即将有孩子的和刚有孩子的好好看看 不看要后悔（Children will have children and just have a good look, do not look to regret）

即将有孩子的和刚有孩子的好好看看 不看要后悔（Children will have children and just have a good look, do not look to regret） 即将有孩子的和刚有孩子的好好看看 不看要后悔(Children will have children and just have a good look, do not look to regret) To have children and children just have a good look at not to regret. I had two children in the United States, there are family training before and after every wash family doctor let me benefit, my two baby babies cute like home without the baby, I even doubt they will not cry? Now my grandmother often take this silly laugh at me. After returning home to see friends or neighbors were small fathers tortured dead beat, will think mom written down, perhaps can help small fathers get confused, tired of the young mom and dad. Thank you again for the South California famous pediatrician JANE GU, in the past few years under the guidance of her learn a lot for a lifetime benefit from the dictionary. A trick How to make the baby cry Love cry BABY are parents to teach them. Born in the small BABY could not understand the words, they rely on conditioned reflex to do judgment. China parents heard the child cry up. JANE GU the doctor repeatedly warned me: a child crying down, don't cry to hold up, just turn. As a result, even a small child can understand, don't cry when it is picked, it very soul. Put down the crying child to start training, looking at the clock, don't let her cry, ready to wait 10 minutes to hold. The first time can be set for 5 minutes, after a period of time, my first time there until 5 minutes, about 3 and a half when it stopped, I have her heart he was going to cry, must endure. Let the children know that crying is asked not to mother. "Don't cry" training to exclude 4 cry for other reasons: urine sick and hungry, sleepy. God bless you, my two children will have no reason to cry, cry out occasionally as sport is very few, and the girl Miu Miu 100% is a happy baby, lying in bed all giggled child. Trick two How to make the new baby sleep The doctor repeatedly criticized me: you are not a good mother, the next child to sleep, the next mother is a good mother, you are not! Every time I go to see the family doctor I was criticized, because I'm going to feed 1-2 times, complained about raising children, very tired very hard. The doctor told me that an idea: human beings don't need to eat at night! I am silly to ask, why? The doctor had said in a loud voice: no way, because we are human beings! I was so impressed, Dad would laugh stoop. Obviously, I'm afraid BABY night hungry is redundant, continuous 10-12 hours of sleep, for children 100 times more important than the nurse! We are the boss girl tortured badly, at night to eat a milk bad habit has been extended to nearly 2 years old. Pension two times according to the doctor said, let my husband and I completely freed from birth to one week of my wonderful trained 5 hours before feeding, 2 weeks later, the children will be able to sleep at dawn. Don't need milk at night!!! (three exclamation points are your mothers remember ") Trick three How to make their own baby to sleep, do not shake The doctor said, a happy BABY will sleep in bed singing (not singing, baby babbling)! Most of the time the baby will need to be spent in bed, mom and dad here please remember, the bed is not moving! So, Do not shake when picked up the baby, do not move back and forth, not getting the kids to bed, gently on the bed to let him sleep well. Again, the bed is not moving. Mom and Dad, you have no right to deprive the child lying on the bed right to enjoy the happiness. More important is, excited parents not forced and child "Crazy", a child's brain in infancy or jelly jelly, is very easy to be injured. Trick four Sleep keep beauty Personal experience, children sleep than the back to sleep, only children born heart down, almost not startled startled, mimicking uterine wrapped state. Another is the biggest benefit change Asian pie face, within 5 days of the baby needs 1 hours to help turn, 5 days later, my girl will turn freely. Girl is the standard face, and born generous face seemed to change a child, oh, proud. The second club face did not do so, then she needs someone to take care of, no energy energy over the first 1 hours, unfortunately. This opportunity only after birth to 3 months, big useless. Trick five The baby's resistance is ten times better than you. Mom and dad wearing 2 piece, the baby can never wear 2 piece half, only wearing less than you, than you wear more. My two children are very strong, and very good control, occasionally see the children's hospital have a fever children flower quilt cotton padded jacket wrapped in a layer of the poor, ah, the child can not speak, are the parents of victims. Trick six Refuse to antibiotics! A cold have a fever is a child growing process, is to enhance the process of resistance. My baby have a fever the most commonly used is the ice, with a zippered plastic bag of ice, with a clean towel to wrap the ice in the body, 30 minutes a fever. Burn violently with Merrill Lynch or tylenol. If it is cold cold have a fever, let her Dangle nothing, like a few days. Don't believe any medicine can cure a cold. So far, in addition to last year's mouth is a cheat in the hospital, my 2 children never hang saline and injection of antibiotics. In the United States, is dying disease before injection of antibiotics, in Chinese injection room of the landscape, terrified by her father, the scene is awesome. He said. A row of hook, beater head battu kids in the mother father grandfather grandmother escort under salt. The camp is so terrible. Money does not say, more terrible is the bacteria war remaining various toxic increasingly, periodic need to hang water to press down, often heard my mother say, a little symptoms immediately linked to water down, very proud. I am very sorry for their ignorance. My children are becoming more and more strong, never get sick, sick days of their own good, basic treatment. The neighborhood kids midnight run hospitals, was utterly routed from this point of view, I was a good mother. Trick seven Take a shower every day, with clean water, use less Shower Gel Another reason for my 2 baby health is a bath every day, it is necessary to take a shower every day. I remember having children out, ready to listen to my mother's teachings lie still until second, going to take a shower of genius, Surprised to pull me up whenever you take a shower "what the traditional nurse, the sweat and bacteria are washed out to be healthy". I was mistaken as a dirty mother was dragged to the bath, of course that is my students are two eutocia. So how maternal, child? Children of the large amount of exercise every day, milk smell of sweat bbnn what taste, must take a bath, wash not separated genius. This is an important reason for ill health, they will not catch a cold, resistance ten times stronger than adults. The doctor asked: baby shower with water, then the famous brand of baby products are not as good as water, do not use any shower gel, shampoo, rinse the best! The doctor said to try to do, must use the words for a week with a shower gel is good, my family is once in three days (I think a week too long, the psychological effect). Trick eight Not eat enough milk to the mother, only to breast feeding mothers Can eat a half to 2 years old is the happiest baby. JANE GU said the doctor, did not eat enough milk to the mother, only to breast feeding mothers, children eat much, mother's milk has many twins, the mother's milk is also enough for two children to eat. This point I am failure, although Dr. GU with the stroke of a circle, she told me, how much to eat your children, how much do you think you will be able to produce enough milk, milk powder, add in milk will not enough, finally gone, the fact that I was really less until No. The children do not speak, she had no hard to know, my mother felt less milk will give up milk, milk powder, is to tell your body, I can only produce so much. To believe they can pledge qualified dairy cows. If another, must prove it. The birth of a child third days to go to the hospital to participate in "nursing class", several mother with baby in a circle, black white and Asian mother mother mother, her class is very comfortable sofa, special stool at the foot of a stepping. The doctors will strip off the children, including diapers, then called BABY weight accurate to 2 digits after the decimal point. Then let us hold babies are not allowed to wear clothes, wearing only diapers. The doctor to teach mom how to let the child bite quasi nipple, how to protect the nipple, a training, there are other mother to provide free milk sucking machine, home use plastic bags. The beginning of my shyness and embarrassment slowly no, oh, I am at home do not know how much to eat her, well, a class down, immediately called child weight, I do eat a lot, it seems that the day of the second, before and after the data to prove that I have milk. Trick nine Baby to sleep to do? BABY was my mother with comfort and safety, not eat to fall asleep, wake up and eats two, tortured mother, the baby can eat sleep well, harm to others. The training class to learn the most useful one, how to wake the child so that they concentrate on feeding, is clothes! Off left diapers, the doctor told me, rest assured that you hold her mother's body temperature, the temperature can ensure the baby can not catch a cold, the temperature is just right, BABY is a bit cool, they will be hard to eat (she said is really eating, ha ha). Rest assured, these look pale little things, Take out from her mother's resistance is 10 times stronger than adults, maternal feeding is not susceptible to disease, which is the reproduction of the power. (of course, the indoor temperature is a warm home, no air conditioning cold regions do not imitate control misunderstanding) Trick ten Breast milk is the best "antibiotics" When the girl of about 10 days, one eye purulent inflammation, me and dad scared girl hold to the hospital or emergency department, pediatric male doctor asked, you milk or formula milk, I said. He said the squeeze out into the child's eyes, BABY will be good. What? I wait for a long time so emergency sent me home. Then modeled on, milk when, a few days later she was getting better, whether milk reason is unclear, the doctors had left may have a point. In mother's milk is good stuff. Trick eleven Could you change the diaper? Nonsense, child who won't change diapers? Not necessarily oh. If you have children to spray urine or smelly poo? 5 times a day to wash the sheets is my record. When the diaper, each new aunt came to teach again, the trick is to clean the diaper on the diaper below, then open the diapers, wipe out, so that even if the child is that time and again urine, you keep the sheets. Used to do, never happened. Trick twelve Can you take a hiccup? A posture, lying on the shoulders of pat the child back, this is the traditional posture, a lot of time not too easy to shoot out. Position two: let the children sit on the leg side, left hand holding a child's neck, chin up, right hand shot back, so the efficiency is very high, usually ten is take a belch. Before going to bed last meals of milk to feed the foot, shoot belch continue to feed my family wonderful 2 weeks to sleep through the night is that, can feed 2-3 times after belch, until she really does not eat a small mouth, push bottle, miu miu can sleep until dawn. Trick thirteen Breakfast cereals 4 months older adults eat Rice noodles to eat together, children will not eclipse, breakfast and adult like food is good for children. 6 teeth when JANE GU, the doctor said, she can eat a lot of things with these teeth, what can be fed, not to eat. Trick fourteen Don't destroy the baby's attention The small baby playing with toys or watch TV or read a picture book, please home aunt or anyone they don't interrupt. Even if it is time to eat, a little late also Never mind. To cultivate children's attention is to train them to grow up to concentrate to do anything. My focus is good girl, she love things, such as puzzles, one afternoon hours not look up, no one told her, in addition to urinate. The most feared that children shout and wrangle elders, and wise, watching TV while asking questions. Shut up, please. Give the child a focus on the environment. Trick fifteen Walk slowly, whisper. It is very important that how children learn. Rare encounter Shanghai a teacher, teach children to walk slowly, quietly, they hear good, not so loud. Back home, Community kindergarten teacher to teach children voice to sing, I was watching, I thought over for a long time, training young lady is to send Chinese cultural assimilation, ha ha, Niuniu hot dry noodles now as full of personality, the son a spice. The environment is very powerful, almost not assimilated may. Trick sixteen As long as there is no danger, encourage the baby to try and feel China parents etiquette is superabundant, too timid. "Don't move, dangerous, stand up on the dirty, don't touch, would stab.... No way, no way "American parents most often say is" Try it! "Try, touch. Encourage the baby, as long as there is no danger, don't stop the children to try and understand the world with their hands. Big clothes, rolling on the ground to the baby time is very short, rice soup over a big deal, they would sweep to eat or use chopsticks, not cold water, sand play big shoes to enter the clean. I have a lot of obstacles the children happy make us little restrictions and fetters, angels are increasingly becoming adults, be obedient and sensible child. Happy first, the clothes is not important, as long as there is no danger, don't stop my child. Trick seventeen Is also the most important one, one day only criticism two times! Parents can not criticize the baby, one day only criticism two times, two times out of tomorrow's quota. The teacher so careful account of. So baby, my grandmother said: "your child 10 times a day are not enough, 2 words for me for 10 minutes on the run, this is too hard. I laugh. In the infant period, criticism is useful? Pull a poo is "baby aunt criticism did it again." I will ask aunt, you have the day off?