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Six Habits of Merely
Effective Negotiators
by James K. Sebenius
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How to sharpen your
deal-making skills?
Master the art of
letting the other guy
have your way.
T H E I D E A
High stakes. Intense pressure. Careless mis-
takes. These can turn your key negotiations
into disasters. Even seasoned negotiators bun-
gle deals, leaving money on the table and dam-
aging working relationships.
Why? During negotiations, six common mis-
takes can distract you from your real purpose:
getting the other guy to choose what you
want—for his own reasons.
Avoid negotiation pitfalls by mastering the art
of letting the other guy have your way—everyone
will win.
Six Habits of Merely Effective Negotiators
NEGOTIATION MISTAKES
1. Neglecting the other side’s problem. If you
don’t understand the deal from the other
side’s perspective, you can’t solve his problem
or yours.
E X A M P L E :
A technology company that created a cheap, accu-
rate way of detecting gas-tank leaks couldn’t sell
its product. Why? EPA regulations permitted leaks
of up to 1,500 gallons, while this new technology
detected 8-ounce leaks. Fearing the device would
spawn regulatory trouble, potential customers
said,“No deal!”
2. Letting price bulldoze other interests. Most
deals involve interests besides price:
• a positive working relationship, crucial in
longer-term deals
• the social contract, or “spirit of the deal,”
including goodwill and shared expectations
• the deal-making process—personal,
respectful, and fair to both sides
Price-centric tactics leave these potential joint
gains unrealized.
3. Letting positions drive out interests.
Incompatible positions may mask compatible
interests. Your gain isn’t necessarily your
“opponent’s” loss.
E X A M P L E :
Environmentalists and farmers opposed a power
company’s proposed dam. Yet compatible inter-
ests underlay these seemingly irreconcilable posi-
tions: Farmers wanted water flow; environmental-
ists, wildlife protection; the power company, a
greener image. By agreeing to a smaller dam,
water-flow guarantees, and habitat conservation,
everyone won.
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4. Searching too hard for common ground.
While common ground helps negotiations,
different interests can give each party what it
values most, at minimum cost to the other.
E X A M P L E :
An acquirer and entrepreneur disagree on the
entrepreneurial company’s likely future. To satisfy
their differing interests, the buyer agrees to pay a
fixed amount now and contingent amount later,
based on future performance. Both find the deal
more attractive than walking away.
5. Neglecting BATNAs (“best alternative to a
negotiated agreement”). BATNAs represent
your actions if the proposed deal weren’t pos-
sible; e.g., walk away, approach another buyer.
Assessing your own and your partner’s
BATNA reveals surprising possibilities.
E X A M P L E :
A company hoping to sell a struggling division for
somewhat more than its $7 million value had two
fiercely competitive bidders. Speculating each
might pay an inflated price to trump the other, the
seller ensured each knew its rival was looking. The
division’s selling price? $45 million.
6. Failing to correct for skewed vision. Two
forms of bias can prompt errors:
• Role bias—overcommitting to your own
point of view and interpreting information
in self-serving ways. A plaintiff believes he
has a 70% chance of winning his case, while
the defense puts the odds at 50%. Result?
Unlikelihood of out-of-court settlement.
• Partisan perceptions—painting your side with
positive qualities, while vilifying your “oppo-
nent.” Self-fulfilling prophecies may result.
Counteract these biases with role-plays of the
opposition’s interests.
T H E I D E A A T W O R K
I N B R I E F
Like many
executives,
you know
a lot about
negotiating.
But still
you fall prey
to a set of
common
errors.
The best
defense is
staying
focused on
the right
problem
to solve.
by James K. Sebenius
lobal deal makers did a staggering $3.3 trillion
worth of M&A transactions in 1999 – and that’s only
a fraction of the capital that passed through negotia-
tors’ hands that year. Behind the deal-driven headlines, exec-
utives endlessly negotiate with customers and suppliers, with
large shareholders and creditors, with prospective joint ven-
ture and alliance partners, with people inside their companies
and across national borders. Indeed, wherever parties with
different interests and perceptions depend on each other for
results, negotiation matters. Little wonder that Bob Davis, vice
chairman of Terra Lycos, has said that companies “have to
make deal making a core competency.”
Luckily, whether from schoolbooks or the school of hard
knocks, most executives know the basics of negotiation; some
are spectacularly adept. Yet high stakes and intense pressure
can result in costly mistakes. Bad habits creep in, and experi-
ence can further ingrain those habits. Indeed, when I reflect on
the thousands of negotiations I have participated in and stud-
ied over the years, I’m struck by how frequently even experi-
enced negotiators leave money on the table, deadlock, dam-
age relationships, or allow conflict to spiral. (For more on the
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SIX HABITS
OF
Merely
Effective
NEGOTIATORS
G
rich theoretical understanding of negotiations developed
by researchers over the past fifty years, see the sidebar
“Academics Take a Seat at the Negotiating Table.”)
There are as many specific reasons for bad outcomes in
negotiations as there are individuals and deals. Yet broad
classes of errors recur. In this article, I’ll explore those
mistakes, comparing good negotiating practice with bad.
But first, let’s take a closer look at the right negotiation
problem that your approach must solve.
Solving the Right Negotiation
Problem
In any negotiation, each side ultimately must choose be-
tween two options: accepting a deal or taking its best
no-deal option – that is, the course of action it would take
if the deal were not possible. As a negotiator, you seek
to advance the full set of your
interests by persuading the
other side to say yes–and mean
it – to a proposal that meets
your interests better than your
best no-deal option does. And
why should the other side say
yes? Because the deal meets its
own interests better than its
best no-deal option. So, while
protecting your own choice,
your negotiation problem is to
understand and shape your counterpart’s perceived deci-
sion – deal versus no deal – so that the other side chooses
in its own interest what you want. As Italian diplomat
Daniele Vare said long ago about diplomacy, negotiation
is “the art of letting them have your way.”
This approach may seem on the surface like a recipe for
manipulation. But in fact, understanding your counter-
part’s interests and shaping the decision so the other side
agrees for its own reasons is the key to jointly creating and
claiming sustainable value from a negotiation. Yet even
experienced negotiators make six common mistakes that
keep them from solving the right problem.
MISTAKE 1
Neglecting the Other Side’s Problem
You can’t negotiate effectively unless you understand
your own interests and your own no-deal options. So far,
so good – but there’s much more to it than that. Since the
other side will say yes for its reasons, not yours, agree-
ment requires understanding and addressing your coun-
terpart’s problem as a means to solving your own.
At a minimum, you need to understand the problem
from the other side’s perspective. Consider a technology
company, whose board of directors pressed hard to de-
velop a hot new product shortly after it went public. The
company had developed a technology for detecting leaks
in underground gas tanks that was both cheaper and
about 100 times more accurate than existing technologies–
at a time when the Environmental Protection Agency was
persuading Congress to mandate that these tanks be con-
tinuously tested. Not surprisingly, the directors thought
their timing was perfect and pushed employees to com-
mercialize and market the technology in time to meet the
demand. To their dismay, the company’s first sale turned
out to be its only one. Quite a mystery, since the tech-
nology worked, the product was less expensive, and the
regulations did come through. Imagine the sales en-
gineers confidently negotiating with a customer for a
new order: “This technology costs less and is more ac-
curate than the competition’s.” Think for a moment,
though, about how intended buyers might mull over
their interests, especially given that EPA regulations per-
mitted leaks of up to 1,500 gal-
lons while the new technology
could pick up an 8-ounce leak.
Potential buyer: “What a tech-
nological tour de force! This
handy new device will almost
certainly get me into need-
less, expensive regulatory trou-
ble. And create P.R. problems
too. I think I’ll pass, but my
competition should definitely
have it.” From the technology
company’s perspective,“faster, better, cheaper”added up
to a sure deal; to the other side, it looked like a headache.
No deal.
Social psychologists have documented the difficulty
most people have understanding the other side’s per-
spective. From the trenches, successful negotiators concur
that overcoming this self-centered tendency is critical. As
Millennium Pharmaceuticals’Steve Holtzman put it after
a string of deals vaulted his company from a start-up in
1993 to a major player with a $10.6 billion market cap
today, “We spend a lot of time thinking about how the
poor guy or woman on the other side of the table is going
to have to go sell this deal to his or her boss. We spend
a lot of time trying to understand how they are modeling
it.” And Wayne Huizenga, veteran of more than a thou-
sand deals building Waste Management, AutoNation, and
Blockbuster, distilled his extensive experience into basic
advice that is often heard but even more often forgotten.
88 harvard business review
Six Habits of Merely Effective Negotiators
James K. Sebenius is the Gordon Donaldson Professor of
Business Administration at Harvard Business School in Bos-
ton, where he led the creation of the negotiation unit. He
helped found and worked at the Blackstone Group, a New
York investment banking and private equity firm. He is co-
author with David Lax of the forthcoming book 3-D Nego-
tiation: Creating and Claiming Value for the Long Term.
Your negotiation problem
is to understand and shape
your counterpart’s perceived
decision so that the
other side chooses in its
own interest what you want.
april 2001 89
Six Habits of Merely Effective Negotiators
Early in his deal-making career at Cisco
Systems, Mike Volpi, now chief strategy
officer, had trouble completing proposed
deals, his “outward confidence”often mis-
taken for arrogance. Many acquisitions
later, a colleague observed that “the most
important part of [Volpi’s] development
is that he learned power doesn’t come
from telling people you are powerful. He
went from being a guy driving the deal
from his side of the table to the guy who
understood the deal from the other side.”
An associate of Rupert Murdoch re-
marked that, as a buyer, Murdoch “un-
derstands the seller – and, whatever the
guy’s trying to do, he crafts his offer that
way.” If you want to change someone’s
mind, you should first learn where that
person’s mind is. Then, together, you can
try to build what my colleague Bill Ury
calls a “golden bridge,” spanning the gulf
between where your counterpart is now
and your desired end point. This is much
more effective than trying to shove the
other side from its position to yours. As
an eighteenth-century pope once noted
about Cardinal de Polignac’s remarkable
diplomatic skills,“This young man always
seems to be of my opinion [at the start of
a negotiation], and at the end of the con-
versation I find that I am of his.” In short,
the first mistake is to focus on your own
problem, exclusively. Solve the other
side’s as the means to solving your own.
MISTAKE 2
Letting Price Bulldoze Other
Interests
Negotiators who pay attention exclu-
sively to price turn potentially coopera-
tive deals into adversarial ones. These
“reverse Midas” negotiators, as I like to
call them, use hard-bargaining tactics that
often leave potential joint gains unreal-
ized. That’s because, while price is an im-
portant factor in most deals, it’s rarely the only one. As
Felix Rohatyn, former managing partner of the invest-
ment bank, Lazard Frères, observed,“Most deals are 50%
emotion and 50% economics.”
There’s a large body of research to support Rohatyn’s
view. Consider, for example, a simplified negotiation, ex-
tensively studied in academic labs, involving real money.
One party is given, say, $100 to divide with another party
as she likes; the second party can agree or disagree to the
Paralleling the growth in real-world negotiation, several generationsof researchers have deepened our understanding of the process.
In the 1950s and 1960s, elements of hard (win-lose) bargaining were iso-
lated and refined: how to set aggressive targets, start high, concede
slowly, and employ threats, bluffs, and commitments to positions with-
out triggering an impasse or escalation. By the early 1980s, with the
win-win revolution popularized by the book Getting to Yes (by Roger
Fisher, William Ury, and Bruce Patton), the focus shifted from battling
over the division of the pie to the means of expanding it by uncovering
and reconciling underlying interests. More sophisticated analysis in
Howard Raiffa’s Art and Science of Negotiation soon transcended this
simplistic “win-win versus win-lose” debate; the pie obviously had to be
both expanded and divided. In The Manager as Negotiator (by David Lax
and James Sebenius), new guidance emerged on productively manag-
ing the tension between the cooperative moves necessary to create
value and the competitive moves involved in claiming it. As the 1990s
progressed with work such as Negotiating Rationally (by Max Bazerman
and Margaret Neale), the behavioral study of negotiation – describing
how people actually negotiate – began to merge with the game theo-
retic approach, which prescribed how fully rational people should ne-
gotiate. This new synthesis – developing the best possible advice with-
out assuming strictly rational behavior – is producing rich insights in
negotiations ranging from simple two-party, one-shot, single-issue situ-
ations through complex coalitional dealings over multiple issues over
time, where internal negotiations must be synchronized with external
ones. Negotiation courses that explore these ideas have always been
popular options at business schools, but reflecting the growing recog-
nition of their importance, these courses are beginning to be required
as part of MBA core programs at schools such as Harvard. Rather than
a special skill for making major deals or resolving disputes, negotia-
tion has become a way of life for effective executives.
A C A D E M I C S TA K E A S E AT
AT T H E N E G O T I AT I N G TA B L E
“In all my years of doing deals, a few rules and lessons
have emerged. Most important, always try to put yourself
in the other person’s shoes. It’s vital to try to understand in
depth what the other side really wants out of the deal.”
Tough negotiators sometimes see the other side’s con-
cerns but dismiss them: “That’s their problem and their
issue. Let them handle it. We’ll look after our own prob-
lems.” This attitude can undercut your ability to prof-
itably influence how your counterpart sees its problem.
arrangement. If he agrees, the $100 is divided in line with
the first side’s proposal; if not, neither party gets anything.
A pure price logic would suggest proposing something
like $99 for me, $1 for you. Although this is an extreme al-
location, it still represents a position in which your coun-
terpart gets something rather than nothing. Pure price ne-
gotiators confidently predict the other side will agree to
the split; after all, they’ve been offered free money – it’s
like finding a dollar on the street and putting it in your
pocket. Who wouldn’t pick it up?
In reality, however, most players turn down proposals
that don’t let them share in at least 35% to 40% of the
bounty – even when much larger stakes are involved and
the amount they forfeit is significant. While these rejec-
tions are “irrational”on a pure price basis and virtually in-
comprehensible to reverse Midas types, studies show that
when a split feels too unequal to people, they reject the
spoils as unfair, are offended by the process, and perhaps
try to teach the “greedy” person a lesson.
An important real-world message is embedded in these
lab results: people care about much more than the ab-
solute level of their own economic outcome; competing
interests include relative results, perceived fairness, self-
image, reputation, and so on. Successful negotiators, ac-
knowledging that economics aren’t everything, focus on
four important nonprice factors.
The Relationship. Less experienced negotiators often
undervalue the importance of developing working rela-
tionships with the other
parties, putting the rela-
tionships at risk by overly
tough tactics or simple
neglect. This is especially
true in cross-border deals.
In much of Latin Amer-
ica, southern Europe, and
Southeast Asia, for exam-
ple, relationships – rather
than transactions – can
be the predominant ne-
gotiating interest when
working out longer term deals. Results-oriented North
Americans, Northern Europeans, and Australians often
come to grief by underestimating the strength of this in-
terest and insisting prematurely that the negotiators “get
down to business.”
The Social Contract. Similarly, negotiators tend to
focus on the economic contract – equity splits, cost shar-
ing, governance, and so on – at the expense of the social
contract, or the “spirit of a deal.” Going well beyond a
good working relationship, the social contract governs
people’s expectations about the nature, extent, and du-
ration of the venture, about process, and about the way
unforeseen events will be handled. Especially in new ven-
tures and strategic alliances, where goodwill and strong
shared expectations are extremely important, negotiating
a positive social contract is an important way to reinforce
economic contracts. Scurrying to check founding docu-
ments when conflicts occur, which they inevitably do, can
signal a badly negotiated social contract.
The Process. Negotiators often forget that the deal-
making process can be as important as its content. The
story is told of the young Tip O’Neill, who later became
Speaker of the House, meeting an elderly constituent on
the streets of his North Cambridge, Massachusetts, dis-
trict. Surprised to learn that she was not planning to
vote for him, O’Neill probed, “Haven’t you known me
and my family all my life?”“Yes.”“Haven’t I cut your grass
in summer and shoveled your walk in winter?” “Yes.”
“Don’t you agree with all my policies and positions?”
“Yes.” “Then why aren’t you going to vote for me?” “Be-
cause you didn’t ask me to.” Considerable academic re-
search confirms what O’Neill learned from this conversa-
tion: process counts. What’s more, sustainable results are
more often reached when all parties perceive the process
as personal, respectful, straightforward, and fair.1
The Interests of the Full Set of Players. Less expe-
rienced negotiators sometimes become mesmerized by
the aggregate economics of a deal and forget about the
interests of pla
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