与异性同学正常交往

与异性同学正常交往 南宁四中 谢园园 活动 设计 领导形象设计圆作业设计ao工艺污水处理厂设计附属工程施工组织设计清扫机器人结构设计 进入青春期，中学生的生理、心理都产生很大的变化，性意识也随之觉醒。他们乐意与异性同学交往。热心与异性同学一起参与学习、讨论、班级活动等。男生在女生面前，往往表现出健壮、刚强、宽容大度;女生在男生面前，则表现出温柔、亲切、热情，这是正常的性心理的表现。但我们有些同学不能正确认识性心理、性意识的产生，不能正确处理与异性同学之间的关系。有的同学在异性同学面前过分夸张地说话、做事，以引起异性同学对自己的注意;有的同学不能很好地控制自己对异性同学的好感，陷入感情的旋涡;有的同学为自己性意识的产生感到困惑，甚至以为自己变坏了，因而忧心忡忡。„„ 这些，严重影响了同学的身心健康，影响同学之间的交往，影响学习和工作。而过去，学校对学生这方面的帮助教育远远不够，学生只能从书本或其他渠道偷偷了解有关的知识。因此，有必要让学生从公开的渠道了解有关性意识、性道德的知识，了解青春期的性意识的特点，学会与异性同学正常交往。 本节课主要内容两个:一是让学生了解青春期性意识的特点;二是懂得如何与异性同学正常交往。 辅导目标 让学生了解性意识的产生是青少年成长过程中出现的正常现象，正确对待性意识，培养正确的性道德，与异性同学正常交往。 辅导难点与重点 因青春期学生特有的羞涩，学生大多不敢公开议论这个话题，所以要事先做好部分学生的工作，让学生有思想准备，并收集资料准备上课。 1、青春期性意识产生的特点。 2、与异性同学正常交往。 辅导时间:一课时 the direct punishment 0.5-10,000 yuan, responsible for the direct responsibility for the accident and the responsibility of leadership, such as concerning administrative sanctions should be dealt with by the personnel Department of the company. (3) personal injury accident occurs, the direct punishment 500-1000, who is directly responsible for the accident responsibility, give notice of criticism and 50-100 economic sanctions against them. (4) to conceal the accident, reported without undue delay or false, to inform the administrative leadership of the criticism, resulting in serious consequences, the pursuit of leadership, along with 500-1000 punishment. (5) significant near miss should be attempted as the case of responsible for the accident and construction team injuries accident penalty provisions, mutatis mutandis. Eight, should perform in the construction standards and specifications, serial number a 1 GB3323-2005 steel fusion welded butt joints, welding engineering-Ray lighting and quality rating of 2 GB11345-89 steel welds manual methods of ultrasonic inspection and testing results for grade 3 GB50236-2002 industrial pipe welding engineering code for construction and acceptance of field equipment 4 HGJ222-92 technical specification for welding of aluminium and its alloys 5 low temperature steel welding procedure 6 SH3525-2004 petrochemical JB/ T4708-2000 of welding procedure qualification for steel pressure vessels 7 JB/4709-2000 8 JB4730-2005 pressure vessel welding procedures of steel pressure vessel NDT 9 JB/T4744-2000 steel pressure vessel products mechanical properties test of welded plate II, mechanical equipment installation engineering 1 GB150-98 2 GB50128-2005 vertical cylindrical steel pressure vessel steel welded tank code for construction and acceptance of 3 JB/ T4735-1997 steel welded 辅导地点:教室 辅导形式:老师讲课与学生讨论发言结合 辅导前准备 1、学生:请三、四个同学事先找有关男女同学交往的典型事例，有关的语录、格言，并且每人准备2分钟的说话，或谈典型事例，或谈自己的体会。 2、老师:准备有关男女同学交往的正反两方面的典型事例，有关的语录三、四条。 辅导过程 (一)故事引入(2分钟) 有一位男生，上高中以后，感到自己产生了一些奇怪的变化。他特别喜欢坐在他后面的一个女生，每天都忍不住想回头看她几眼，听到这位女生大声的说笑声，他心里就发颤;有一种异样的感觉。他为自己产生这种念头感到羞耻，以为自己变坏了;又怕其他同学知道后取笑自己，于是就拼命压制自己的想法，不让自己回头。实在忍不住，就用小刀在自己手腕上划。可是手腕上虽伤痕累累，但仍然忍不住要回头。为此他变得精神恍惚，最后不得不请教心理医生。 心理医生会告诉这位男生什么呢?这就是我们这节课要讲的主要内容，与异性同学正常的交往。 板书:男女同学正常交往。 在讲这个问题之前，让我们先了解青春期意识，性心理产生的特点。 (二)老师讲述青春期性意识的几个特点(5分钟) (板书)1、好奇性 2、吸引性 3、闭锁性 4、羞涩性 5、差异性 好奇性:这一时期对性充满了兴趣和特殊的好奇，关注异性的情况，渴望了解性知识，两性的生理差异。 the direct punishment 0.5-10,000 yuan, responsible for the direct responsibility for the accident and the responsibility of leadership, such as concerning administrative sanctions should be dealt with by the personnel Department of the company. (3) personal injury accident occurs, the direct punishment 500-1000, who is directly responsible for the accident responsibility, give notice of criticism and 50-100 economic sanctions against them. (4) to conceal the accident, reported without undue delay or false, to inform the administrative leadership of the criticism, resulting in serious consequences, the pursuit of leadership, along with 500-1000 punishment. (5) significant near miss should be attempted as the case of responsible for the accident and construction team injuries accident penalty provisions, mutatis mutandis. Eight, should perform in the construction standards and specifications, serial number a 1 GB3323-2005 steel fusion welded butt joints, welding engineering-Ray lighting and quality rating of 2 GB11345-89 steel welds manual methods of ultrasonic inspection and testing results for grade 3 GB50236-2002 industrial pipe welding engineering code for construction and acceptance of field equipment 4 HGJ222-92 technical specification for welding of aluminium and its alloys 5 low temperature steel welding procedure 6 SH3525-2004 petrochemical JB/ T4708-2000 of welding procedure qualification for steel pressure vessels 7 JB/4709-2000 8 JB4730-2005 pressure vessel welding procedures of steel pressure vessel NDT 9 JB/T4744-2000 steel pressure vessel products mechanical properties test of welded plate II, mechanical equipment installation engineering 1 GB150-98 2 GB50128-2005 vertical cylindrical steel pressure vessel steel welded tank code for construction and acceptance of 3 JB/ T4735-1997 steel welded 吸引性:对异性充满了好感，有的同学会用各种方法引起异性对自己的注意，设法接触异性。 闭锁性:许多内心的秘密，对成人，包括父母、老师，不太乐意谈知心话。与成人交流减少，但与同龄同学交往增多。 羞涩性:既表现出对异性各种情况的浓厚兴趣，又表现出对异性特有的害羞、难为情。 差异性:不同的性别，表现出生理、心理、性格上有明显区别。 既然青少年在青春期性意识、性心理具有以上几种特点，那么，在青春期产生的对异性同学的好感，想与异性同学交往，都是正常的心理，不是什么羞耻、下流的事情。 在中学阶段，我们应当怎样与异性同学正常地交往呢? (三)请同学们来谈谈男女同学如何交往，可举例，也可谈自己的体会。(10分钟发言) 四)老师也谈男女同学交往的典型例子。男女同学共同学习，相互帮助，友 ( 好相处，这是很有必要的，既要友好相处，共同进步，又不要交往过密。那么，这个交往的原则应当如何把握?男女同学应当怎样正常交往?(10分钟，例子附后) (五)请同学总结归纳男女同学交往要注意的问题。(5分钟讨论) (六)老师总结归纳:(5分钟) (板书)1、树立远大的理想。 在远大理想指引下的男女同学共同的学习、活动、工作，才会不断产生新的健康的内容，产生不断向前迈进的动力。 (板书)2、把握语言和行为的分寸。 交往要热情、开朗，尊重他人，也自尊自爱。既要真诚相处，坦诚相助，又要端正大方。 (板书)3、扩大交往的范围，要主动与大家一道参与集体活动。 积极主动参与集体活动，努力使自己成为集体中活跃的一员，保持男女同学之间正常的友谊，不要让友谊专注在某一个人身上。尽量不要单独与某一异性同学相处。 the direct punishment 0.5-10,000 yuan, responsible for the direct responsibility for the accident and the responsibility of leadership, such as concerning administrative sanctions should be dealt with by the personnel Department of the company. (3) personal injury accident occurs, the direct punishment 500-1000, who is directly responsible for the accident responsibility, give notice of criticism and 50-100 economic sanctions against them. (4) to conceal the accident, reported without undue delay or false, to inform the administrative leadership of the criticism, resulting in serious consequences, the pursuit of leadership, along with 500-1000 punishment. (5) significant near miss should be attempted as the case of responsible for the accident and construction team injuries accident penalty provisions, mutatis mutandis. Eight, should perform in the construction standards and specifications, serial number a 1 GB3323-2005 steel fusion welded butt joints, welding engineering-Ray lighting and quality rating of 2 GB11345-89 steel welds manual methods of ultrasonic inspection and testing results for grade 3 GB50236-2002 industrial pipe welding engineering code for construction and acceptance of field equipment 4 HGJ222-92 technical specification for welding of aluminium and its alloys 5 low temperature steel welding procedure 6 SH3525-2004 petrochemical JB/ T4708-2000 of welding procedure qualification for steel pressure vessels 7 JB/4709-2000 8 JB4730-2005 pressure vessel welding procedures of steel pressure vessel NDT 9 JB/T4744-2000 steel pressure vessel products mechanical properties test of welded plate II, mechanical equipment installation engineering 1 GB150-98 2 GB50128-2005 vertical cylindrical steel pressure vessel steel welded tank code for construction and acceptance of 3 JB/ T4735-1997 steel welded (七)前人的教诲、体会、感受，对我们青年一代是很好的教育。请同学朗读各自找到的有关格言、语录。 (八)老师出示小黑板、展示几条语录。(7、8两项8分钟) 附例: 有一位重点中学的女生，学习成绩一贯很好，父母引以为自豪。后来，在一次省极夏令营活动中，她因病没有参加活动，与她同校的，但从未交谈过的另一夏令营男营员，主动关心她，帮助她。两人结下了友谊。回校上课后，两人交往更密切了，从经常来往，发展到递字条，经常单独见面的地步。大家都对对方充满了好感，相处得非常愉快。不过没多久，问题就接踵而来。先是两人的学习成绩直线下降，后来双方的父母慢慢都觉察到子女的变化。事情最后报到班主任和校长处。在班主任、校长的帮助下，她经历了一段非常痛苦的时光。最后她果断地斩断两人的情缘，回到正常的学习生活中，全身心投入学习。高考时，考上了清华大学。 她就是86年江西高考文科状元袁红。袁红用诗一般的语言讲述了自己的体会:“情窦初开的少女，是多么自作多情，将友谊拔苗助长成爱情。可是，不成熟的幼苗根本承受不了任何感情风雨，要么扭曲变形，要么枯萎坏死。如果自己能把握小船的航向，彼此间保持一段距离，也许能留下美好而不是痛苦的回忆。 千万不要让船儿过早地靠岸。” “ 附语录。 一个精神生活很充实的人，一定是一个很有理想的人，一定是一个很高尚的人，一定是一个只做物质的主人而不做物质的奴隶的人。 ——陶铸 青春是有限的，智慧是无穷的，趁短短的青春去学无穷的智慧。 ——高尔基 青春啊，永远是美好的，可是真正的青春，只属于这些永远力争上流的人，永远忘我劳动的人，永远廉虚的人。 ——雷锋 有一些人，即使心中有了爱，仍能约束它，使它不妨碍重大的事业。因为爱情一旦干扰情绪时，就会阻碍人坚定地奔向既定的目标。 ——培根 the direct punishment 0.5-10,000 yuan, responsible for the direct responsibility for the accident and the responsibility of leadership, such as concerning administrative sanctions should be dealt with by the personnel Department of the company. (3) personal injury accident occurs, the direct punishment 500-1000, who is directly responsible for the accident responsibility, give notice of criticism and 50-100 economic sanctions against them. (4) to conceal the accident, reported without undue delay or false, to inform the administrative leadership of the criticism, resulting in serious consequences, the pursuit of leadership, along with 500-1000 punishment. (5) significant near miss should be attempted as the case of responsible for the accident and construction team injuries accident penalty provisions, mutatis mutandis. Eight, should perform in the construction standards and specifications, serial number a 1 GB3323-2005 steel fusion welded butt joints, welding engineering-Ray lighting and quality rating of 2 GB11345-89 steel welds manual methods of ultrasonic inspection and testing results for grade 3 GB50236-2002 industrial pipe welding engineering code for construction and acceptance of field equipment 4 HGJ222-92 technical specification for welding of aluminium and its alloys 5 low temperature steel welding procedure 6 SH3525-2004 petrochemical JB/ T4708-2000 of welding procedure qualification for steel pressure vessels 7 JB/4709-2000 8 JB4730-2005 pressure vessel welding procedures of steel pressure vessel NDT 9 JB/T4744-2000 steel pressure vessel products mechanical properties test of welded plate II, mechanical equipment installation engineering 1 GB150-98 2 GB50128-2005 vertical cylindrical steel pressure vessel steel welded tank code for construction and acceptance of 3 JB/ T4735-1997 steel welded 板书:男女同学正常交往 一、青春期性意识的特点: 好奇性、吸引性、闭锁性、羞涩性、差异性 二、男女同学正常交往 1、树立远大的理想。 2、把握语言和行动的分寸 3、扩大交往的范围，主动参与集体活动。 the direct punishment 0.5-10,000 yuan, responsible for the direct responsibility for the accident and the responsibility of leadership, such as concerning administrative sanctions should be dealt with by the personnel Department of the company. (3) personal injury accident occurs, the direct punishment 500-1000, who is directly responsible for the accident responsibility, give notice of criticism and 50-100 economic sanctions against them. (4) to conceal the accident, reported without undue delay or false, to inform the administrative leadership of the criticism, resulting in serious consequences, the pursuit of leadership, along with 500-1000 punishment. (5) significant near miss should be attempted as the case of responsible for the accident and construction team injuries accident penalty provisions, mutatis mutandis. Eight, should perform in the construction standards and specifications, serial number a 1 GB3323-2005 steel fusion welded butt joints, welding engineering-Ray lighting and quality rating of 2 GB11345-89 steel welds manual methods of ultrasonic inspection and testing results for grade 3 GB50236-2002 industrial pipe welding engineering code for construction and acceptance of field equipment 4 HGJ222-92 technical specification for welding of aluminium and its alloys 5 low temperature steel welding procedure 6 SH3525-2004 petrochemical JB/ T4708-2000 of welding procedure qualification for steel pressure vessels 7 JB/4709-2000 8 JB4730-2005 pressure vessel welding procedures of steel pressure vessel NDT 9 JB/T4744-2000 steel pressure vessel products mechanical properties test of welded plate II, mechanical equipment installation engineering 1 GB150-98 2 GB50128-2005 vertical cylindrical steel pressure vessel steel welded tank code for construction and acceptance of 3 JB/ T4735-1997 steel welded