80% of the people to see if the left eyeball is back, looking to the right is a lie, in creation, in the series." Career, self growth, health." "Think again, if you want one item, give one million rmb. It's your decision to have a happy life." "Have good relationships."." "Military police, what does the family bring to you?"" Warm feeling." What does a virtuous wife bring to you?." Shuxin." What does it feel like to have a career?" Sense of achievement". ?? Values are adjectives. Aim at your values, and you have to turn it back into a question. What do I want to feel?. For example, the most important thing in a person's life is compared to adjectives. What kind of feeling do you want to work? What you want is not work, but feeling. What? What is the definition? The definition is called a rule, and what do you do to get that feeling?. Rules are important. Everyone can do it, and it's easy to do. Rules are occasional. You can get that feeling by just doing one. Rules should be controlled by themselves. One student said I wanted a feeling of concern and concern. If mom tells me five minutes a day, I think she cares about me, and if one day my mom doesn't have time to talk to me for five minutes, I don't think he cares about me. I call my mom for five minutes every day, and I feel cared about. It's up to me, it's my own control. Values should be clearly identified. Planned action Is there anyone in this room who thinks he's weak and wants to change, and is willing to show my hand?. Five thinking questions about planned action: The first reason why I haven't taken action yet; What's the advantage of second actions?; What's the worst (worst case) of the third long-term inaction?; Fourth, if you act now, what will you do for a long time?; The fifth, then when should I act, how to improve?. There are two reasons for action: first, the pursuit of happiness; the second to avoid suffering. There are two kinds of people who participate in the course, the first is that I pursue happiness, I want to be more successful, and the more kind of person is unable to go on, and I will be very painful if I don't come to class. Is there anyone who wants to succeed, but doesn't act? You want to succeed, you want to pursue happiness, because you fear rejection, fear of failure, escape the influence of pain is greater than happiness. ?? No, you're not going to go here. Raise your hand, please. Why don't you dare go? Pay ten million you can't go? Because he felt pain, so he did not go. Why do you think it's going to hurt? Did you walk by? Without experience, have you gone through the definition of objective? Is success objective or not objective? Sometimes it's based on feeling. "You haven't reached your ideal yet?"" "You can do it." "What would you feel if you were successful today?"" "I will be excited."." "What is most important to you in your life?"" "Love, health."" "Your wife says to you, to prove that you love her, you have to go, you can't go?"" "No go."." What is the definition of love?" "A feeling."." "If you go to get more people's love, you can't go?"" "Go"." ?? There are no products that can't be sold, only those who don't sell. You have to follow his value to let him know whether he's right or wrong, so you can't influence him. ?? Why don't you influence yourself and take action? Because you don't know your own way of thinking, sometimes you have conflict, your values are not clear, and that's what we need to talk about today. When you had a toothache, you wouldn't see a doctor at once, but would you go to see a doctor when you got swollen? Meeting。 Why teeth hurts when you start not to see, because you feel that money is a pain, but also a waste of time, the pain is not serious, because not to go after more pain, you will choose less pain, each person's action to give him power. Why? Why don't you lose weight? Because losing weight is a pain. If one person wants to make him act, do you think action must be equal to pleasure or pain? Action equals pleasure, inaction is pain. Change your way of thinking, change your nerve face, what you want, action equals happiness, inaction is pain. If you don't change, there's only one reason, not enough pain. ?? Your income isn't high enough today because you're not suffering enough. Will I will give you a trial, in fact, there is absolutely no you imagine so painful, if a person suffering extreme, the so-called forced him to a critical point, this person will have to immediately will immediately change 100%. For example, you are a little fat, but it's lovely, and your wife doesn't want you to wipe your shoes. A man's action, in order to pursue happiness, second is for pain, action equals happiness, inaction is pain. Demonstration? Zhang Wei, list the things you have to overcome. "Action"." Establishing a company." "That's procrastination."." "I want to tidy up, but I'm not tidying up." "Visiting customers, 100 a day."." What do you do? You decide what you're going to get in the future. Here's a little less. It's a little bit less, a little bit more, a little bit more there. The bar is a little bit of everything, and now 200 people in class, only 6 people will succeed. Try your best every time, not every once in a while. I came up and I had no chance to think. I needed to do my best every single time. ?? Please think about it. Why didn't you do your best? What will be the benefit of action? Embarrassed, not to do may be happy. What's the harm of inaction? You must know what pain is, give pain first, and give pleasure again, It's a change of will. It's not painful enough, so it doesn't change. Not enough happiness, shrinking. What is most important? Fulfillment。 Losers have no sense of accomplishment. 26 years old and 56 years old will not change. What are you afraid of most? What's the least favorite thing to do? Failure. You know exactly what kind of person you're going to be. Act now. What will happen in the future? I'm not what I am now, I will get what I want, respect and recognition, my value, honor, affection, love, and do a lot of things for my family and lover. ?? I can achieve my goal. Ten years later, 1 hundred million, 65 years old, 10 billion, 10 billion of the time you evaluate yourself, do something for the community, the power of life, the most important thing. A sense of achievement, at least in the realm of money, has a sense of accomplishment. If it doesn't change, it will be painful for a long time. Why procrastination, long suffering, his willingness to change?. Teach you how to strengthen your will, give yourself pain, think about the long term. There are three ways of thinking. One is that people think about the past; one is that the head of a person will think of the past; at the same time, his head will think about the future; I want him to be miserable in the past; now smoking is painful, and not changing the future will be more painful. What is most important to you in your life? My daughter。 Would you give up smoking for your daughter?. ?? He said yes. I use values to influence himself. Permanently changes the past, present and future are painful, do not change what are the consequences of change, after what is now happy to continue what the future happiness, this time you change immediately, anyone can immediately make any changes at any time to change immediately. The reason can be immediately changed, you put yourself into a breaking point. What's the downside? I used to have a student, and I said, "what are you procrastinating about?" he said he didn't take a shower for a week. Wow, I asked him why he didn't act, because too tired, lazy. I said, "what's good about doing nothing? You can sleep a lot and sleep more.". "??" I said, "long action doesn't do anything for a long time. Wow, worst case.". Body, he washed it immediately. How do you motivate your salesman? He'll ask you immediately, boss, I'm not acting. You ask him why he doesn't act, and what's wrong with inaction?...... So when are you going to do that?. The key is pain must be clear, happiness must be very clear, the general people use this method if not effective, are you change what will benefit, change will be happy. For a long time? Very happy. So when do you do it, but I don't want to move yet?. Because he wanted to change his mind, but his subconscious didn't feel the pleasure of change and the pain that didn't change. He couldn't make a change right now. Please raise your hand! Demonstration: lack of action. Huang Jianbo, is there anything that you need to change immediately? I wanted to lead my team to a great success, and I'm not doing it now. Very successful definition. Excellence, the best. The question is unclear, and how to do it better. Tutoring for an hour a day, because I'm not coaching now, I'm going to be very specific, sending cards to thank the customers, and I'm not doing it right now. Which thing didn't do? It was concrete. One of the most serious things, please tell me right away. I can't do what I want to do. What? What do you think you're not doing now?. You are very successful in your department, and I ask you, you don't know the answer. You might say, "why can't I do that?". You write a letter to your family, but you don't write it? No time, busy work. What good is it without action?. The inertia of your body language has not changed. Want to change, the will of the problem. Will you succeed in your current habits? Can't， How long are you going to change?. You say to the microphone loudly, I must change, call 20 times. Why haven't you written yet? What's the advantage of not writing letters? I can spend some time doing other things. Is it important for family members? Very important. Is it good or bad to write?. Benefits. Is it good or bad?. Happy feeling more and more. The most important thing in life is achievement and happiness. Do you need to write, write all your life?. What? Your body movements tell me you don't want to change. You keep it, you clench your fist. You don't change what's bad for you. It's your decision to change without change. Let himself affect himself, must be willing to stop, can not change a person who has no will, even change is not important. ?? Because he's changed, look at his face, breathing, body movements should be consistent. Your mouth says yes, but your head doesn't agree, your face doesn't match, your face laughs very reluctantly. If you look at his nerves, you know, your mood is dejected. ???? Have a hypnotist called Ailikexun, once a man wanted to quit, he said to Ailikexun I want to quit smoking in five minutes, there is no possible. ???? Ailikexun put the smoking behavior as S behavior, think of tomatoes, cabbage drove a truck, take a lot of road to the southeast northwest, rather baffling met together, and lived a happy happy life, Ailikexun said you don't need to go. ?? Later, the man came back with cigarettes and didn't want to smoke. He didn't want to see it. Will there be any possibility that tomato and cabbage would be possible? ?? When was your first time? When was the first change? Forget the things that you should have forgotten before, remember that you should have forgotten before. Chinese cabbage is good or tomato, change a person is to interrupt his inertia, the best time to learn is when he does not know he is learning. I feel that it is painful to continue without writing. It is a feeling that I imagine some pictures. I will not die without changing it. I will not write and die. Everyone's mind is like a CD track. ?? Change or not?. Must do。 What's the result? What prevents you from changing?. It's not very important, five projects, this is not the project that he wants to change most, which one you want to change most, the most important thing is the willingness to change more strongly.