The Orpheus complex, which appears in the therapeutic context of psychological development, is a complex of [1]

The Orpheus complex, which appears in the therapeutic context of psychological development, is a complex of [1] The Orpheus complex, which appears in the therapeutic context of psychological development, is a complex of [1] Theory of psychoanalysis and practice continuous training Mental development problem: the odipus complex that appears in the therapeutic context Fu wenqing university medical psychology institute (wenqingf@sohu.com) The human life cycle, from the fetus to the death, carries on three interrelated development processes: (1) the biological maturity of the body; (2) the inner spiritual development of thought and feeling (emotion); (3) interpersonal and social development. The development of psychology will also follow the three dimensions: (1) drive (libido, attack drive) along the sexy belt of the body; (2) the relationship between subject and object (object relation); (3) the development of self-worth (narcissism, ego and identity). It is generally believed that the complex psychological produce time is around the third month after birth, the baby can't distinguish own body inside and outside the body of maternal and infant is in a state of dual symbiosis, but instinct also began to focus on their own at that time, and the baby in the original narcissistic state. But the satisfaction of narcissism is in the presence of others. So when others are regarded as meet the source of libido drive energy is betting on the image of others, these are the others of love is the object of early (primary objects) (such as mother to breastfeed, children XingFenZhuang). Need someone to love, need to be met, and hope to become like others ability (identification) is a psychological indispensable elements for the development of mature, but the process is full of frustration, disappointment, and the object of the conflict. These feelings form a tense atmosphere and triangular relationship with the Oedipus complex of the period (3 to 6 years). Most of the time, between the ages of 3 and 6, children develop a deeper body yearning for the opposite sex of their parents, while competing against the same sex of their parents. Freud named this phenomenon in Greek mythology as the king of odepus. This is a fairy tale that killed his father and his mother. He USES this symbolic gesture to represent the incest conflict of childhood. At this time, in the development of body and sexy belt, phallic become the representative of sexual area, the baby's interest on the one hand, concentrated in this area, such as children masturbation, on the other hand, the drive towards parents, too. Performance on the subject-object relationship, children from binary relations with mother and father's development as the third most strongly object, relations have been developing for the triangle. Boy will first father as the most interested in and love object (negative bottom theopompus complex), he is basically a passive obedience, feminine, imitate mother, hope to be able to have a father. But then the boy to his father's disappointed would lead to his mother once again turned to interest, form with his father, to develop a positive bottom theopompus complex, the boy often publicly indicated that if the father died in a car accident, he married my mother. And girls right now attention is turning also to the father, father is regarded as the object of the most respected, grew up girl can realize oneself have a strong, love her, has the right to, rich father is how proud and important. When people praise the women often say, so-and-so is a good family, family background, that is to emphasize its father in the importance of forming the daughter's self-worth. So the game that girls play at this point is often, create a door, a home, a family, and that's the way the girls think about it. They fantasize about being perfect and complete in this way, and sex is good enough and powerful. Boy always away from the mother, in terms of pleasure meet, oral stronger boys, girls stay away from her mother, she needs to show themselves, illusion, attract the attention of his father and mother. And the penis envy. She finally solved this fantasy by having a child. Parents are sensitive to both male and female aggression. So when the father was strict with the boy, the boy would imagine his father would castrate him,Castration anxiety; Girl, young and beautiful girl subconsciously feel and threats from the maternal anxiety, fear of mother constraint her breasts, jealous of her figure, or even destroy her ovaries. In order to solve this conflict, male and female children had to agree with my father and mother, the boy other father's growing up, girls other mother's growth, agree with their physiological gender, alleviate the triangular relationship conflict, to share a balance of love. In the development of psychological development, I forced myself to suppress my own instincts and transfer my emotions to society. This is the psychological stage of the incubation period. So the nature of the genital phase is "love sharing". But with the impact of growing up and having a natural influence, it is important to see how important the effects of the Russian pusi complex are. Here is a long story I did: The visitor is a 19-year-old college student. Chief complaint: the brain is a mess, want to too much control, study it, inattention, for it's easy to anger, jealousy, tension, question your penis is short, underwear for testicular damage, constraints, uncomfortable, the quilt is toxic, masturbation, sexual fantasies. Diagnosis: borderline personality disorder. The 31st session (excerpt) : P I always go out early and do that in the evening. Often they don't come out and they shoot. Yesterday I was a dead man, but there was a lot of restraint and a rush of pleasure. T as if you have something in your heart that doesn't make you comfortable with the whole process. P looks dangerous... I can't take it easy. I'm... With his image, I was angry. Did father T bother you? P anyway... P I think he'll pick me up on vacation, but I don't want to say it. T that you say. P is afraid he thinks I'm in trouble. He kicked me. I hate him. I don't know how to ask him. P I want him to invite me to dinner. What does T mean? Every child will be invited to dinner by his father. T that's natural. P I mixed too many things in my masturbatory. Dream, there is a picture, before a woman to climb on the ground, I insert from behind her, and she ran, I ran after, this woman began as a strange face, then think it is my mother, I have the desire, the woman is an adult, like a child is a child. T have how old? P have three or four years old. I didn't go to school. T is a game of your libido and mother, and there is a kind of chest fear. It's strange for a 3-year-old to be afraid of sex. P is like I used a penis to my mother, and my mother turned around and seemed to say that I was bad. I seemed to have mixed feelings. The 33rd meeting (segment) : the patient returned to the clinic after four weeks after the therapist was out. P: now I feel more powerful, more powerful, quiet in my mind, but also, constantly changing all kinds of uncomfortable feelings. Underwear still has a restraining, uncomfortable feeling. Sometimes I feel that the neck is not strong. : T: (at that time my mind appeared before the talk with his father conflict scenarios) like you said before, have a conflict with their parents, now also is such... P: I hate that my father is the archetype of these problems. Like gave vent to become a father relieve symptoms, open a way of feeling, I hate his father, he did a lot of ignoble things, make me ashamed, as if I am angry to the point of self-destruction, itching... Crazy... T: mad? P: I saw my father's affair, and I couldn't stand his betrayal of his family. T: how old is it to my father? P: I have a five in my heart. When I was five years old, I was separated from my father. I was nervous when he came back, and the good days were over. P: I punished my father by punishing myself. I sometimes put "myself" on "panties" and it's as if all my attention is on the outside. T: you seem to be longing for your mother? And the desire for my sister... It is.T: there are three kinds of state: sometimes I think life is quiet, it doesn't matter comfortable uncomfortable, happiness is not happiness, as Confucius said "FaFenWangShi, happiness and worry, do not know of the old will be to"; There is also a kind of orgasmic state, so-called bridal chamber flower candle night, sex happy, get high grade, beautiful wine food; Then there is the struggle, the control, the tension. P: why do I have to stay in control of something? T: why? P:... , I since the childhood is very strict with himself, demanding (obviously patients within a sadistic sexual superego), and I actually didn't do in life? "Do you really like playing football? Do you really like psychology, as if you always struggle with other people?" T: why do you ask yourself for that? P: as if to please my mother so that I am satisfied. My mother seldom praised me. I always tortured myself. P: in the conversation with you, the feeling of being tied to the pants loosened, it all opened up and opened... It is. This is more open than the one who hates his father to open up his mind. It is. T: how does this change? P: it seems that from my father to my mother... It is. T: time is up. It's an interesting change. Let's talk about it on Saturday. ... It is. Analysis and discussion From the talks in this case, we can see this image: M ， C F minus As you can see the triangle, the subconscious and consciousness of the patient to my Mother (Mother) is positive reaction, and to his father (Fother) rendering is a negative reaction. Why is that? This is because in the patient's experience the mother is the object of all desires, the father is the object of fear, shame and anger. From previous talks also showed that the patient's heart of adolescence about parents' action, sex and body image, even now are still full of intense emotional conflict, lack of general child development in the process of spiritual communication with parents. These objects, which are full of tension and nature, are separate and difficult to integrate. This reflects the fact that the early spliting mechanism is still working. Development good understand the reaction of objects together, for parents are balance, must put sex, love and care together can we develop into mature man. The patient early experiences made him fixation in the longing for mother and father's jealousy, on the one hand, full of fantasy in the later development of adolescence, the other side and feel a bit like his father, but identity (bad) father, father of setbacks made him only a somatic anxiety (a boy always check the size of the penis) and narcissism setbacks (mandatory requirements make a wonderful, let mother happy children). Treatment of these patients, the therapist to be firm, patience, can very good to listen and understand him, by having the patient found that anxiety stems mainly from self requirements and aspirations, thereby easing the inner tension, relieve symptoms. As mentioned above, the general in developing children can give up most of Russia's sexual impulse, with gay parents reached identity on ethical standards and taboo, so as to form stable superego, and promote the development of self-identity. But neuropathic patients tend to have an intense and suppressed childhood complex, creating a complex triangular conflict. So the inner conflict of most patients involves the desire of the Orpheus, which is the root of almost all neurosis. In addition, the mother and the children's early internal dissonance of interaction and make the foundation for narcissistic sexual frustration, the fragile adverse effect only in the transference and counter transference interactive interpretation make up and repair. one